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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Pregnancy after loss

379 replies

ChasingRainbow5 · 18/05/2026 10:10

Hi, I'm 4+4 after a loss at 6+5 in April. I don't want to join the 'due in January' thread yet as I joined the December one then had to bow out, but thought it might be nice to have a thread where anyone in a similar position could chat/vent? I can't see any recent similar threads, apols if I have missed.

I'm feeling a lot more nauseous than last time which I have read can be a positive sign, but obviously doesn't guarantee anything. Just trying to cling to any hope I can!

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Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 16:57

Went for a scan today because of the bleeding
Didnt see much sadly
Cervix is closed and womb lining is thick
I have irregular periods due to PCOS so i never know when im ovulating
Theyve started me on progesterone
Took bloods and will repeat Sunday morning
They said i could of ovulated later, pregnancy in an unknown location or a threatened miscarriage
Has anyone been through anything similar?
Any positive outcomes?

sapphirerubydiamond · 16/07/2026 18:51

Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 16:57

Went for a scan today because of the bleeding
Didnt see much sadly
Cervix is closed and womb lining is thick
I have irregular periods due to PCOS so i never know when im ovulating
Theyve started me on progesterone
Took bloods and will repeat Sunday morning
They said i could of ovulated later, pregnancy in an unknown location or a threatened miscarriage
Has anyone been through anything similar?
Any positive outcomes?

Sorry to hear that @Countrygirl95 I had a threatened miscarriage with my first pregnancy which wasn’t a positive outcome unfortunately. It’s really hard when things are irregular and you don’t know when you’re ovulating (I also have PCOS so been there!). When was your last period and when did you get your first BFP? Might help you narrow down possible dates a bit. I hope your blood results are reassuring and things start looking clearer and positive soon x

Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 19:18

Oh im sorry to hear!
My LMP was 5th June
Tested negative on 1st July
Very faint positive on 5th July (needed my partner to confirm it)

ThatMintMember · 16/07/2026 21:14

Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 16:57

Went for a scan today because of the bleeding
Didnt see much sadly
Cervix is closed and womb lining is thick
I have irregular periods due to PCOS so i never know when im ovulating
Theyve started me on progesterone
Took bloods and will repeat Sunday morning
They said i could of ovulated later, pregnancy in an unknown location or a threatened miscarriage
Has anyone been through anything similar?
Any positive outcomes?

I'm sorry your scan hasn't given you the reassurance you were hoping!

From your test dates it sounds possible that you're a little earlier than you thought. Did they mention they could see a gestational sac or yolk sac or anything?

Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 21:50

Nope could not see anything
At the moment its a PIUL

ThatMintMember · 16/07/2026 22:02

Ah ok. Have they arranged a follow up scan to check the progress?

sapphirerubydiamond · 17/07/2026 08:01

Countrygirl95 · 16/07/2026 19:18

Oh im sorry to hear!
My LMP was 5th June
Tested negative on 1st July
Very faint positive on 5th July (needed my partner to confirm it)

Based on those dates I think it’s highly likely you’re just really early which could explain why they couldn’t see anything- I’ll keep everything crossed for you 🤞🏻 x

ChasingRainbow5 · 17/07/2026 09:40

@Countrygirl95 agree that it's possible you're just really early. The earliest I've ever had a positive is 10DPO and if yours was really faint it could be even earlier. Say you were 8-9DPO on 5 July, you'd only be about 4-5 weeks now. Keeping everything crossed for you xx

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Countrygirl95 · 17/07/2026 10:05

They are seeing if my HCG rises first i think
Then they will do a follow up scam

Countrygirl95 · 17/07/2026 10:14

Got my HCG levels back and they are currently at 25
So im hoping im alot earlier than i thought
Id rather of seen them low with no sac then high with no sac
They said HCG has to be over 1000 to see anything

Namechangedforthis60 · 23/07/2026 07:02

Hi @Countrygirl95 how are you doing?

How is everyone getting on?

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 08:37

I'm still waiting impatiently for my NIPT results, nothing else really to report. How are you @Namechangedforthis60?

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sapphirerubydiamond · 23/07/2026 10:00

Any idea when you can expect your NIPT results @ChasingRainbow5?

all good over here, currently half way through the TWW of our first cycle back trying again 😬

Namechangedforthis60 · 23/07/2026 10:25

@ChasingRainbow5 hopefully you won’t have to wait too long!

@sapphirerubydiamond good luck with your new cycle!

I am ok, half way point is slowly creeping up so looking forward to my scan in two weeks! Still not feeling any movement really but may have had some flutters the other day. Nothing im sure of yet though!

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 10:55

@sapphirerubydiamond wishing you ALL the luck!!

I had my blood taken last Monday and they said 5-7 working days, but I think that's from arriving at the lab. So basically I'm hoping this week, had myself convinced they'd come yesterday and was exhausted by the end of the day, didn't realise how stressed I was!

@Namechangedforthis60 nearly half way is so exciting, I'm sure you'll feel some movement soon 😁

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Lgn90 · 23/07/2026 11:25

Hi all, I've literally just read this entire thread! Sorry to everyone who has has not great news and really hopefuly to see that it seems to be working out with a lot of you!
I am 6+6 with my 4th pregnancy. 1st was a chemical, 2nd was the month aftera and was my gorgeous DS born Oct 23, 3rd was a MC in Dec 2025 at 9+6 which was awful.
We went through testing and my DH had slightly low sperm count, so we were about to start IVF in July! Have £800 worth of meds in the fridge and then I go and get a positive test.
It's felt like a really long wait already and still have 3 weeks to go to reach the point that I was at last time. I had also told pretty much everyone that we were starting IVF so with half my friends I've said we've decided to wait, half sort of vaguely implied we've started and it's going fine.
I was prescribed progesterone by the IVF clinic but only 21 days worth which will run out at 8 weeks so maybe I should be asking for more?!
Have a private scan booked this Sat where I'll hopefully be 7+1. But even that won't be too reassuring as with the pregnancy last year I had good scans at 6w then 9w

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 11:49

Welcome @Lgn90, congratulations on your current pregnancy and sorry it's been so difficult to get to this point. Definitely ask about more progesterone, I was prescribed it because I'd had a loss and bleeding in my current pregnancy so I'm not sure what the criteria would be for you, or if it varies in different areas.

It's so hard when scans don't automatically mean reassurance, but I'll have everything crossed for you on Saturday x

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MamaB12 · 23/07/2026 12:19

TMI, I am 7 weeks pregnant tomorrow
i am currently on holiday, have been constipated on and off during this holiday (i always am when im abroad)
there has been occasions i have been straining. earlier i passed a stool and wiped which then appeared a really light pink tinged discharge on the tissue. I did have sex last night and there was some left over (ejaculation) in the toilet which looked a bit of a pink tinged discharge to it. I put my finger up with a tissue and it was such a light tinge of pink. I then got my partner to put his finger up to double check and there was nothing but clear discharge.
as you can imagine i am absolutely mortified. I don’t know what to do or what to expect. I currently have no pain but i feel like i’m just expecting pains to happen?! i fly home friday morning and im praying nothing happens this holiday 💔💔💔💔
i did have mc in april which started with cramps then followed by brown blood at 7 weeks but baby was measuring 5💔

i rang my EPU earlier and they said this is normal?!

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 12:41

@MamaB12 I had pink discharge at roughly the same stage (around 6.5 weeks) and my EPU brought me in for a scan so it seems strange to me that they're saying it's normal, though it could be because it was after sex? Definitely call them back if you have any more. Sorry that you're having to deal with it on holiday, it's so stressful 😔

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MamaB12 · 23/07/2026 12:54

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 12:41

@MamaB12 I had pink discharge at roughly the same stage (around 6.5 weeks) and my EPU brought me in for a scan so it seems strange to me that they're saying it's normal, though it could be because it was after sex? Definitely call them back if you have any more. Sorry that you're having to deal with it on holiday, it's so stressful 😔

how did the pregnancy progress for you?
yeah it was the morning after sex so the wednesday morning and a bit in the afternoon but iv not had any more today..
it’s a very worrying time. i do have a private scan booked for when i get back, so

ThatMintMember · 23/07/2026 12:57

Welcome @Lgn90! I hope your scan goes well on Saturday and that it helps you cope in the run up to future scans.

Wishing you lots of luck with the next part of your TTC journey @sapphirerubydiamond !

@MamaB12 try not to panic, the cervix is very sensitive during pregnancy so sex or even a bowl movement could cause a tiny wipe of pink.

@ChasingRainbow5 I hope you don’t have to wait too much longer!

@Namechangedforthis60 that's so exciting that you're nearing the half way point! Good luck for your scan :)

All good with me thankfully, 22 weeks now and started getting round ligament pain at the weekend! Sharp pains whilst out and about weren't fun. Thankfully it didn't last too long.

Countrygirl95 · 23/07/2026 13:39

Namechangedforthis60 · 23/07/2026 07:02

Hi @Countrygirl95 how are you doing?

How is everyone getting on?

Hey
Sadly it was a confirned loss Monday
Roughly 5 weeks
Still actively bleeding... 10th day
I have my recurrent miscarriage clinic 3rd August
Praying that something can be done
Sending you all baby dust
Maybe 5th time lucky for me 🪽❤️

ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 13:39

MamaB12 · 23/07/2026 12:54

how did the pregnancy progress for you?
yeah it was the morning after sex so the wednesday morning and a bit in the afternoon but iv not had any more today..
it’s a very worrying time. i do have a private scan booked for when i get back, so

I'm 14 weeks today, still anxious AF unfortunately!

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ChasingRainbow5 · 23/07/2026 13:40

Countrygirl95 · 23/07/2026 13:39

Hey
Sadly it was a confirned loss Monday
Roughly 5 weeks
Still actively bleeding... 10th day
I have my recurrent miscarriage clinic 3rd August
Praying that something can be done
Sending you all baby dust
Maybe 5th time lucky for me 🪽❤️

I'm so so sorry. Please take good care of yourself xxx

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ThatMintMember · 23/07/2026 14:08

Countrygirl95 · 23/07/2026 13:39

Hey
Sadly it was a confirned loss Monday
Roughly 5 weeks
Still actively bleeding... 10th day
I have my recurrent miscarriage clinic 3rd August
Praying that something can be done
Sending you all baby dust
Maybe 5th time lucky for me 🪽❤️

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that! Take care of yourself and I hope your appointment at the clinic can help x