@redxlondon I felt the same when packing it, I used a checklist supplied by John Lewis and another from an online baby care course we attended, and it is a lot of stuff, but I'd rather have too much than too little!
I've ended up using a small cabin size suitcase for my stuff (pjs, pads and comfy clothes seem to be taking up the most room) and then a weekend bag for the babies stuff- which has got everything in there, and just about fastens up.
I've then used another weekend bag for my OH and dumped all the electronics, extra baby milk and my outfit to leave the hospital in there (it's a nice big oversized sweatshirt dress but far too big to go in my case but super comfy 😅)
I then have a "extras bag" in case we are in longer than a couple of days which has more baby milk, and spare nightwear/clothes for me so far- will add extra pads etc to this too.
But there is so much stuff, and it's so hard when you could be in for a day or in for a while, I just know I'd feel more comfortable knowing I've got everything, and if needed OH can bring the spare bag without me needing to direct him to find everything because he absolutely would not get everything right 😅