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Not for the faint hearted.... Frank answers only..

180 replies

change · 14/11/2005 12:07

Please this is a very serious message but very frank, so please only respond if you are 100% honest.

Many thanks

I have a dd of 10months. Dp and i split up a few months back and i recently have found a new partner.
When i was pregnant we read that if a man were to go down on you it could be very unpleasent for them as your body is changing and adjusting (smelly and tasting fowle). Before children there was never a problem with me tasting or smelling different but when i fell pregnant it was pretty rank for my partner. We were put off.
But now i am in another relationship and i am still breast feeding and will be for the next 8 months. I am worried that maybe it would still not be nice down there. It is going to be extremely disgusting if the 1st time he tries it, it is just disgusting for him.
I know i have been very explicite but it is because i can not ask any of my friends and would rather ask strangers.

If you want to respond can you tell me if when you are breast feeding that everything goes back to normal down there, maybe ask your partners if you can.

(I want to be a flower again)

Thanks yous

OP posts:
Chloe55 · 14/11/2005 15:34

Hate it and so does DH so no thanks!

munz · 14/11/2005 15:36

urghhhhhh DM - that food should be banned along with pot noodles and hot dogs's out of a tin! lol.
asparagas (sp) never tasted it either!

munz · 14/11/2005 15:36

creme egg!

doormat · 14/11/2005 15:37

we dont like it neither but just reminded me of the advert with the fella scrunching his face up

sunchowder · 14/11/2005 15:39

the asapargas was a follow-along to the urine thread.....

morningpaper · 14/11/2005 15:41

I'm sure there's an idea for a Marmite advert here...

munz · 14/11/2005 15:46

what urine thread? surely u're wee doesn't change smell/taste?

Chloe55 · 14/11/2005 15:47

It does - and if you eat too much beetroot it goes red too!

Nbg · 14/11/2005 15:49

Marmite, chocolate, asparagus, onion and creme egg sales are gonna soar after this thread.

Tamba · 14/11/2005 15:49

Chloe - dont tell me youve tasted your own wee too!!!lol

QueenEagle · 14/11/2005 15:51

Ok ok I take it back - having read the other thread I have sussed who tamba is.....sorry tamba I now know you aren't a troll after all!

munz · 14/11/2005 15:53

urghhh! no seriously tasting ur own pee? - anyones pee- urghhhhhhh! ewwwwwwwww! lol. I know puke goes red if u eat beetroot! not that I did that! lol.

Chloe55 · 14/11/2005 15:53

Erm no, I actually draw the line at tasting my own wee

doormat · 14/11/2005 15:54

munz re the beetroot
I once went to the docs as I had red wee, she asked me if I had eaten beetroot and I I did
I felt a right pillock

munz · 14/11/2005 15:54

lol - ok stepping away now for a nice cup of tea!

munz · 14/11/2005 15:55

ROFL@ doormat! seriously! lol. god the shame!

Chloe55 · 14/11/2005 15:56

Hee hee, just realised I actually did answer the question about wee tasting different with different foods as 'yes it does'

Chloe55 · 14/11/2005 15:56

I haven't - HONEST!

doormat · 14/11/2005 15:57

seriously
would never taste weee eeuuugghhh

munz · 14/11/2005 15:57

lol well I did wonder chloe! lol - x'ed post don't worry! - unless u have and then urghh! lol.

Rhubarb · 14/11/2005 18:30

Sorry Change - but your post did read funny! Why not wait until you've stopped breastfeeding? Oral sex isn't the be all and end all you know, and he might not even be thinking in that way! Most men prefer it the other way round you know!

Chloe55 - and I thought you were such a nice girl!

Springchicken · 14/11/2005 18:32

thanks for bumping this rhubarb. Wanted to see what the evening viewers thought.

What are you thinking then change ?

Tamba · 14/11/2005 19:06

I asked dh and he said that it didnt really have a taste as such and that if it tasted horrible he would be sending me down to the docs asap

Original poster
change · 14/11/2005 19:06

Well i would like to thank those of you that were honest. I have not read them all as i got pretty angry that i could not even ask a question that was very personal to me. I see peoples answers on here all the time having a go at people. Maybe you should only respond to people if you can really help not if you just want to bitch.
Maybe i am just the lucky one. My partner and i split and i have now found a new love. I say good for me. I can not go to my freinds as i find it embarrassing enough coming on here. But at least no-one knows who i am. (thank god) Maybe some of you really have a hang up on sex now that you have your 2.4 kids.
I wanted you to be 100% honest as i did not want people to lie and to just say don't worry about it. I wanted answers from those who had experienced it too. Thats all.

OP posts:
Tamba · 14/11/2005 19:18

OK Change

Serious answer now -

I asked my dh if he had noticed a difference between me being pregnant/not being pregnant/breast feeding - he said none that he could remember

Why dont you try having a nice bath and then settling down with your dp - it cant possibly taste bad straight after a bath i dont think?