So, it now looks like I can't get the mortgage - Santander are asking me to confirm my fixed term contract will be extended, I can't confirm that (it's a maternity cover). So, that'll be the end of that.
That means I have to use all my cash savings and release £20k from my equity savings, which are currently earning 4%+, so that's a bit shit. Oh well. It also means a lot of money transferring and cost of selling shares etc.
I emailed EA yesterday to ask for any news on how things are with the chain - she is out of office til next week and no reply from the general email address.
I emailed ex's sol last night to update him and ask him to tell ex to stop yelling at me as I have told him the likely timeframe and yelling won't make it any quicker (if only!) . I explained that I'm not signing the transfer document until I have a completion date, so until exchange. No reply from them.
I also emailed my sol to ask advice about a form ex's sol has sent me and check what the process will be for getting the money from ex to my vendors and the balance from me to my vendors (and maybe from mortgage co if that comes through), getting the land reg transfer done and all my removals. I know in theory this is the same as selling and buying any house just that ex is the one doing the buying.
I just wish something [good] would happen!