So today I go to pick you children up from school I picked the girls up first then went over to my sons class and waited for him to come out. When he came out he was with the teacher and stayed by her side so I went over and she said she needed to speak to me. She then proceeded to tell me that some of the other children in the class had told her that DS had a rubber in his pocket , when she asked DS she said he got quite upset but she could see the outline of the rubber in his pocket and then she said "so I told him to take his trousers off and give them to me and I removed the rubber from his pocket" they were her exact words). I stood there not quite believing what I'd heard so stopped her at that point and said " rewind back to what you have just said , did you ask him to take his trousers off in the classroom" she replied with "yes I did" at that point I will say I was not very calm n told her to never again tell my child to remove his clothes and she has no right to ask him to remove them , she stumbled a little at that point and said "well we was shortly going to go get ready for pe".
I went straight to the office but no one was available to see at that point so I have an appointment to see headteacher in morning.
Am I right to be furious or am I over reacting? And yes he has been told off for having the rubber and not handing it over x