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Which house would you go for?

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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 09:29

This is to be our family house for the next 20 or so years, to see us through the teenage / early adults years with our 4 children.

House 1:

2150 sq foot

4 good sized doubles and 2 box rooms that cannot be merged (we need 5 bedrooms but not 6, so one child would always be in an 7ft x 8 ft room).

2 reception rooms, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

70 foot north facing garden, overlooked at the back and by next door neighbours.

A few doors down from a primary school.

House 2:

1800 sqr foot

5 double bedrooms, although 3 are pretty compact doubles (8.5 x 13 ft sort of size). Cramped once you add in desk and wardrobe but at least a double bed would fit unlike the 2 box rooms in house 1).

1 reception room, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

110 foot south facing garden, not overlooked.

Quieter road.

Both houses similarly priced. Practical day to day living is similar in both houses, just house 1 has grander, better proportioned rooms all round hence the bigger square footage.

Would love to hear which of these you think is best for teenagers as we’ll be entering that phase in a few years. House 2 would have ample room to build a big cabin at the back of the garden, whereas house 1 would have a further reception room / single garage conversion for the kids to hang out in - is it better to have their hangout space under your roof or further away where you can’t hear them? 😂

To sum it up: would you prioritise bigger living space and some bigger bedrooms over outside space, or would you prioritise smaller but more equal sized children’s bedrooms and a larger nicer quieter outside area over a larger footprint house?

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Baxdream · 09/12/2020 10:18

I didn't actually decide which I'd pick! House 2, no question, but add a cabin.
I should add a friend of my son has a cabin and it is a hang out for them.
I think you'd have far more use than a second reception and it keeps the noise out of the house 😂😂

InTheLongGrass · 09/12/2020 10:19

2 with a downstairs extension.

KitKat1985 · 09/12/2020 10:19

House 1 I think.

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 10:21

@Poorlykitten I'm factoring in the size of rooms once both houses have been extended to maximum capacity. Agree about being overlooked, house 2's garden feels much more private.

@awwkkwwaard Husband and I have slightly differing opinions on which house is best. Definitely capable of making our own decision, but was interested to ask here in case there's something we're not factoring in about day to day living with older children / teenagers that would make one of these houses a better option than the other. At the moment ours are 11 and under and I am trying to plan for the next stage without having experience of it yet.

@sorenipples two children sharing a large bedroom as a playspace would work well for the ages they are now, but I'm thinking ahead to when they are young adults and want to bring partners home to stay for Christmas etc - box rooms to sleep and a shared bigger room doesn't work in that scenario.

@clary both houses in same school catchment, they are a few roads away from each other so very much the same area. The downstairs of house 1 has living room, single garage that could be converted to 2nd living room, cloakroom, open plan kitchen / living / dining that you could steal a bit of space from to make a utility. The downstairs of house 2 has living room, garage that has been converted to a utility room and separate downstairs shower room (this side of the house is 1.8m wide so too narrow to convert back into separate living room), plus open plan kitchen / living / dining room that is probably about 7 square metres smaller than house 1 as the house is less wide.

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steppemum · 09/12/2020 10:24

I would go for 1 becuase

  1. extra reception room is so useful. Cabin at end of the garden is great when older, but for primary and younger teens, better to have them under the roof. Extra space for whole family indoors.
  2. Garden not so useful as they get older, mine hardly use it now
  3. Give one child 2x rooms. One is study/chill zone, one is sleep zone. Or, put 2 of them in box room for sleeping, and make one of the bigger rooms into a joint chill space.
  4. North gardens are fine, they do get sun. Look at when they get sun, eg when does the shadow of the trees/houses fall on garden.
  5. Can you grow a screen where you would be overlooked at the back.

In the end, it would be that extra reception room that would swing it for me.

Zenithbear · 09/12/2020 10:25

I like the sound of no 2. Quiet location.
They will have their own bedrooms of equal size to hide in if required. Plus you still have a separate living room as well as the more social kitchen /diner /living area.

steppemum · 09/12/2020 10:29

I think buying a house now on the basis of possible future partners coming to stay is a bit ridiculous!
By the time you get to that stage, anything could happen.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 09/12/2020 10:31

No 2. North facing garden would be a deal breaker for me. I'd look at whether I could build an extension for no 2 but if not, cabin is a good idea. I've got friends with them and they are brilliant. Really well insulated and cosy

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 10:34

I should add that I'm factoring in both houses at maximum extended capacity here, which they aren't at the moment. We could add a second living room into the plans for the kitchen extension of house 2, but it would mean a smaller open plan space which I'm not too keen on. House 2 does have a lot more scope for building a guest annexe or cabin in the garden, but also like @ODFOx 's suggestion of the second living room in house 1 being used as occasional guest bedroom when they've moved out but come home to stay.

Eldest is 11 and youngest is 1, so unlikely that they will all be living at home at once / we've definitely factored in some overlap with one or two being away at uni and then maybe moving out before the youngest is 15 or so. But in an ideal scenario they'd each have their own bedroom space that would always be theirs if they all end up coming back to stay at the same time at some point in life.

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clary · 09/12/2020 10:34

From your description, there isn't actually an extra room in house 1? That changes things a bit (I'm not a fan of garages converted into living areas, they are often in an odd place in the house)

Flowerpot345 · 09/12/2020 10:35

2

clary · 09/12/2020 10:36

sorry op X post with you

Bluntness100 · 09/12/2020 10:36

Can you link them op? I think I’d go for internal space to be honest.

YoureNotOnTheList · 09/12/2020 10:38

2 here.

The bedrooms would be good sizes with single beds and desks in, and the garden and position sound much nicer.

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 10:38

@clary yes, the 2nd reception in house 1 isn't a proper living room, it would be a converted single garage - around 2.8m x 4m (maybe less if we steal a bit to make a bigger utility). House 2 doesn't have this room at all, but we could create a much bigger cabin / annexe in the garden with planning permission.

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Viviennemary · 09/12/2020 10:39

Id keep looking if neither house suits your needs.

nicknamehelp · 09/12/2020 10:39

could dc who has a small bedroom also have sole use of the other small bedroom? Also could in time they rotate as they move out?
I think extra living space is always great.

emmathedilemma · 09/12/2020 10:43

2 - quieter road, larger south facing garden, not overlooked and better sized bedrooms because once your kids get older that's where they'll spend most of their time. Also gives long term protection of being double bedrooms so they can bring partners back to stay should they move away and want to come back at Christmas etc.

AlwaysLatte · 09/12/2020 10:44

2 because for me there are deal breakers in House 1 (overlooked, tiny bedroom for one person) whereas although 2 isn't perfect it doesn't have anything too limiting. When we were looking we sat down and made a list of things that were 'must haves' and things that were 'nice to haves'. If a house didn't have a 'must have' then we just discounted it. So I would recommend doing that (don't go too mad with the must haves or you'll never find anything though!)

BabyLlamaZen · 09/12/2020 10:47

2 by a long shot. Sounds lovely.

Piglet208 · 09/12/2020 10:47

House 2 for me. You can build an extension or garden room to add extra living space. The bedrooms are more even and will meet your future needs. In house one you can't change a north facing garden or lack of privacy. You can't make box rooms bigger.

SoupDragon · 09/12/2020 10:48

House 2. More equality in room sizes, better garden.

The only place House 1 wins is the extra reception room.

SoupDragon · 09/12/2020 10:50

DS2 has a boxroom like in house 1 and it is a squeeze. I have fitted a small double in there along with a small wardrobe, chair and some shelving but it is cramped - even more so when he brings his girlfriend home from Uni!

clary · 09/12/2020 10:57

@SoupDragon

House 2. More equality in room sizes, better garden.

The only place House 1 wins is the extra reception room.

yes I agree - and since it doesn't actually have that, it's a no brainier surely? Do you lurrrve house 1 op? You speak with feeling of its grander rooms...
Furries · 09/12/2020 11:04

2 for me - the north facing, overlooked garden would be an absolute dealbreaker. Don’t underestimate how much use you’d get out of a good-sized south facing garden - it’s like a huge extra room during the summer months (was a godsend for me in lockdown). Not sure if I’ve missed where in the UK this will be, so my view might be a bit different if it’s in the Scottish Highlands!

Plus adding a cabin is a great idea, they don’t all have to be cold and draughty. If you plan it right with a decent sized patio are in front you could incorporate a fire-pit into that area (with no overlooking neighbours to worry about).

Plus the 5 double rooms - they might be a bit smaller, but no one would be in a box room.

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