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Which house would you go for?

105 replies

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 09:29

This is to be our family house for the next 20 or so years, to see us through the teenage / early adults years with our 4 children.

House 1:

2150 sq foot

4 good sized doubles and 2 box rooms that cannot be merged (we need 5 bedrooms but not 6, so one child would always be in an 7ft x 8 ft room).

2 reception rooms, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

70 foot north facing garden, overlooked at the back and by next door neighbours.

A few doors down from a primary school.

House 2:

1800 sqr foot

5 double bedrooms, although 3 are pretty compact doubles (8.5 x 13 ft sort of size). Cramped once you add in desk and wardrobe but at least a double bed would fit unlike the 2 box rooms in house 1).

1 reception room, plus open plan kitchen / diner / living space

110 foot south facing garden, not overlooked.

Quieter road.

Both houses similarly priced. Practical day to day living is similar in both houses, just house 1 has grander, better proportioned rooms all round hence the bigger square footage.

Would love to hear which of these you think is best for teenagers as we’ll be entering that phase in a few years. House 2 would have ample room to build a big cabin at the back of the garden, whereas house 1 would have a further reception room / single garage conversion for the kids to hang out in - is it better to have their hangout space under your roof or further away where you can’t hear them? 😂

To sum it up: would you prioritise bigger living space and some bigger bedrooms over outside space, or would you prioritise smaller but more equal sized children’s bedrooms and a larger nicer quieter outside area over a larger footprint house?

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MeanMrMustardSeed · 09/12/2020 11:06

House 2. South facing garden wins for me. Also, you don’t need double beds in those bedrooms for ages, and when you do, they won’t need wardrobes and desks as they’ll have moved out! We have 4 children with v similar ages and are having the same conversations. We are also planning a cabin outside. Homeworking space in the day and chill out zone in the evenings and weekends.

Sprig1 · 09/12/2020 11:08
  1. Mainly due to location and garden.
MeanMrMustardSeed · 09/12/2020 11:09

Also, previous poster said their teens don’t use the garden so don’t prioritise that. With four children under the age of 10, DH and I are planning to spend all our time in the garden, away from the children! Smile

SendHelp30 · 09/12/2020 11:12
  1. I would hate to live on the same road as a school.
Oliversmumsarmy · 09/12/2020 11:16

I would say house 1 and who ever gets the box room also has sole use of the other box room. But the North facing garden would put me off a bit.

House 2 seems like they have squeezed an extra bedroom out of what would have been a decent 4 bed place. (Is this a new or newish build as I have seen so many like this).

Personally I would keep looking

SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 11:27

Don't want to link to the houses but here are the floorplans.

With house 1, it would be possible to make one of the box rooms larger by removing one the the two first floor bathrooms. Not sure losing a bathroom is a good idea, though.

House 2 involves a 2 storey extension so I've made this rough floorplan myself for how it will eventually look. It will also have a loft conversion master bedroom the same size as house 1's.

The cost of the extension plus loft in house 2 will be equivalent to the current asking price of house 1, which is top of our budget so we couldn't afford to do any further work to house 1 for a few years.

With house 2, we have the budget for most of the work (maybe the loft would have to wait 5 years) and would end up with a renovated house to our tastes.

Which house would you go for?
Which house would you go for?
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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 11:31

@Oliversmumsarmy house 2 is not a new build, but you are right that it would make a really spacious house for a family of 5 as you could renovate it differently to us and create three good sized doubles on the middle floor plus a master loft conversion.

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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 11:33

@MeanMrMustardSeed sounds like you live a similar life to us. We love a sunny garden and definitely would use it once the kids have stopped using it - we have dogs, too, who would love the space. And good point about not needing desks and as much wardrobe space once they've moved out and the bedrooms are just being used as guest beds.

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LaBodDelMed · 09/12/2020 11:35

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SheWouldNever · 09/12/2020 11:38

@SoupDragon and @clary yes I agree that house 1 only really wins on having a bigger footprint all round. My husband can't shake the feeling that you get more for your money with that house, but he's also the one that said a north facing garden would be a dealbreaker so....

I love the size of house 1, but not really much else about it on paper. We just know it's the biggest house we can get in that area, been looking a while.

House 2 needs a daunting amount of work. But it has good potential, a great garden, and I think equality in room sizes is better than a few big and a few tiny bedrooms. The one thing that I dislike and can't change about house 2 is the living room is a bit of an awkward shape. But I think if we prioritised a good sized living area in the kitchen / dining / living extension, we wouldn't mind as much. We currently have a smaller house with big open plan extension and separate living room, and all we ever do in the separate living room is watch TV, so I'm not sure if it will matter if it's a bit on the small side.

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bravotango · 09/12/2020 11:46

definitely 1! Extra reception room is great, and extra room upstairs (even if small) is useful.

bravotango · 09/12/2020 11:47

although having read your update...seems like your heart in with house 2. In which case if you're staying put for 20 years+ I'd go for that.

friendlycat · 09/12/2020 11:47

I'm actually not sure that either of them is right for you. Why not wait until the Spring when more houses come onto the market?

SoupDragon · 09/12/2020 11:48

I suspect the real answer is neither of these houses.

TheVanguardSix · 09/12/2020 11:53

House 2

You won't have any complaining neighbours and the teens can run riot when the time comes. The bedrooms are where teens live and the ones in house 2 sound much more accommdating.
It just sounds better overall.

Momsincharge · 09/12/2020 11:55

House 1

70ft is enough garden. It’s not tiny. The extra living space will really matter for a family of 6.

As for the awkward small bedroom. Perhaps the youngest has it for a while then swaps with the oldest when the oldest goes to uni? Or perhaps one child gets both box rooms, one as a study space, the other to sleep?

Honeyroar · 09/12/2020 12:01

While I definitely prefer the sound of house 2, I can’t help thinking it’s slightly strange choosing a house on the basis that you MIGHT have all your children and their partners visiting in twenty years time!

Tangledtresses · 09/12/2020 12:02

Love a south facing garden! Way better as the kitchen will be nice and sunny and warm

I have teens and They are always in our converted garage which has its own door onto the street at the back, means They are not traipsing through the house win win
Great for bikes scooters etc

Also mine don't ever hang out in any reception rooms they are always in their bedrooms, kitchen or garage

Cokearama · 09/12/2020 12:12

With teenagers the most important thing is bedrooms and bathrooms.

IME teenagers spend so much time in their bedroom, they like space of their own, and time away from parents and siblings. They like to invite their friends round and not be pestered by younger siblings, or annoyed by older siblings.

A second living space less useful - teenagers like family time too but don't need an extra room for this.

VanCleefArpels · 09/12/2020 12:13

Garden space is not a priority for teenagers, they don’t need space to play any more. So the decision re the garden should be for your preference - are you into gardening, do you have time to cut grass etc etc. In my experience 2 reception rooms are far more important as your teens will want somewhere separate to sit and be with friends that isn’t their bedroom

MeanMrMustardSeed · 09/12/2020 12:20

To the posters who are suggesting neither house, and that it might be worth waiting, you may be right, but when you’re looking for a non-standard house for a slightly larger than average family, you just have to take what you can get sometimes. Our oldest of 4 is ten and we feel that we need to get on with sorting our family home as it’s only 8 years until one leaves for uni (possibly). It only feels like a few years ago that we had a v young family with years ahead of us! I would just plump for one and get on with living life!

Also, we considered upsizing recently but after reading a book on minimalism, realised that I’d just spend more time managing stuff, and what we really needed was a big clear out. I was a lot more satisfied with the space we had afterwards, and aim to be more freed up to live rather than constantly tidying up - although with 4 children ten and under, part of this is inevitable! I don’t know how you manage dogs on top OP!

Firenight · 09/12/2020 12:20

2 because the over looked garden and the parking issues for the school wouos be an issue for me.

A north facing garden not a problem of itself though, especially if its long.

CottonSock · 09/12/2020 12:22

I used to obsess about South facing garden, but summer gets so hot now I'm always begging for shade.

Chloemol · 09/12/2020 12:23
Chloemol · 09/12/2020 12:25

House one, divert one of the bathrooms make the bedroom next to it bigger and convert the other small bedroom into a bathroom