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Inherited Macartney&Stone retirement flat - anyone rented one out?

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damemaggiescurledupperlip · 03/02/2026 13:01

We inherited a one-bed retirement flat from DH's parents over a year ago. It has been listed for sale since then, but no real interest.

An alternative would be to rent it out. Has anyone done this in a Macartney and Stone development?

(I don't want to be a landlord, but the ground rent, service charges and double council tax do stack up. We have lowered the price twice, but nothing in the block is selling.)

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Zov · 21/05/2026 22:05

@Seymour5 I think some McCarthy & Stone are still for rent, otherwise it will be private let I would have thought.

Or I did find these few if they are of any help... They all do renting for people who are retired/of retirement age.

https://www.housing21.org.uk/properties/

https://www.anchor.org.uk/properties-to-rent

https://www.retirementvillages.co.uk/retirement-properties-to-rent/

Zov · 21/05/2026 22:08

Economicsday · 15/02/2026 11:06

@Zov, its a common theme.

My friend had similar with her bachelor uncle, she was harrassed on the phone by a rude as fxxk person in the hospital about him going home with her.

She is soft, but I persuaded her to block the number of the hospital and I wrote an absolute stinker email to the hospital on her behalf, copied lots of people in the hospital randomly, Patient advocacy services etc.,and told them that she would be contacting the media about their abuse of a relative visiting regularly and the presumptuous assumption that they could tell her that she had no choice but to take her Uncle in to her private home.
The cheek of her!

It was a furious, vicious email, quoting and obviously naming the total bitch in bed management that thought she could speak to her like that.

She received an unequivocally apologetic response by email and the assurance that the staff member involved would be going for additional training.

A few years ago another good friends horribly abusive father in law was taken into hospital. She couldn't stand him but her husband would bring groceries to him weekly but was always stressed from seeing him, however briefly.

He was taken into hospital after a fall and the hospital rang to TELL her husband to collect him and bring him home.
Fortunately my friend was with him when the call came and was well able to put a flea in the ear of the woman calling, that there would be no collection of him and not to ring this number again.
She followed up with a stinker email laying out his abuse of her husband, and said they were never to be contacted about him again.
Its two years on and after 40 years her lovely husband is finally letting go of his grief through no contact.
Poor man wishes he had been able to do it years earlier.

When my neighbours husband died 25 years ago and i had 3 small children she asked me about my husband cutting her grass, we have large old gardens.
I asked her about her 3 sons and was told they had "very busy careers"🙄.
I told her VERY firmly but sweetly, that so did MY husband. The cheek of her.
I studiously avoided her for the rest of her days, having gotten the measure of her. Waving and no more after that.

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I'm sorry to hear all of this. ❤

Sorry to take so long to respond too. I never noticed the reponses at the time. I think the thread dropped a bit down my watched threads and I lost track of it, til someone bumped it back up earlier. Wish I had seen the Jeremy Vine Show today. Maybe I can get it on Catch Up On Demand.

SweetBaklava · 21/05/2026 22:35

Zov · 21/05/2026 22:08

I'm sorry to hear all of this. ❤

Sorry to take so long to respond too. I never noticed the reponses at the time. I think the thread dropped a bit down my watched threads and I lost track of it, til someone bumped it back up earlier. Wish I had seen the Jeremy Vine Show today. Maybe I can get it on Catch Up On Demand.

@Zovit was his radio show, you can listen again on BBC Sounds, it’s just over an hour into the show

Zov · 21/05/2026 22:47

SweetBaklava · 21/05/2026 22:35

@Zovit was his radio show, you can listen again on BBC Sounds, it’s just over an hour into the show

Oh thank you @SweetBaklava Smile

Seymour5 · 21/05/2026 22:59

@zov thank you for the links. Because we have no family nearby, we want to remain in our locality where we have support, and there is a huge lack of suitable properties.

Zov · 22/05/2026 08:26

Seymour5 · 21/05/2026 22:59

@zov thank you for the links. Because we have no family nearby, we want to remain in our locality where we have support, and there is a huge lack of suitable properties.

Oh, that's OK @Seymour5 I really hope you manage to find some kind of retirement place soon that is long term rent/lifetime tenancy . Smile

Seymour5 · 22/05/2026 09:19

Zov · 22/05/2026 08:26

Oh, that's OK @Seymour5 I really hope you manage to find some kind of retirement place soon that is long term rent/lifetime tenancy . Smile

🤞🏼I’ll let you know if we get lucky!

ByNavyDreamer · 24/06/2026 00:05

I rent a retirement flat mainly because we had sold & rentals were difficult to find, However it is lovely warm,modern in the centre of town. We don,t feel the need to join the social activities as we have a good social life but many people are happy here. I would not buy. Our flat had been on the market for a year & still 2 more not sold.

Crikeyalmighty · 24/06/2026 09:53

ByNavyDreamer · 24/06/2026 00:05

I rent a retirement flat mainly because we had sold & rentals were difficult to find, However it is lovely warm,modern in the centre of town. We don,t feel the need to join the social activities as we have a good social life but many people are happy here. I would not buy. Our flat had been on the market for a year & still 2 more not sold.

Out of interest , is it on standard rental terms ( which luckily for renters are now more in renters favour) I think far more would rent if possible but the lack of security of tenure is what pushes them into buying , particularly over 75

by the way if anyone is after a lovely retirement rental- there’s a lovely 1 bedder up for the posh Rangeford village in Corsham - pool, gym, lovely cafe/restaurant, hairdresser , help on hand , lovely grounds , parking

£1350 a month and of course no service charge ) which is huge at this development)

Isseywith2witchycats · 26/06/2026 09:18

We inherited a M+S flat when my MIL died it took us 3 years to sell, it was one of the nicer ones in the complex , we did manage to rent it out a couple of times which helped towards the fees but didn't make any more than the fees, in this time the boiler went kaput so we had a new one put in and had new carpets put in , when we got a serious buyer who wanted it for her sister to live in M+S were a nightmare to deal with,slow at communication and delay after delay chasing up paperwork constantly, in the end it sold for over 30000 pound less than original price 20 years earlier,, but while MIL was alive it was an ideal place for her to live

Crikeyalmighty · 26/06/2026 10:22

Isseywith2witchycats · 26/06/2026 09:18

We inherited a M+S flat when my MIL died it took us 3 years to sell, it was one of the nicer ones in the complex , we did manage to rent it out a couple of times which helped towards the fees but didn't make any more than the fees, in this time the boiler went kaput so we had a new one put in and had new carpets put in , when we got a serious buyer who wanted it for her sister to live in M+S were a nightmare to deal with,slow at communication and delay after delay chasing up paperwork constantly, in the end it sold for over 30000 pound less than original price 20 years earlier,, but while MIL was alive it was an ideal place for her to live

I do think you have to view them this way - keep them freshened up to date and expect to lose quite a lot of money - but to be honest it’s cheaper than paying for retirement/care homes over a longish period if that’s the only suitable alternative .

Nofksleft2give · 26/06/2026 13:48

Crikeyalmighty · 26/06/2026 10:22

I do think you have to view them this way - keep them freshened up to date and expect to lose quite a lot of money - but to be honest it’s cheaper than paying for retirement/care homes over a longish period if that’s the only suitable alternative .

They are not comparable with care homes, though. Retirement flats are for healthy elders. If your health fails and you need nursing care, then you need a care home or buy in extra care as an additional expense if practicable.

That’s part of the reason why supply outstrips demand.

ByNavyDreamer · 26/06/2026 14:36

You have to prove your fitness when you are accepted. There are care agencies that come in, but 2 residents have recently had to move out to a nursing home. 2 beds here sell fairly well & not too much loss but 1 beds don't & have lost about 40k in 6 years. Rent or Buy seems to be a new thing. Burghley have started doing this as well as Churchill.

Crikeyalmighty · 26/06/2026 15:09

Nofksleft2give · 26/06/2026 13:48

They are not comparable with care homes, though. Retirement flats are for healthy elders. If your health fails and you need nursing care, then you need a care home or buy in extra care as an additional expense if practicable.

That’s part of the reason why supply outstrips demand.

Whilst I agree - I have seen with my own eyes relatively healthy older people being suggested care homes and in some cases the elderly suggesting it themselves, when all they really needed was a warden controlled retirement flat, a bit of company and people ‘around’ to get some help from people if needed

Nofksleft2give · 26/06/2026 15:18

Crikeyalmighty · 26/06/2026 15:09

Whilst I agree - I have seen with my own eyes relatively healthy older people being suggested care homes and in some cases the elderly suggesting it themselves, when all they really needed was a warden controlled retirement flat, a bit of company and people ‘around’ to get some help from people if needed

Agree, they each serve different purposes. Sadly, no one has a crystal ball to help predict what our needs will be.

Isseywith2witchycats · 26/06/2026 16:20

Crikeyalmighty · 26/06/2026 10:22

I do think you have to view them this way - keep them freshened up to date and expect to lose quite a lot of money - but to be honest it’s cheaper than paying for retirement/care homes over a longish period if that’s the only suitable alternative .

She was in a care home for two years with dementia and that cost £7000 a month which she was self funded so we had to deal with that as well as my DH was the person dealing power of attorney

Crikeyalmighty · 27/06/2026 00:13

Nofksleft2give · 26/06/2026 15:18

Agree, they each serve different purposes. Sadly, no one has a crystal ball to help predict what our needs will be.

I think if there were way more secure long term rentals at sensible money of these flats it would take a lot of sting out if it - either that or a guaranteed buy back at purchase price or a 100% rent out , rather than sell option etc -

PropertyD · 27/06/2026 09:35

I don’t think it’s that easy to rent them out privately. I wouldn’t!

An older person is often in denial about what they can manage. Are you honestly going to try and evict someone who fibs about mild dementia and ends up knocking on other residents doors at night. Starts silly arguments with people or moves their seriously unwell confused husband in. Retirement complexes don’t pick you off the floor if you fall.

All of these things happened at my late parents one.

Of course you can try and evict someone who leaves the taps on then goes to bed but have you seen the back logs at court?

Wot23 · 28/06/2026 13:09

Isseywith2witchycats · 26/06/2026 09:18

We inherited a M+S flat when my MIL died it took us 3 years to sell, it was one of the nicer ones in the complex , we did manage to rent it out a couple of times which helped towards the fees but didn't make any more than the fees, in this time the boiler went kaput so we had a new one put in and had new carpets put in , when we got a serious buyer who wanted it for her sister to live in M+S were a nightmare to deal with,slow at communication and delay after delay chasing up paperwork constantly, in the end it sold for over 30000 pound less than original price 20 years earlier,, but while MIL was alive it was an ideal place for her to live

thank you for highlighting that it is the comfort & enjoyment of the MIL that matters, not whether the children can subsequently realise their inheritance more easily

tesseractor · 28/06/2026 14:14

Wot23 · 28/06/2026 13:09

thank you for highlighting that it is the comfort & enjoyment of the MIL that matters, not whether the children can subsequently realise their inheritance more easily

It’s not just about getting their inheritance- it’s about having an albatross around their necks having to pay the huge service charges. And again and again we hear of M&S being at best incompetent, at worst obstructive, over sales and letting.

Most of us are more than happy for the “inheritance” to be spent on keeping our family members well supported and happy, but these flats often end up not doing this. It can be a nightmare if they need to move into a care home when the flats can’t be sold but fees need paying as the flat is a supposed asset.

Nofksleft2give · 28/06/2026 14:21

tesseractor · 28/06/2026 14:14

It’s not just about getting their inheritance- it’s about having an albatross around their necks having to pay the huge service charges. And again and again we hear of M&S being at best incompetent, at worst obstructive, over sales and letting.

Most of us are more than happy for the “inheritance” to be spent on keeping our family members well supported and happy, but these flats often end up not doing this. It can be a nightmare if they need to move into a care home when the flats can’t be sold but fees need paying as the flat is a supposed asset.

Agree. There is an emotional component to this too. I found it very hard to move on from losing my mother, since three years later I was still having to deal with her property and pop in from time to time.

bumblebee1000 · 28/06/2026 15:30

Nofksleft2give · 28/06/2026 14:21

Agree. There is an emotional component to this too. I found it very hard to move on from losing my mother, since three years later I was still having to deal with her property and pop in from time to time.

My friend is trying to sell a retirement flat, he inherited about 9k but that has gone in council tax and service charges, he just cannot sell it...no interest and cant let it out, plus each time he reduces the price he has to pay £100 fee to the free holders, lots of clauses in the lease etc, he might just hand it back to them to avoid getting into debt keeping it going !

RalphtheMouth · 28/06/2026 20:52

Can these flats be sold to the 'webuyanyhouse' type companies?

bumblebee1000 · 29/06/2026 00:06

RalphtheMouth · 28/06/2026 20:52

Can these flats be sold to the 'webuyanyhouse' type companies?

Each scheme / block has its own rules, the leases are often full of clauses about who to sell to etc so its a case of looking at them individually.

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