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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

You found WHAT on the scan???

148 replies

Jaydekins89 · 28/07/2026 12:41

Sooooooo 😂😂

I went in last week for scan on my kidneys, a suspicious lump that needed checking. Climb up on the bed and said to the lady “oh this brings back memories!!” She smiled at me, and started the scan. First stop, bladder. Asked if I’d used the toilet and I said yes, asked any chance of pregnancy, I said NOOOOOOO…….she said “oh……I do see something here.”

well, I nearly fell off the bed looking round at the screen to see a HEARTBEAT!!!! I did a little swear under my breath (my children are 10 and 13…….im 37!!! I thought I was done and was so careful!!) and she said I need to take a pregnancy test…….which I thought was a bit irrelevant since there’s a baby on the screen with a beating heart!!

I took one anyway, positive instantly and the darkest I’ve ever seen a test…….next day I made an emergency appointment at EPU, there it was, 6 weeks…….and I had absolutely NO idea. Zero. And I’d still have no idea as I’m lacking any symptoms I had with my first two!!

so that’s my story! I’m still very much in shock and disbelief.

i thought I had a horrible cyst/lump…. Instead I left with a baby 🤣

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Mischance · 28/07/2026 17:44

Better a baby than a cyst! I love that she had you do a pregnancy test!

LittleFootprintsInSand · 28/07/2026 17:45

LittleFootprintsInSand · 28/07/2026 17:05

I never understand the mistrust of women who get pregnant on contraception - 99% over a whole population of sexually active women, over many years is obviously going to result in some babies! Even vasectomies sometimes fail. Even if everyone used condoms and the pill and the coil, there would still be some babies (very few, but some). It's life and the nature of risk!

Some people aren't particularly planning a baby but would be happy and capable if one came along and so taking 99% effective contraception is perfectly normal and acceptable way to view that risk.

Congratulations OP as you are clearly happy in these circumstances, and if you change your mind and are no longer happy about it in the next few weeks, there are options.

Oh, also to add, I'm not a doctor, but I imagine that the reason some women get multiple contraception failures is maybe as likely that these kinds of statistically rare (but not impossible) events do happen across the whole population - like people who get struck by lightening twice - rather than that there's something so unique about their individual bodies that compromises through contraception?

Everlore · 28/07/2026 17:47

Jan24680 · 28/07/2026 13:05

Congrats. I had no symptoms with my first until 9 weeks. Stopped tracking periods so it was a real surprise. I was 38 at the time. I just about looked pregnant at 36 weeks. Number 2 was an oops baby at 40.

I knew I was pregnant early as we had had IVF so I was testing on the date the clinic told us, also, I have very regular periods so the late period would have tipped me off even if it was unexpected. However, I had absolutely no pregnancy symptoms of any kind at any stage of pregnancy, apart from swollen ankles at the very end, and barely gained any weight. I am quite slim so thought I would be showing earlier but, even at nearly full-term, I barely had any bump, you would have to have looked really closely to even tell I was pregnant. Our perfect baby girl was a perfectly healthy weight when she was born and is now a very tall toddler, no idea where she was hiding herself!
I had a very easy and straightforward pregnancy and I know I am lucky not to have suffered from morning sickness or anything, but, in a way, I would have welcomed some symptoms as the lack of them worried me. I can totally imagine not realising you are pregnant until later on, especially if on hormonal birth control or if your periods are sporadic, given that I really didn't feel any different, didn't even start to feel baby kick until 22 weeks as I had an anterior placenta.
Congratulations on the lovely surprise OP!

CrazyMidget · 28/07/2026 17:54

Oh wow! OP, congratulations! And sorry, but LMFAO at going in for a kidney scan and finding a baby! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

BetterWithPockets · 28/07/2026 17:55

Jaydekins89 · 28/07/2026 17:18

So what would have been your route? As women get pregnant using all types of protection. The only way to make sure you have no more children is complete abstinence, and that would be very extreme!

it’s not a valid point at all, women get pregnant on contraceptives all the time, including the snip. I love that out of all I said THIS BIT is what’s being taken and run with. Contraception FAILS, what’s so difficult to understand about that? So I’d appreciate it if anyone with nothing nice to say scrolls on instead of poking at me for USING A CONTRACEPTIVE THATS 99% effective!

jeeeeez!!! Thank god I’m happy as you women would send someone much weaker in to a spin! Be kind!

I had a coil fitted and got pregnant, OP, so I hear you!

I’m glad you’re happy, despite the shock; congratulations!

PleaseAccepyMyUserNames · 28/07/2026 18:06

I've mentioned before on here. 36 years old, tee total, never pregnant before, horrendous PMT and weird cravings for white wine and crisps.
Did a pregnancy test just to shut up the voice in my head, and I swear the stick went positive before the pee even touched it!
Private scan confirmed 10weeks pregnant; I was in such shock and disbelief! My 'pmt' is 6 now, and we bumble along somehow 😂

And congratulations ❤️

Gwenna · 28/07/2026 18:07

Jaydekins89 · 28/07/2026 12:41

Sooooooo 😂😂

I went in last week for scan on my kidneys, a suspicious lump that needed checking. Climb up on the bed and said to the lady “oh this brings back memories!!” She smiled at me, and started the scan. First stop, bladder. Asked if I’d used the toilet and I said yes, asked any chance of pregnancy, I said NOOOOOOO…….she said “oh……I do see something here.”

well, I nearly fell off the bed looking round at the screen to see a HEARTBEAT!!!! I did a little swear under my breath (my children are 10 and 13…….im 37!!! I thought I was done and was so careful!!) and she said I need to take a pregnancy test…….which I thought was a bit irrelevant since there’s a baby on the screen with a beating heart!!

I took one anyway, positive instantly and the darkest I’ve ever seen a test…….next day I made an emergency appointment at EPU, there it was, 6 weeks…….and I had absolutely NO idea. Zero. And I’d still have no idea as I’m lacking any symptoms I had with my first two!!

so that’s my story! I’m still very much in shock and disbelief.

i thought I had a horrible cyst/lump…. Instead I left with a baby 🤣

Many many congratulations, OP! 💐 💖

Neuronimo · 28/07/2026 18:09

Oh wow congratulations OP, hope you are feeling ok about everything.

cityliving99 · 28/07/2026 18:09

That’s wonderful story.
wishing you a happy pregnancy!

IFancyABaconSarnie · 28/07/2026 18:18

How lovely! 🥰 👶 🥰
Congratulations OP.

OneSunnyGoldDreamer · 28/07/2026 18:23

congrats

but you comment about “37!!!!” As a fellow 37 year old trying for her first baby is a bit older mum shaming!!!!!

OneSunnyGoldDreamer · 28/07/2026 18:23

congrats

but you comment about “37!!!!” As a fellow 37 year old trying for her first baby is a bit older mum shaming!!!!!

OneSunnyGoldDreamer · 28/07/2026 18:23

congrats

but you comment about “37!!!!” As a fellow 37 year old trying for her first baby is a bit older mum shaming!!!!!

Snufkin88 · 28/07/2026 18:24

Wow what a lovely surprise! Wishing you all the best . I had my second at 38. It’s not that old !

Skyflier · 28/07/2026 18:34

Awwww huge congratulations. I’m hoping once the shock wears off you will be excited for the new arrival xx

ImogenBrocklehurst · 28/07/2026 18:38

I think that’s what my mum thought when she found out about me. Congratulations 😊

Ethelspagetti · 28/07/2026 18:43

Wow what a lovely surprise! Many congratulations 🥳 Wishing you all the best! Ignore the haters, I swear some people are mean for their personal entertainment!

LBFseBrom · 28/07/2026 18:46

Congratulations. You are not old, Jayde, and all will be well. A happy little accident.

ButtercupYellow26 · 28/07/2026 18:56

Congratulations 🎊

BrotherViolence · 28/07/2026 18:58

37 isn't at all old to have a baby lol

CrazyMidget · 28/07/2026 18:58

Meadowfinch · 28/07/2026 13:18

Congratulations OP ❤

I know that feeling. I was 44.5. Down to one tube and half an ovary.

Went to the gp feeling tired, and thought my thyroid was playing up, similar to my dsis. GP took a blood test and rang me the next day. Whaaaaaat !!

PWP at my age 😁

Edited

One tube and half an ovary! And you still got pregnant - at 44, too! Blimey!

PWP 😆I love that phrase!

greenfingers2026 · 28/07/2026 19:00

Congratulations OP! I am really pleased for you. What a nice surprise!

Yogabearmous · 28/07/2026 19:09

What a lovely story for baby 3 when they are older !!!
congratulations !

12234m · 28/07/2026 19:15

Jaydekins89 · 28/07/2026 15:14

I didn’t trust it again after my second….. I changed to a completely different pill that was effective for 10 years! Your coming off as jealous and bitter

The poster really isn't coming across as jealous and bitter at all 🙄

VivIsBlonde · 28/07/2026 19:35

OMG!
I would have died!
no way at 37 would I want a baby, no way would I want such a big age gap 😱😱

My tiny friend went to Australia for a year, she was a size 8 and literally lived in bikinis for the whole year, 3 weeks after coming home felt very ill and had horrendous belly pains, parents called an ambulance and she went to hospital only to find out she was fully dilated and was about to have a baby!!
Her stomach was as flat as a pancake in all her holiday photos even the photos that were taken the day she flew home!