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Not sure if I want this baby I'm 38 and thinking of getting a termination

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evascA · 12/06/2017 22:14

Hi

Been on pill for 20 years have 2 kids ages 6 and 8 and a puppy. We have a good standard of living with caravan and abroad holidays kids do slot of hobbies. We get to have wkds away in our own.I always got bit broody about havin a third. Now its happened I missed a pill and I'm 4 weeks. I was completely shocked just didn't think it would happen after all thsee years being on the pill and my age. Cried alot. Have nog yolk a genuine including husband. I've booked my medical abortion on Friday won't have anyone there with me as I just cannot tell anyone as feel like they would judge me and I just want this to be over. I do however also feel really sad and guilty that I'm doing this. My husband has just been made redundant and his new job hasn't started yet we are both on strict diet as both over weIght. My kids will miss out on a timely the holidays we have planned if there's a baby isitter feel like I had deprived my other two if our time and they miss out. It does sound to me like u should go ahead with it but there's also a big urge to not want to terminate as it's my baby. So confusedConfused

LornaMumsnet · 13/06/2017 11:13

Hi there OP,

We are so sorry to hear that you're having a difficult time.

We're going to move this thread over to pregnancy choices as we think that it's better suited to your opening post.

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