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Pregnant again! - I'm happy, but DH not!

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baggybear · 25/07/2005 08:35

Hi! I haven't been on for a while but I need somebody to chat to who is impartial!

I've just found out I'm pregnant with #4. I'm happy but my DH isn't. Not really sure what to do. I does love me, I know that and he has told me. That is why this is so hard for him. I feel as though I've got to keep any symptoms quiet (just starting to get a bit of morning sickness)so its not in his face. I know he'll come round in the end, but I need some friendly words from somebody.

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baggybear · 31/07/2005 18:56

Sorry! Just realised i may of caused offence. i hope i haven't upset anyone with 3. Three is lovely too, any number of children is great. Sorry

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blueteddy · 31/07/2005 18:56

Oh dear, you were not a happy camper then?!!!
Can't say that camping appeals to me either, I like my home comforts too much!
Glad to hear things are sounding more positive regarding your DH.
Did you talk to your MW friend about your other worry?

baggybear · 31/07/2005 19:00

No i didn't Blueted. Pain seems to have faded away, so didn't bother. Seeing her tomorrow anyway so shall mention it. Camping isn't my thing either. Did it for DH and DS's. They enjoyed it so it was worth it. MS kicked in yesterday, though, and we couldn't have been any further from the toilet block!! Nearly had to vom in a bucket infront of everyone

How are you doing with packing?

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blueteddy · 31/07/2005 19:12

Not as well as I should be! It is a complete nightmare!
Not good about the MS, especially when camping!
Glad the boys had a nice time though.
I am off to throw my youngest into bed now!

baggybear · 31/07/2005 19:15

okie-doke! might catch up with you later. Give DS2 kiss from me! xx

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smellymelly · 31/07/2005 22:07

That's good news baggybear. I hope it goes well for you. I have 4 kids under 6!! My twins are 7 months...

baggybear · 31/07/2005 22:21

WOW melly! I will have 4 under 7 so will be on to you for advice!!

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smellymelly · 01/08/2005 16:40

Bless you, I'm not sure how much help I can be!
We are actually moving to France in 2.5 weeks, so I will off the internet for a while... You will probably have had No.4 by the time I get hooked up again!
The best of luck to you....

baggybear · 01/08/2005 20:19

Thank you Melly. I need all the luck you can give me !!!

Good luck with the move and everything that goes with it - but i'm sure i'll hear from you before you go

Blueted - are you aroung tonight?

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blueteddy · 02/08/2005 09:56

Hi there BB! Sorry I wasn't on the pc much last night. Things are a bit hectic, as you can imagine!
This moving thing is an absolute nightmare!!!
How are things?
You don't know anyone who wants a little Tykes baby slide do you???
I will be off line from tomorrow until goodness knows when! (can take up to 20 days to be connected again!) How will I cope??!!
Hope you r taking it as easy as you can ATM!

baggybear · 02/08/2005 10:06

Bless ya, Blueted! I don't envy you, sorry. But I do feel for you. I hated every bit of moving. Good luck with everything. If you need anything just shout (but no heavy lifting, eh?!?!?).

Just got rid of a Tykes slide myself, but will ask around at group to see if anyone would like it.

I am taking it easy now. Got more support at home so things are easier. Hit 6 weeks today so sickness will probably get worse form now on - oh, great! Never mind, I'm determined to enjoy every waking moment of this pregnancy, vomming and all!

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blueteddy · 02/08/2005 10:20

Glad you are getting more support at home now BB!
Has DH got his head round it all now?
You never know, your sickness may not be as bad this time!
Moving is an absolute nightmare! I hate it!!!

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