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what would you make of this?

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allgonetitsup · 18/10/2010 15:13

ok, so i've just been having a clearout and was looking through dhs old briefcase before i threw it. found an old work diary, and flicked thru it,and have found diffrent womens names in it with the initials o.s. ,f.s, or a.s.
could there possibly be a reasonable explanation?? Hmm

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NorthernSky · 18/10/2010 15:44

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GypsyMoth · 18/10/2010 15:47

northern.....its great to hear a positive outcome. it really is.

RunnerHasbeen · 18/10/2010 15:48

The S couldn't stand for Street could it - with his work having offices in different places, I think, as it is a work diary, you need to give us some idea of what he does for a job - then we can guess if it is anything innocent.

SolidButShamblingUndeadBrass · 18/10/2010 15:52

Unless you have some other reasons to suspect this man of wrongdoing FFS don't start prying and panicking and hurling accusations around. Because if those abbreviations do stand for something like Archway Street, Old Street and Frith Street and the women are clients or colleagues, then he is going to be angry and offended that you have made such assumptions, and he he will be justified.

BalloonSlayer · 18/10/2010 15:53

Does he have office branches in different areas of a city?

I used to work for a company which did, and had offices at Old Street and one in Fleet Street. Might have had one even in a street beginning with A but can't recall . . .

BrianAndHisBalls · 18/10/2010 15:54

alarka = lots of people have anal sex. Lots.

Sorry for hijack op.

I too remember a thread similar to this a while back but cant remember outcome.

Fingers crossed for you x

DuelingFanjo · 18/10/2010 16:01

I remember the other thread too. Someone found a piece of paper in her DP/DH's bag IIRC?

BrianAndHisBalls · 18/10/2010 16:03

with numbers on it i think maybe?? and weird letters?

NorthernSky · 18/10/2010 16:03

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DuelingFanjo · 18/10/2010 16:05

the other thread

BrianAndHisBalls · 18/10/2010 16:06

jesus christ northern you're a better woman than me, i'd have killed him and buried him under patio Sad

ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:15

I remember a very similar thread too

ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:17

NS...I am blown away by your matter-of-fact attitude towards the most heinous of behaviour displayed by your husband

how the hell did you get to such a state of acceptance ?

ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:17

oh, also wanted to rubbish that silly statement made upthread who said "hardly anyone does anal sex"

ust because you don't, love...

ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:18

just

DuelingFanjo · 18/10/2010 16:22

Scaryfucker, I have linked to the other thread in my last post. You posted on it a lot, in response to SassySusan strangely enough. Which makes me wonder... If you see what I mean?

ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:24

thanks for the link to the other hread, DF

that is an interesting one Grin

it finishes on a high note, doesn't it Wink

NorthernSky · 18/10/2010 16:28

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ScaryFucker · 18/10/2010 16:33

NS , I actually think your husband is the luckiest man in the world

I hope he acknowledges it

DF ...curious huh ? We had a right old barney on that thread, if my memory serves me correctly. It's hard to remember, what with all the deleted posts, but even with the deletions I know who came out looking best Grin

Hindsight eh ? Grin

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Tootlesmummy · 18/10/2010 20:09

Allgone, have you managed to speak to DH re the diary?

allgonetitsup · 19/10/2010 00:53

not spoke to him about it yet, had a busy evening with kids etc.
theres no doubt in my mind what it means though. In feb.this year i found a massage parlour saved in his favourites and when i checked his phone he had called it a few days before. Sad
cue huge row, i asked him to leave and he spent the night in a hotel. said he had not visited m.p. was just 'curious' but wouldnt have taken it any further.
which i believed, but after finding this now am not so sure.
re- initials, thats how they advertise what they 'offer' on the website -o.s.,a.s, f.s. plus others i cant even work out! Confused

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Tootlesmummy · 19/10/2010 00:58

Oh dear, this isn't sounding too great with this additional piece of information.

I have my fingers crossed for you, and remember we're here for you. Sending hugs.

LilMsUnfortunateAxeIncident · 19/10/2010 01:03

titsup indeed!

Fingers crossed this all has a happily explained ending