ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No.7

[startingovernow]

Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us!

Whether you are a new dumpling or a vet, feel free to join us in our quest for serenity. ...........

Think I will grasp any opportunity with both hands

Ok we need a plan, obviously my plan is to attract potential RL jiggy jiggers to new business premises under false pretences ,i have bought a whole new wardrobe of clothes for this very purpose.

Great and will we all be invited?

Oh definately LOL!

Will organise a launch party with cocktails and nibbles !!!

evening all

Liking the talk in here lol can i just say to "fill a gap" there's always ann summers

Got to admit even though it's not been long for me i can feel my mojo working overtime but the thought scares the crap out of me!!! but i'm also a fall off the horse get straight back on kinda gal so we'll see

wtg Starting :o

Hope everyone's feeling better today and hope Noahs doing well Tea

Definately agree with Startin re positive bit of being single is the joy of the physical and no expectations ,would imagine by the Spring i will be good to go re the Jiggy part just need to move on from previous gap filler .

OMG I'm so excited. I just booked my tickets for dumpling meet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YIPPEE

Does anyone want me to bring anything from my neck of the woods?? Shout or forever hold your peace.........

P.S. My gap filler remembered that today was our anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!! A week since first date...........

LOL!
Happy hows the cat doin?

evening all.

took ds1 out for dinner tonight just me and him - twas lovely and we both a had a good giggle !!

having said that on the next table was a couple who were clearly having ishoos - it was a controlled argument that went from what pizza they were going to share and then progressed quickly to what was wrong with their relationship - made me really appreciate being out of that drama i can tell you and confirmed that i do not want to rush back to relationships too quickly. i felt grateful for the first time about how i just had to worry about me and kids and that i did not have a bloke who was prone to flouncing to consider in every decision i made

sometimes life just throws in something like that to make you reassess your situation i think

,,,,,,having said that a quick fumble every now and again might be worth looking into.

i have the physical desire just no energy for all the crap that (potentially) comes along with it - of course i am judging relationships on the last one i had and well let's face it that one didn't end well so perhaps my benchmark is all wrong and the normal type of relationship is a hell of a lot better than the one i was in ...

BTW Tea, no need to apologise for prudishness, in the not too distanced past I'd have been scandalised at someone like me . However thanks to copious amounts of counselling & being severely kicked in the boll*ks by xh, I've now morphed into this creature that no longer gives a flying f*k .........

Sov, lol at back in the saddle type of gal.....

have we had details email sent out for the meet if so i have not had it.

I know what you mean AB ,never been in a relationship for just selfish reasons b4 might try it purely from a feminist perspective LOL!Only thing is I'm sure most blokes would find that a turn on ,role reversal kind of way . But it would be purely for research,need to think of a name for such an experiment ,any suggestions?

Sorry AB, the email will come tomorrow. I am just being lazy posting on phone for last few days and not getting laptop out.

Patience, cat is on the road to recovery

Ah good news re cat

wasn't being rude just thought i might have been left of the list

i am rather excited about it you know

Empowered sex for women with attitude ,boundaries ,healthy self esteem and no ishoos LOL!Quite catchy

The study of a recovering co dependant needing to test new relationship skills learnt on MN and through counselling !

Patience, that is exactly the experiment I have been trying out & it's proving to be v successful . As for names it could be called I'm not sure but I do know it was suggested that I might be a hussy by a dumpling that shall remain nameless

This could take me a lifetime to perfect LOL!

AB agree re pizza scenario ,i see it all the time and think SOD that ,PITA of a life !!

how about

I have new skills from MN and I ain't afraid to use them !

or

there's no point pulling your usual lines on me mate, i can see right through you, i do however think you are a bit of alright how about it?

I think the direct approach always works great, give them what they think they want i.e. tell them you dying for a s**g & then when you're satisfied say thanks that was great I'll call you tomorrow & leave immediately, no small talk............then DO NOT CALL THEM. They'll be left wondering wtf & commence to bombard you with calls........... You have em in your hands at that point..........

Btw, this of course is not the approach I use, I'm too much of a lady

Yeah cut the crap chances are ur a useless fuckwit but get your coat youve pulled !!!

I think i might need to practice a bit b4 i am let loose on the general public