Okay, so it's about time. And I need help

[ohshitithinkitsthattime]

But I'm going to test namechange first.

i think you should go ahead with your plans to separate.....tell your mother and brother afterwards

you've done your best,its not working....time to move on....

i've done the whole leaving thing.....the ex was devastated,but he got over it....your will do too

lots of support here for you!!

Don't know if you've heard of the Freedom Programme OP. It's a brilliant programme for anyone who is/has been in an abusive relationship. There are classes all around the country, bound to be one near you. I just get a feeling your relationship may be abusive - you could at least check it out. Total confidentiality assured.

Hope you're ok OP

Hi ohshit just wondering how you are, hope all is calm and you are gathering your strength.