Not for the faint hearted.... Frank answers only..

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Please this is a very serious message but very frank, so please only respond if you are 100% honest.

Many thanks

I have a dd of 10months. Dp and i split up a few months back and i recently have found a new partner.
When i was pregnant we read that if a man were to go down on you it could be very unpleasent for them as your body is changing and adjusting (smelly and tasting fowle). Before children there was never a problem with me tasting or smelling different but when i fell pregnant it was pretty rank for my partner. We were put off.
But now i am in another relationship and i am still breast feeding and will be for the next 8 months. I am worried that maybe it would still not be nice down there. It is going to be extremely disgusting if the 1st time he tries it, it is just disgusting for him.
I know i have been very explicite but it is because i can not ask any of my friends and would rather ask strangers.

If you want to respond can you tell me if when you are breast feeding that everything goes back to normal down there, maybe ask your partners if you can.

(I want to be a flower again)

Thanks yous

Sorry, but she's asking people to be frank and 100% honest, it's not the same as asking for reassurance. She wants people to be as graphic as she has. If it is a serious question, then the answer is either, yes it goes back to normal or no it doesn't.

There have been many explicit sex threads on here and I usually don't bother with any them, cause I'm not that explicit myself! But this one just caught my attention and I must admit I found myself thinking 'troll' as I read it. Dunno why exactly, just a few things that didn't seem to add up. If she is genuine then I will happily eat my words. I have no probs with people asking advice on sex or whatever, but this one gives me a funny feeling. Perhaps Tech could put my mind at rest....

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You shouldn't smell (or taste!) foul down there at all...... unless you have an infection.

Given that infections down there following childbirth aren't uncommon, I'd suggest a visit to your practice nurse or GP for a check up and possibly a smear.

This has all got a bit heated hasn't it???
I can't comment as I am extremely strange and go right off sex from the minute I conceive

I see what you mean Rhubarb, I guess I am sometimes quite naive when it comes to other people's posts.

Like you say people are more open than others but if that is the case then maybe she should have spoke to someone who is closer to her than on here as if it was me I think I would have firstly spoken to my partner and then to a close friend!!!

Have confused myself now!!!

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go to the docs and get checked out
agree with other probably infection
coz
minges dont smell,
mens fandango's do

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i'd have asked u girls - but oral and PG - erm ewwwwwww sorry wouldn't go in for that/expect my DH to want to!

sex now that's a different matter no prob with sex!

I read this thread when no one had posted, but wanted to see what you lot said first.

I agree that if this person is not a troll then they should get seen asap as it shouldn't smell bad.

me too tegan, sex was the last thing on my mind when pg and after birth. when I found out i was pg with ds1 dh went 18 months without it

Evil woman eh!!!!!! na just shit scared

Sorry change i too aint ina position to comment but good luck anyways

me too tegan, sex was the last thing on my mind when pg and after birth. when I found out i was pg with ds1 dh went 18 months without it

Evil woman eh!!!!!! na just shit scared

Sorry change i too aint ina position to comment but good luck anyways

Can't say I am a big lover of it either, good old fashioned bonking does it for me too!!!

Perhaps you ought to put the sexy stuff on hold for a while til you are a bit more confident in yourself/can talk to you new P about it.....I'd be more worried about my boobs leaking whilst at it with the new P!!

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Have just heard from MN towers that this is a genuine poster using a changed name, so apologies all round change....

I'd say 'Frank'

I have noticed a different smell since being pg, not unpleasant but just different to normal. Any unpleasant smell should be looked into by the doc and providing you can't smell it and wash regularly then I am sure you smell just fine

I think you need to talk to your partner about it - after all, if you're close enough to be having sex then you're close enough to be talking about it too. Tell him that you're worried that it might be unpleasant for him, give him the chance to prove you wrong!

If he finds he doesn't like it then there's more than one way to skin a cat (so to speak) - there are plenty of other things that you can do for each other.

And as others have said, if you really think that you're smelly or unpleasant down there, go and get it checked out by the GP.

taste it?

(not something i would do but still....)

ewwwwwwwwwwwwww tamba

JoolsToo - very clever!

She's got a point though Munz - rather that than embarrass yourself.

lol - yeah but still ewwwwwwwww! lol - althou could u really expect ur DH?P to taste it if u don't??? EWWWWWWWWW! lol.

But surely her idea of what tastes 'wrong' or unpleasant would be completely irrelevant ? Unless she has ever tasted it before or tasted someone elses then she would have no idea what 'normal' tastes like, IYSWIM ?!