I just feel like you know in your heart that prices won’t fall 35% before inflation between 2022 to 25 or you would be waiting until 2025 to pick up an amazing bargain. Have you seen any yet? I haven’t.
No, I really don't. My motivation is purely to get out of this rental; Charlie's predictions have little effect on my decisions, but it certainly made me think twice, three, four times about committing to a house that needed 100k of refurb work done on top of already being expensive. They made me question what is worth pushing yourself for, and what is not. That probably would have been a five year home. It's increased in value by about a third in a very short space of time but it's also sat on the market unsold and not reduced since we pulled out in June. Nobody wants to spend that kind of money on a money pit. I feel we dodged a bullet. And we were going to get a 33 year long mortgage ffs; now we aren't contemplating more than 25.
I am having to force myself to be patient, because if we bought right now, it would likely only be an interim home, and I think that would be an emotional and possibly financial mistake.
Come Spring, the house will be full of flies again, and I will be going out of my mind until November. In fact, I've just seen one in the kitchen two minutes ago, in January. I don't think I can easily emphasise how mad they drive me; facebombing you in the middle of the night, not being able to even turn your back on a buttered knife for most of the year, and we are completely powerless to stop them - I think they crawl in through the sash windows, through extractors and probably even up drainpipes so up through sinks, baths, and their overflow holes. There's no getting away from them.
The farm noise got a lot worse this winter whilst building works have been going on and the OH seems to be existing on about 30% of the sleep he actually needs (he needs a lot because ADHD exhausts you). He's permanently stressed as a result, and doesn't function very well. Simple things like forgetting how to lock a tricky door occur, after a year and a half of locking the darned thing, or forgetting to fully shut a freezer door, and the entire contents defrost. Or even remembering to lock doors. We have that one often. The brain fog completely numbs an already not so great memory, and even got dumped off a project when he was too direct with a colleague during the 24/7 silage run: 'I think that will ruin your promotion for next year.' Lovely. Never been asked to leave a project in ten years before then.
The screaming rows we were having have stopped, but we're not happy here and never have been. We got so desperate last year that I was even looking closer to home, and neither of us even want to live in this county, because the county doesn't offer us a lot of what we need.
So, we'll buy when the right house comes along, but I am determined to grit my teeth and bare (bear?) it to try to find the best possible house we can, that has the best chance of us being absolutely fine staying there indefinitely. Last year we were of a mind to jump in and I was considering stuff that I knew wouldn't make me happy or would be too physically restrictive; we passed a savings goal at Christmas, I feel differently, and I think those would have been desperate, rash decisions.
So what if house prices fall 15% after we move if we're in a house that makes us happy? It matters if you make a poor house choice and the house/area does not. Speaking of which, I never find even nearly suitable houses in the 2 areas that are my first choice of places to live. It's the housing stock. So that really sucks, because it leaves us with 2 others I would rather avoid, thanks for the need of quick access to London for him.
We'll also only have one opportunity to avoid paying stamp duty up to 425k. I have to think about that because of his obsession with having good pensions.
Bargains? Yeah. I've seen 25% reductions. I've seen houses for sale for similar prices as paid four years ago. A few ones I like have come through with 25k off and one about 50k off; and I really like it, but the village has NOTHING and it's extremely close to one neighbour.
We've seen more of the sort of house we like coming through in the last three months than we'd seen in all of '23 combined.
If we get to summer and it's still looking bleak, we'll make a call. Either we'll have a conversation about paying more than the OH is currently happy with, or we'll have to downscale our requirements and start making concessions. Fingers crossed, it won't come to that.
Right, off I pop to drink all the coffee. I've had three hours sleep, which is more normal than it should be, and is happening more regularly. Have a good Saturday.