He is in pieces, didn't expect that reaction

[domeafavour]

Just one of the threads here
solicitor cancelled today and friends cancelled on sat night, so was actually going to try to get through Christmas, but just had huge row and I told him I had had enough.
He knows I mean it and is now begging, saying he will do anything.
I think he is only saying it because he has realised he will lose his son, but he is broken.
I know there is no good time for these things, but he has seriously had a shit week.
Talking about staying at home alone for Xmas and skyping ds when we are at my parents.

help me be strong and stick to my guns. My resolve is weakening.
I know this is manipulation but it's working.
I'm so tired.

I have my solicitor appt tomorrow

I have some thoughts about questions, but can't get a list together in my head.

Anyone any tips?

I'm thinking
how to get him out of the house

what the norm is re selling the house, or him getting a flat

how to remain amicable, ha ha

how to ensure my son stays in UK, passport issues etc.

Access issues, how to resolve, if he stresses about putting him to bed, bath, in fact everything

and what to do when things get nasty

dome, I don't have practical experience

those questions sound good as a start

could you try one of the "lone parent" type threads (am sure there must be ladies there who have gone through some awful shit), or the "narcissism" threads ?

I know there are several knowledgable people on here who have posted about passports and ensuring a child isn't hoicked off overseas - worth starting a thread on I'd say.