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Not for the faint hearted.... Frank answers only..

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change · 14/11/2005 12:07

Please this is a very serious message but very frank, so please only respond if you are 100% honest.

Many thanks

I have a dd of 10months. Dp and i split up a few months back and i recently have found a new partner.
When i was pregnant we read that if a man were to go down on you it could be very unpleasent for them as your body is changing and adjusting (smelly and tasting fowle). Before children there was never a problem with me tasting or smelling different but when i fell pregnant it was pretty rank for my partner. We were put off.
But now i am in another relationship and i am still breast feeding and will be for the next 8 months. I am worried that maybe it would still not be nice down there. It is going to be extremely disgusting if the 1st time he tries it, it is just disgusting for him.
I know i have been very explicite but it is because i can not ask any of my friends and would rather ask strangers.

If you want to respond can you tell me if when you are breast feeding that everything goes back to normal down there, maybe ask your partners if you can.

(I want to be a flower again)

Thanks yous

OP posts:
Rhubarb · 16/11/2005 21:27

Don't tell your ex - he'll be wondering why every woman he beds has a whiffy whatsit! (see how discreet that was!)

HappyMumof2 · 16/11/2005 21:33

Message withdrawn

sunchowder · 16/11/2005 21:41

That's what I thought those round hairbrushes were for HMum!

change · 16/11/2005 21:41

Thats why it didn't trigger with me either. I did not have itching. Maybe because i have had it for so long. Me and my ex have not had a relationship for a year now. So that is why probably some of you thought it was a bit soon to have met someone else, i wanted to be on my own but this guy came from no-where and things clicked like never before. And just needed some advice on my personal matters.

I will not be messaging again on this subject, but thanks.
Good night

OP posts:
steph1974 · 17/11/2005 10:59

Wow amazingly thats the same as me,I had thrush when I was pregnant two years ago,and for a while after I was still sleeping with my ex,I kept giving him thrush,then I would get treated and then he would give it me back again!It didnt itch either,just a bit messy,yuk!I've been given a sh*t load of Canestan too!

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