Pregnant after miscarriage - support thread NEW

[tulipsunday]

Welcome to all those who are pregnant following a miscarriage/s. A space where we can share our anxieties and our joys.

@Brokenpancreas94 im a few days behind you and finding I’m so uncomfortable at night now. Slept with a pillow between my knees last night and it was much better!

finally had my screening results back today. 1/5000 chance. I’m happy with that!

@tulipsunday I need to get a pillow I think, I did have a body pillow but no idea where it's gone, think my partner put it in the loft 😫😫

I keep wanting to lay on my back as it seems the most comfortable but know we can't really.

I've come out in hives today 😫😫

@Misspotterscat glad your screening results have come back okay.

Oh lovely @suz2285 congratulations, do you have any other dc at home? He has the sweetest button nose in the picture 😍 x

@Brokenpancreas94 oh dear about the hives, do you think you were eating something that caused it? Hope they aren't itchy. x

@Ladyinpink1 they've disappeared now luckily! Think it could have been a new stain remover that we had used 😫🤦🏼‍♀️ just so nervous as in 2019 I had chronic hives for 6 months, every time I get an itch or rash I think it's coming back! X

@Brokenpancreas94 oh no glad they have disappeared. I had one of those massive whole body pillows last time too got rid of it as didn't have the storage space but may end up getting another 😂 hello Facebook market space!

@tulipsunday didn't think to look on Facebook market place! Might have a look on Vinted too...obsessed with Vinted haha 😂🤦🏼‍♀️x

@Ladyinpink1 no this is my first! I know right I said to the sonographer he has my nose 💖

@tulipsunday I'm planning on getting half my stuff from Facebook marketplace! So cheap!

@Brokenpancreas94 oh yeh good idea I might look for some maternity bits as well don't want to spend loads but could do with a few longer tops

Hives are back again today, think it's actually heat/sweat related 😫😞 will mention it tomorrow at the hospital

Hope it settles down soon @Brokenpancreas94

Sorry they are back @Brokenpancreas94 hopefully they can get you something to help at the hospital tomorrow x

@suz2285 oh lovely... boys are great, they are so loving to their mums (I have 2 boys) and they sit either side of me at night one playing with my hair and the other giving me back and arm rubs lol (until their dad gets home then i'm forgotten 🤣 ) x

I kept my giant pillow @tulipsunday but it was only a cheap amazon one and when I checked it, the stuffing in it has now moved and separated, i'm going to try to fix it to save spending on another. Our other half's won't be happy when the pillows come out, ad they take up half the bed don't they 😄 x

Also a big fan of vinted, I used to use Ebay but find vinted much easier and cheaper postage etc but it's also addictive 🙂

@Ladyinpink1 aww that's so sweet your boys sound lovely 💙

I've got 2 pairs of jeans from Vinted so far, been looking at leggings this morning! 😂 trying not to buy tooo much but I'll def need a few bits!

Definitely inspired to have a vinted browse. Ha yeh DH will not be pleased to see the return of the giant pillow 😂 aw your boys sound lovely @Ladyinpink1 have a feeling I will end up with two boys. Just a few more weeks to wait!

We really want a boy, well me and my daughter do 😂 obviously will just be happy with a healthy baby, but one of each would be nice!

Aw yeh I would quite like a girl so have one of each but we shall see. Don't think my husband has a preference - just one that sleeps 😂 my son think the baby is a girl and has named her a weird made up name which totally isn't happening! Lol

My partner wants a girl as he seems to think that because we've already got a girl another will be the same 😂🤦🏼‍♀️ yeah our daughter has named our "boy" either Shlord or Timmy 😂 not happening either @tulipsunday
Feeling super rough today, sat in antenatal now an hour early 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

@tulipsunday what's the weird name?

I mean at this rate I'll be using Shlord as our baby boy name @Brokenpancreas94 as I'm not sure we're gonna come up with anything better and husband isn't onboard with any of my choices haha!

@ChloeN hope you're doing ok? X

Shlord lol a strong choice. Our baby 'girl' is called Noina apparently 😂 least she will be unique I guess ha

@tulipsunday that's sweet ❤️

These are cracking me up! My 3 year old daughter says her 'sister' will be called Shanta, and refuses to acknowledge that it might be a boy. She says "it has to be a girl so she's just like me".
Cue me explaining that even if it is a girl she'll be different,bla bla, she just wandered off.

@suz2285 we’re doing good!☺️ she’s 4 days old today 🥹 my milk has come in so I actually have the big boobs everyone says about🥳😂😂

@Hankthehonk that's sweet, it's funny how they get in their heads that they want one or the other 😂

Aww that's great @ChloeN ❤️ welcome to the giant boob club 😂😂

@ChloeN haha woop woop! Glad all ok. Did you get to go home quite soon after the birth?

@Hankthehonk yep my daughter is certain it can only be a boy and if it's not then we have to swap him for a girl 😬😂

Glad all is okay @ChloeN enjoy the newborn bubble ❤️💖

@suz2285 suggest Shlord to him see what he says 😂😂

Ha ha, loved reading all of the made up names. Kids are so funny.

@ChloeN Glad all is well and yay for your milk coming in... it's the only times in my life I have ever had a big chest. Just don't forget to swap sides through the night 🤣