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One hour drive to primary - so overwhelmed

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liveinhope100 · 23/09/2025 17:22

My daughter got into the third choice. This school is meant to be 15 minutes away from me. With rush hour and now an unbelievable amount of roadworks, it took me an hour to get there today. I’m pregnant and finding all of this too overwhelming. I’m seriously considering taking her out of school whilst I sort out my property so I can sell and move. There is not much within my price range near her school so I think I will end up having to move her anyway.

My question is, do I take her out of school now or try to slog it out for the next 4-5 months. It’s filling me with absolute dread but I’m not sure what to do. Struggling to even think straight at the moment with all these hormones.

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Autumn1990 · 28/09/2025 08:39

The school transport criteria will be on the council website. If this was the nearest available school and the others that are nearer were higher up on your choices you would get transport where I live. They don’t like providing transport though.

thereneverwasacloudyday · 28/09/2025 10:27

KermitFeet · 28/09/2025 00:13

I don’t believe that’s the case, is it? A school can be your catchment school, and be your first choice, and if it is that distance away, depending on the LEA, then they absolutely do provide transport.

Yes, a catchment school will include transport if it's farther than the 2 (primary) or 3 (secondary) miles away. It's the non-catchment schools that people put down that councils won't provide transport for. (Unless of course it's a designated school for a child due to an EHCP; that's an entirely different scenario.)

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 28/09/2025 20:26

thereneverwasacloudyday · 27/09/2025 10:55

OP says this school was on her 'pick' list, her 3rd choice, so she is responsible for getting her there.

This is why I always advise parents to only list catchment schools or schools they are willing and able to get their children to on their own.

You're wrong - if it's the nearest suitable school that shes been offered, then she's eligible.@Skerrida explains it really well.

Transport isn't offered if there is space in your catchment school but you pick another one, but that's not the case here.

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