He won't be around much then, when I had dd and we were together he went back to work the day after I came out of hospital, never lifted a finger to help (well it is MY house, he HAD been at work all day and I was JUST sat at home all day ) so I'm pretty used to him really!!
I did think he could just have rung for me as I really really can't speak at all (work have already rung me umpteen times even though they can't hear me when I reply!!).
At least it makes me remember why I'm not with him!!