Thread for those pg with second baby, pleased but terrified...

[Scotlian]

...of having to go through pregnancy and labour again; of not being able to cope with a baby and a toddler at the same time; of having 2 in nappies until at least 2012; of losing this baby if it's still early days...

And I'm sure there's lots more. I though I'd start a thread for us second timers as all most books/threads seem to be for excited fist time mums who have the TIME to sleep when tired, spend hours online, go for pregnancy pampers, spend days shopping for pregnancy clothes.

I'm 7 weeks preggers, due in October 2010. Ds will be 18 months by then

Aaaaaaah!

just found out today I am 5 weeks with dc2, dd1 is eight months.....
IT's so different to finding out about dd1, I'm feeling guilty for not being deliriously happy but I'm looking at my gorgeus daughter and wondering am I taking her precious time away by having another so soon?

My dh and I have just wandered around all evening looking at each other with big eyes saying things like....what have we done....

I'm sure all will be fine once the dust settles.....but childcare..for two?!?
a toddler...while heavily preggers?...bfing newborn and entertaining a toddler!!!! buggies, nursery, washing aaaagh heading into a tail spin!!!!

[slaps self on face]
sorry congratulations all
it will all be FINE. [RATHER TOO LOUDLY]