Unexpected pregnancy with new partner and a child already

[Rosesandstuff]

I can't believe I've been so stupid, will just put that disclaimer there now, but I've just found out that I'm pregnant. I've only been with my boyfriend for 10 months and I already have a 4 year old DS. Haven't told bf yet because I've literally just found out and he's busy with a friend atm. We don't live together. He doesn't even know if he wants kids. I know he won't want this one. I don't even know if I want this one. Would turn our lives upside down completely and I don't know if our relationship would survive it.

I think I need - advice - what would you do if you were me? Keep the baby or not?
And positive stories if you've been in a similar situation and kept the baby.

30 you have another ten years to have one

but you might want a sibling for your child. Be prepared to be a simgle mum juggling two parents though

It’s awful that she’s told you this’ poor sister

It is awful, we all love her, but they shouldn’t have had her and as a result she had a boring upbringing where nobody wanted to do anything with her. She’s done really well at uni and she’s now doing her own thing which I am so proud of her for. As a result of this, I am very pro choice and don’t see the benefit of birthing babies you don’t want. I say this as a pregnant mum of one.