We've been invited to a wedding. DP is going to DJ for a bit - when he mentioned this this morning I said 'ohhh, I hate that - it means I'm going to be on my own for hours'. I didn't get really upset about it just said it in a normal voice. I'll only know 2 people and the bride and groom and I don't know those 4 people very well so...... Anyway DP's instant reaction was to say 'don't come then I'll take X', a mutual friend to him and groom etc. I replied that I knew when it came to it I'd be fine but if he'd rather take his friend then... and he didn't argue with that just said 'well do you want to go or not'. I told him it was his decision who he chooses to take, (even though the invite is to the 2 of us and our DD). Anyway just spoke to him about something just now and he said again 'so do you want to come'! I'm feeling really peed off about this as it would seem to me that he'd rather take his mate, as he bought it up so quickly as soon as he saw a window of opportunity (me saying I wasn't over the moon at the being on my own while he DJ'd) and has bought it up again, even though I've never said I didn't want to go.
Sorry - I know this is rambled and a rant - but would you be upset / angry that your DP /DH very much seemed to want to take a friend to a wedding rather than you. I personally think it's a bit outrageous and thought that's what stag nights were for.
Once again I call upon Mumsnetters to either help me see reason and calm me down or confirm that my DP is being a b@5t@rd!