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Which house would you go for?

105 replies

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 09:29

This is to be our family house for the next 20 or so years, to see us through the teenage / early adults years with our 4 children.

House 1:

2150 sq foot

4 good sized doubles and 2 box rooms that cannot be merged (we need 5 bedrooms but not 6, so one child would always be in an 7ft x 8 ft room).

2 reception rooms, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

70 foot north facing garden, overlooked at the back and by next door neighbours.

A few doors down from a primary school.

House 2:

1800 sqr foot

5 double bedrooms, although 3 are pretty compact doubles (8.5 x 13 ft sort of size). Cramped once you add in desk and wardrobe but at least a double bed would fit unlike the 2 box rooms in house 1).

1 reception room, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

110 foot south facing garden, not overlooked.

Quieter road.

Both houses similarly priced. Practical day to day living is similar in both houses, just house 1 has grander, better proportioned rooms all round hence the bigger square footage.

Would love to hear which of these you think is best for teenagers as we’ll be entering that phase in a few years. House 2 would have ample room to build a big cabin at the back of the garden, whereas house 1 would have a further reception room / single garage conversion for the kids to hang out in - is it better to have their hangout space under your roof or further away where you can’t hear them? 😂

To sum it up: would you prioritise bigger living space and some bigger bedrooms over outside space, or would you prioritise smaller but more equal sized children’s bedrooms and a larger nicer quieter outside area over a larger footprint house?

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Loofah01 · 09/12/2020 09:33

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Poorlykitten · 09/12/2020 09:38

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MrsWooster · 09/12/2020 09:39

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ramblingsonthego · 09/12/2020 09:41

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youngestisapsycho · 09/12/2020 09:44

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80sColourfulChristmas · 09/12/2020 09:44

House 1. The cabin wouldn't be especially fun in the winter, even with heating. Wet/icy grass or path to get to the cabin would ultimately put me off in the depths of January. I'd much prefer an extra reception room.

80sColourfulChristmas · 09/12/2020 09:47

From someone living in a 2 bed new build - do not underestimate the value of extra space! We all need more than we realise

Karcheer · 09/12/2020 09:47

House 1.

longtompot · 09/12/2020 09:50

Aren't the two box rooms next to each other which is why they can't be merged?

Poorlykitten · 09/12/2020 09:51

We have a ‘cabin’ for the teenagers to hang out in. They love it! Has wood burner and it’s super cosy. Sometimes sleepovers in it too. Sounds like you could extend 2 out the back maybe? (Eventually?) and don’t underestimate being looked over by neighbours! I hated that in my last house.

awwkkwwaard · 09/12/2020 09:52

1 - the child in the smallest room could also have the other small room as a study? But at the end of the day why on earth are you asking on here? your heart should tell you - and ask the kids if you can't decide! Links to the two would help...

IsThisIt123 · 09/12/2020 09:55

2 I wouldn’t want an overlooked north facing garden

Mousepad20 · 09/12/2020 10:02

2 - despite less internal living space, I'd rather a larger garden in a quiet area and would think it unfair if only one child obviously got a smaller bedroom. A 'children only' cabin sounds brilliant if built for all weathers.

sorenipples · 09/12/2020 10:04

Could you give two kids a small room each with a large one to share?

Honeyroar · 09/12/2020 10:07

2 sounds like it would work so much better. Do the rooms really feel small? (Living rooms)

GinAtMerlottes · 09/12/2020 10:07

House 1 and remodel upstairs when you can. I have a north facing garden which is about 100ft and it gets plenty of sun, but it’s not overlooked at the back. If the garden in house 1 is really grim I would think again.

clary · 09/12/2020 10:08

I agree, couldn't the same child have the two box rooms, one as a study when needed?

What about secondary schools - are they in the same catchment?

Close to schools can be a pain with school traffic but only if you are around at that time of day. We live v near a school and that's not a problem cos we are not usually here.

I would prefer an extra reception room downstairs. House two sounds small downstairs for five bedrooms - we have a huge kitchen diner and a study downstairs as well and only four bedrooms.

OTOH quiet road is nice. I've never had a south facing garden so don't know about that.

yy doesn't one speak to you more? Links?

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 10:09

@longtompot the two box rooms are on opposite sides of the house, definitely can't be merged. They'd make great en suite bathrooms for the bigger bedrooms for a family with less kids than ours!

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propertyhell · 09/12/2020 10:10

I'd go for property 2, south facing garden is very important for me. I'd extend it properly to get an teen chill out room/work space.

mothergooseinnorthwest · 09/12/2020 10:11

2, couple of doors down has a den for their teenage son in the garden and it is used very often, North facing and overlooked are deal breakers for me. wouldn’t trade the better garden for a bigger house, especially if there is open plan living at the back

Baxdream · 09/12/2020 10:12

How close in age are the children? What I'm thinking is will the youngest go into the bigger bedroom when the eldest goes to uni?

Our friends have a big north facing garden and it's quite boggy and dreary.
Ours is half the size but south facing so feels far more inviting.

We just moved from a house with two receptions, one being for the teenagers. They never used it! They'd always prefer their rooms!

salcombebabe · 09/12/2020 10:14

I’d go for 2 as teenagers tend to spend so much time in their bedrooms!!

ODFOx · 09/12/2020 10:15

House 1.
Definitely House 1.
The additional reception room will be useful straight away. Your youngest child can have the smallest bedroom for now. Remember they grow up and leave and you get to reorganise as they go. Plus if required once they don't need a reception room of their own for gaming or whatever you can make that into an occasional bedroom too.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/12/2020 10:15

1 I would prioritise space to get away from teenagers, they don’t need the big garden like younger kids.

ODFOx · 09/12/2020 10:16

Having read your comment about en suite bathrooms. If the house only has one en suite and a family bathroom now, consider changing one of the box rooms into a shower room with loo. Teens....

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