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Which house would you go for?

105 replies

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 09:29

This is to be our family house for the next 20 or so years, to see us through the teenage / early adults years with our 4 children.

House 1:

2150 sq foot

4 good sized doubles and 2 box rooms that cannot be merged (we need 5 bedrooms but not 6, so one child would always be in an 7ft x 8 ft room).

2 reception rooms, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

70 foot north facing garden, overlooked at the back and by next door neighbours.

A few doors down from a primary school.

House 2:

1800 sqr foot

5 double bedrooms, although 3 are pretty compact doubles (8.5 x 13 ft sort of size). Cramped once you add in desk and wardrobe but at least a double bed would fit unlike the 2 box rooms in house 1).

1 reception room, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

110 foot south facing garden, not overlooked.

Quieter road.

Both houses similarly priced. Practical day to day living is similar in both houses, just house 1 has grander, better proportioned rooms all round hence the bigger square footage.

Would love to hear which of these you think is best for teenagers as we’ll be entering that phase in a few years. House 2 would have ample room to build a big cabin at the back of the garden, whereas house 1 would have a further reception room / single garage conversion for the kids to hang out in - is it better to have their hangout space under your roof or further away where you can’t hear them? 😂

To sum it up: would you prioritise bigger living space and some bigger bedrooms over outside space, or would you prioritise smaller but more equal sized children’s bedrooms and a larger nicer quieter outside area over a larger footprint house?

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SoupDragon · 09/12/2020 12:28

@Chloemol

House one, divert one of the bathrooms make the bedroom next to it bigger and convert the other small bedroom into a bathroom
I thought that but it depends on the plumbing. It also doesn't solve the over looked small north facing garden.
steppemum · 09/12/2020 12:28

Given your updates about the work not having been done yet, I would go for house 2 (so I've changed my mind!)

But I would be looking at that kitchen space and reconfiguring it, as it looks a bad shape.

But I do think the house is going to be pretty top heavy, 5 beds and one reception room isn;t great

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 12:29

@Honeyroar is it really such a strange thought process? Both me and my husband have had this sort of set up going home to our family homes for Christmases and family birthdays etc and it's really nice to know that our parent's houses have the space to accommodate this.

The neither house argument: We've been looking a while. House 1 is the biggest type of house you can get in the area (and they all face north). House 2 is the second biggest type of house you can get in the area with a decent garden size (which is important to us). We've seen other houses similar to house 2 with gardens half the size, but there are only one or two roads in our search area with large gardens. Searching for longer would probably only throw up these two types of houses again as potential options for our family.

Plus (sorry for the drip feed! Didn't realise there would be so many questions other wise I would have tried to give more info earlier in the thread), we have offered on both these houses. Lost out on house 1, which is now back on the market. Offer accepted on house 2, and we have a shot of making the stamp duty holiday, which would be a big plus! My husband is just wavering after seeing house 1 back on the market again. But I still think house 2 is better for our family, and husband agrees that if you add stamp duty costs onto house 1, it isn't worth the extra space.

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GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 09/12/2020 12:39

House 2, especially if it's lighter inside.

You are very unlikely to have all 5 DC home with partners at the same time, and if you do, they could use a reception room. Or in that scenario you might have a couple with kids who could camp out in the cabin if it has a loo - that lets them have their kids up early without waking the whole household.

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 09/12/2020 12:40

X-post!

clary · 09/12/2020 15:37

Those saying a garden doesn't matte to teens btw (my footy mad 17yo would disagree) - the OP's DC are 1-11 so plenty of years of garden use for the primary age ones.

Bonsai49 · 09/12/2020 15:44

I think you should consider the families heights and builds as they’re likely to be based on your own and your husbands .... if you are petite people house 2 if not house 1 ... I say that as a tall family with boys who are starting to get larger and harder to navigate

Longwhiskers14 · 09/12/2020 15:47
SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 15:48

@clary A large garden really is a big draw for us. We'll be moving from postage stamp London terrace garden...I think ours is about 20 feet long. My eldest two are sports mad and excited about having space for a football goal and to play cricket. And we would have the space to think about getting a climbing frame and / or trampoline for the youngest two - all things we haven't been able to do in our current garden, so a garden size upgrade is really exciting to us. Got at least another decade if not more of our kids spending time in the garden.

Truth be told, we've been very garden-led this house search, and another reason for me asking for others opinions here was just to check that we weren't letting the garden sway us too much away from the practicalities of internal space in a year when we know everyone has been more focused on the value of outside space. But even without the pandemic and lockdown, I think we'd be feeling the same about wanting a decent garden in our next house. It works for our family.

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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 15:51

@Bonsai49 good point. Ceilings were a bit higher in house 1, I think. Our kids are boys. Taller genes run in the boys in my side of the family but not super tall (my brothers are both 6ft) but husbands side are all a little on the short side of average. Could go either way!

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7to25 · 09/12/2020 16:00

From a family size perspective I would say house 1. I had 6, five boys and square footage really matters, more than bedroom size equality.

ODFOx · 09/12/2020 16:03

If you go for house 1, put 2 children into the smaller rooms for now with an upstairs play room for them all to share.
Once the older ones become teens haviing 2 spaces for them to congregate by interest will help prevent squabbles. Also you can set that up with a sofa bed or Murphy bed as an occasional bedroom for sleepovers/guests/parties.

mothergooseinnorthwest · 09/12/2020 16:21

Having read your updates, an even firmer vote on house 2. Simply because you will do the work yourself and can make it however you want it.

On top of that, you have a quiet street, a south facing garden which is not overlooked. It will be a house No 1 can’t compete.

Having watched enough house shows, I am also a firm believer that square footage isn’t as important as a good layout.

Bin85 · 09/12/2020 21:56

2

imabusybee · 09/12/2020 22:50

House 2 definitely!

ThatDirection · 09/12/2020 23:05

House 1
Keep a double room as a spare room. The 2 youngest kids both get a small room.

House 2, with just one extra reception room doesn't seem big enough for 4 kids.

ThatDirection · 09/12/2020 23:09

I read your updates. House 2. You clearly love it and that matters most.

CloudyGladys · 10/12/2020 00:09

House 2, for reasons already mentioned, especially the garden.

Also, being a few doors down from a primary school would be great whilst the children go to that school, but how do the traffic and parking at drop-off and pick-up times impact the property?

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 10/12/2020 00:18

2
I don't see my teen. She's either in her room, collecting food or out.

notangelinajolie · 10/12/2020 00:24

2
North facing overlooked garden would be a deal-breaker for me.

LadyEloise · 10/12/2020 00:42

House 2.
South facing garden beats an overlooked north facing garden hands down.

PickAChew · 10/12/2020 00:50

2 so long as the rest of the house works.

And always check the quoted square footage doesn't include the garage!

SingingInTheShithouse · 10/12/2020 01:05

1 child, maybe the eldest gets 2 rooms, a box room to sleep in & the second can be a den with a sofa bed

custardbear · 10/12/2020 06:51

House 2. Hate gardens with no sun. I'd make the cabin area all seasons, and if possible add an extension, conservatory or orangery

averythinline · 10/12/2020 08:24

Defintely house 2 for me - having decent outdoor space is also important if your large family - so imagine all back for bbq etc as much as staying over - the bedrooms also more usable..

having a snug as an extra space i think would also be good -maybe somewhere for you and dh to escape the teens! or as a teen gaming room/den .. my dc don't spend much time in their rooms but have purloined the front room... it now has a dartboard and stereo and is where the friends hang out

which is fine as dh and I use the kitchen/diner space and we see them when they visit for food .... although your cabin could do the same job it would have to be something quite substantial for all the electrics required...

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