what would you make of this?

[allgonetitsup]

ok, so i've just been having a clearout and was looking through dhs old briefcase before i threw it. found an old work diary, and flicked thru it,and have found diffrent womens names in it with the initials o.s. ,f.s, or a.s.
could there possibly be a reasonable explanation??

oral sex?=os....maybe?

I guess there could be any amount of explanations. But my cynical mind says, oral sex, full sex and anal sex.

Probably fantasy though. How old is the diary? Can you think back to a bad time then?

How old is the diary? is if from before you were married?

thats what i thought oral, full and anal?

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Why not ask him?

its from 2 years ago starting the first week in jan. and then 2 /3 times a week sometimes till just before we got married in june

You'll have to ask him I think.

Do you know any of these women?

Same women all the way through or lots of different ones?

Doesn't sound good I'm afraid - can you find any other diaries of his?

dont recognise any names,no, i'm thinking prostitutes.

But why would he keep a record like that? If he was seeing other women, he'd be unlikely to enter their name and the activity into a work diary, wouldn't he?

I'm generally in suspicious mode, but just can't see what this could be. Wouldn't he be more likely to remember to meet someone than to keep a record of his meeting?

Don't jump to conclusions! It could just as easily be Ordinance Survery, Funny Smell and Accidental Slip.

He's not a surveyor, or a health and safety officer, is he?

So they say, for example:

Laura OS

?

What job does he do? Might that offer a clue (first session, open session, etc just guessing?)

If this is indeed references to sex then it sounds like total fantasy to me. Unless he was visiting prostitutes, in which case why would he know their names, it's hardly realistic that he slept with different women 2-3 times a week while you were in a relationship. And I don't believe many people in real life have anal sex.

Even if it's fantasy, not nice for you at all though. Sorry.

What type of job does he do? Are any surnames mentioned?

Do you remember what you were doing on any of those dates?

Are there any phone numbers?

If they were prostitutes, then quite a bit of money would've been disappearing - you say it was before you married - were you saving up to get married? Did you know what he earned and spent his money on?

You need to talk to him instead of agonising over it on MN and soon before you go mad wondering could be work related , ask him ?

I recall a similar thread not too long ago, can't remember the outcome though, sure someone will remember.

and you still call him DH,northern?