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Which house would you go for?

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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 09:29

This is to be our family house for the next 20 or so years, to see us through the teenage / early adults years with our 4 children.

House 1:

2150 sq foot

4 good sized doubles and 2 box rooms that cannot be merged (we need 5 bedrooms but not 6, so one child would always be in an 7ft x 8 ft room).

2 reception rooms, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

70 foot north facing garden, overlooked at the back and by next door neighbours.

A few doors down from a primary school.

House 2:

1800 sqr foot

5 double bedrooms, although 3 are pretty compact doubles (8.5 x 13 ft sort of size). Cramped once you add in desk and wardrobe but at least a double bed would fit unlike the 2 box rooms in house 1).

1 reception room, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

110 foot south facing garden, not overlooked.

Quieter road.

Both houses similarly priced. Practical day to day living is similar in both houses, just house 1 has grander, better proportioned rooms all round hence the bigger square footage.

Would love to hear which of these you think is best for teenagers as we’ll be entering that phase in a few years. House 2 would have ample room to build a big cabin at the back of the garden, whereas house 1 would have a further reception room / single garage conversion for the kids to hang out in - is it better to have their hangout space under your roof or further away where you can’t hear them? 😂

To sum it up: would you prioritise bigger living space and some bigger bedrooms over outside space, or would you prioritise smaller but more equal sized children’s bedrooms and a larger nicer quieter outside area over a larger footprint house?

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SheWouldNever · 10/12/2020 09:22

Thanks for all the replies. Really interesting to see how other families use the spaces in your homes, especially those with older children / teens.

House 2 ticks more of our boxes and offers more flexibility with the garden size and space to build garden rooms.

It's not the perfect house (neither is house 1, though!) but being a family of 6 who need one of the larger houses in the area and without the budget to be able to beat out other buyers for the house size we need, house 2 is also the better option for us. It's £150k cheaper than house 1 and we can extend as we go to make it the size of house I talked about in my first post.

House 1 and house 2 are the best two houses we've seen during our search (which started in March - great timing!) and if we wait until Spring to see what else comes on the market, we run the risk of missing the secondary school application deadline in Oct, we'd definitely miss the stamp duty relief that ends in March, and we'd be trying to buy at a time when the market is busier and we might find ourselves in a bidding war that we can't afford. Sometimes you just have to jump for the house that ticks the most boxes, even if it's not perfect. I never imagined signing myself up for another project house, but at least it's comfortably within budget and because of the work it needs, there wasn't much competition for house 2 and our accepted offer is a really reasonable price (not forgetting we were originally outbid on house 1 and couldn't raise our offer any further - paying top budget for a house you don't even LOVE is a big ask).

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CountFosco · 10/12/2020 17:07

Don't quite understand the layout of house 2, does it have a crazy big room at the back and a small sittingroom? You don't want that with lots of kids, they'll all be in the sitting room all the time.

I'd go for house 1, and make the front box room a bathroom and knock together the ensuite and the other boxroom. You're just going to have kids wanting to use your en suite the whole time, better to have 2 family bathrooms.

We have 3 DC, moved to this house when the eldest was 10. We have 2 large sitting rooms (1 is a playroom) plus a big kitchen diner and 2 bathrooms and all rooms get used a lot by everyone. I grew up in a large house with lots of reception rooms and really like having different options. We have an east facing garden and even our patio on the north side of the extension gets sun until late afternoon in the summer. A north facing garden will get the early morning and late afternoon sun and you'll have a bit of shade from the house in the middle of the day when it's too hot.

SheWouldNever · 10/12/2020 17:51

@CountFosco the big space at the back is the maximum footprint of the house once extended, it’s about 7 x 7.5m. It will be an open plan kitchen / dining / living room. We have that in our current house and definitely prefer it to having the kitchen in a separate room to everything else.

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sunshinesupermum · 10/12/2020 18:40

I think buying a house now on the basis of possible future partners coming to stay is a bit ridiculous! By the time you get to that stage, anything could happen.

Was going to say the same! I'd go for House 2 anyway.

CountFosco · 10/12/2020 21:17

I'm not a fan of the open plan kitchen/dining room/living room. Whenever I go to houses like that they never seem to use their other living rooms and might as well be in a smaller house. Kitchen/diner absolutely fine, but three functions is to many. Although with small children I can see the attraction, once your kids get older you'll want multiple living spaces as everyone wants to space out.

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