catspants you rant away. Not sure if im allowed to say, but I actually have a group on Facebook I set up for that purpose if anyone fancies joining? (Its called Home Movers Rant UK) I set it up before finding this thread on here because I had nowhere to rant in lol. Everyone who joined who started the process after me has subsequently moved house & all settled months ago while im back to square one!
I understand why you feel aggrieved about the low offer. I was too when we had one on ours. It was particularly annoying because the buyers kept coming back to measure up & show various family members around. 5 visits in total. We had agreed to leave behind all our kitchen appliances because the new place has fitted stuff, plus a huge trampoline, garden furniture & few other bits, all of which would of cost them a fair bit to buy new. The last visit the woman asked me if I was leaving behind my lovely sideboard..
I said no, I wasn't, but they could have a table I had stored out in our shed. She seemed happy with that. I was astounded at the cheek of it though, when they already got a sale agreed at 36k under asking price plus all the agreed extras which had already been communicated verbally & via fixtures & fittings form.
Its not nice when people basically know they have you by the balls & seem to want to take the piss! I just tried to focus on the end gain of us having the house we wanted, but as they made us jump through more & more hoops I got more & more pissed off with it to the point where in the end when they lost their buyer we decided that we couldn't deal with them or the selling estate agent any more, even if they were to find a new buyer.
Under the circumstances with you, id be inclined to try to get something for the blinds etc. Be honest & explain how tight things are after the huge reduction & that you actually need to get at least something for them! Doesn't hurt to ask! As for the stamp duty thing, they will still have to pay a lot more stamp duty on a second property regardless of the level its priced at. Do they actually realise this? Its important that they do & don't end up having to pull out at a later date due to unexpected costs!