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Due November 2023 - part 2

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MooseWL · 21/03/2023 14:52

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Sb86 · 14/04/2023 16:24

Oh @38andtrying I am sorry to hear that baby B has no heartbeat, I don't think any amount of preparation could truly prepare you for that news. Praying for baby A and of course you and your OH ❤️ hopefully baby A keeps growing bigger and stronger x

SnookyPook · 14/04/2023 16:55

@38andtrying so sorry to hear about Baby b 😞💕 Wishing little Baby a all the best and hope all goes well for you from here on ❤️

38andtrying · 14/04/2023 17:06

Thanks @SnookyPook my news pales in significance, I'm hoping you are able to get some rest this weekend and come to terms with things, it's the worst club in the world xx

Spareincoming · 14/04/2023 17:54

@SnookyPook and @38andtrying I’m so sorry to hear both of your updates. From my own experience, it’s a dreadful club to be part of.

Psqueak87 · 14/04/2023 18:15

@N1sh4 I had read not to dye hair until second trimester, so right now my roots are awful and I’m only wearing my hair up. However at my OBGYN apt last week he literally said to me (without me asking), you’re good to dye your hair, get a perm, etc, (he must have noticed the salt n pepper look) so I plan on doing it as soon as I have the energy to!

Psqueak87 · 14/04/2023 18:20

@SnookyPook @38andtrying I’m so sorry for both of your bad news today. Sending lots of love ❤️

Hjkttk · 14/04/2023 18:22

Oh hello preg buddy. My due date shows 1st week of November and it's my second pregnancy as well.

JJ2023 · 14/04/2023 18:23

@SnookyPook and @38andtrying sending so much love to you both xx

vix_85 · 14/04/2023 18:36

@SnookyPook sending so much love to you. Receiving that news at a scan is so heartbreaking. I hope you can rest these next few weeks and take the time you need ❤️

@38andtrying so sorry to bear this news and sending all the prayers for you and baby x

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 14/04/2023 19:37

@38andtrying @SnookyPook I am so sorry, sending you so much love x

Rebs23 · 15/04/2023 13:51

Is there a part 3 for this thread?

Travellingislife · 15/04/2023 14:11

@SnookyPook so sorry ❤️ I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Hope you have good support around you.
@38andtrying very sad to hear about baby b ❤️

I’ve got my NIPT on Wednesday and I’m starting to get anxious, I suffered from insomnia from the start of the pregnancy but it’s got better the last few weeks, now it’s back with a vengeance though and I’m lying awake worrying about disabilities and chromosomal issues as well as if the baby is actually alive.
Being pregnant after a loss is really messing with me, I didn’t feel like this in my first pregnancy. I wish the first trimester could hurry up and that all is well with the baby, I want to start to enjoy this pregnancy!

Sb86 · 15/04/2023 15:08

@Travellingislife I feel exactly the same, I have my blood test and 12 week scan on 4th of May and I'm so anxious. My partner keeps asking me if I'm happy about being pregnant as I look so sad all the time but it's difficult to start getting excited after you've suffered a loss. We spoke a lot more about names and items we'd like to buy for the baby but nothing this time. I think once we get past the hurdle of the 12 week scan and tests we may start feeling more like expectant parents. Sending love and hope all goes well on Weds xx

Mldn · 15/04/2023 16:56

Have people continued to exercising? I’ve barely been able to keep up running as usual but I went out today and managed a decent sized run and kept my HR about 155bpm. But I’m so conscious with all the conflicting advise online re keeping HR to 140bpm.. and then other articles saying that’s a myth & if you exercised frequently before then you’re okay to continue? Another day… another worry.

Spareincoming · 15/04/2023 18:12

@Mldn I’m really struggling with exercising or the lack of ability to! I’m a super keen cyclist usually but I can’t go more than about 4 miles without feeling exhausted and at times travel sick! Previously I cycled until 37 weeks!
I am debating buying a treadmill and doing short walks in the garage to maintain something!

In other news, this week I’ve been having the awful headaches again ugh!

And disappointingly my NIPT blood test failed.
Not enough fetal dna present in my sample. Trying not to freak out. Just debating what to do now as the next time I’m working down where the text took place is the week after my 12 week scan. There’s no alternative locally and it’s a 6 hour round trip!

Mldn · 15/04/2023 18:20

@Spareincoming thanks for replying! Yes, I’m defo struggling to exercise or want to exercise. I was running half marathon distance frequently pre finding out pregnant.. since then I’ve not really been able to run at a similar pace or even get round a run without being breathless. But today I managed a little run but now thinking we shouldn’t increase our heart rate too much?? Ah I dunno. Im so bored of being paranoid over every little thing & feel generally rubbish all of the time.

sorry to hear about your nipt. Sounds incredibly frustrating 😞 I’ve not gone for one but I’ve read other people who have struggled a few times on here so hopefully somebody can get back to you with advice x

Psqueak87 · 15/04/2023 18:20

@Spareincoming do you know why the NIPT would fail? Done too early? Or just bad luck? I did mine last week at 10+3. My OBGYN told me I could go any time after 10 but I’m worried that maybe I went too soon.

MeganC104 · 15/04/2023 18:37

I'm struggling to exercise. Today was my worst day yet for sickness. Barely ate anything

Fairylight102 · 15/04/2023 18:45

Also really struggling to exercise due to nausea.

It’s a shame because I had just started getting into spinning before the nausea hit me at 6 weeks, but honestly I just couldn’t face that much movement right now.

After weighing it up for a while I started taking Cyclizine today, can’t say it’s had much effect though.

Travellingislife · 15/04/2023 19:23

@Mldn I’m continuing to exercise, doing what I’ve been doing but with less intensity but still up at 80, sometimes 90% for a short while, of my max heart rate, my body won’t let me push hard for long anyway, for about 10h a week. I’m nauseous and fatigued but I always feel better after exercising so I try to get it done first thing. I’ve done lots of research about exercise in pregnancy and it’s nothing but benefits for you and the baby. I also had my booking in appointment yesterday too and the midwife said they recommend you continue with the exercise you’ve been doing and if you haven’t done any, you should start! Within reason of course- if you’re a kick-boxer or a free diver you shouldn’t maybe continue.
I might do a triathlon in 2 weeks time but haven’t decided yet, I’ll of course go at a comfortable pace.
I exercised throughout my pregnancy with my son as well, I did a CrossFit comp at 15 weeks and a half marathon at 16, I think it was. I listened to my body but pushed quite hard in training throughout pregnancy, my water broke while training 😊 I’ve exercised at a high level all my life so my body is used to it though.
You sound like an experienced runner and I wouldn’t worry about your hr, I think your body would let you know if it’s too hard.
Obvs don’t push it so you get lactic acid or try to go for a 10k pb 😅
When some ignorant people tell me it’s dangerous to exercise while pregnant I tell them some countries wouldn’t have to fight against the right to have an abortion if it was that easy to “ get rid of a baby”.
My midwife also said that if you don’t have a high risk pregnancy there is not much you can do to induce a miscarriage if the baby is healthy.

Travellingislife · 15/04/2023 19:28

@Sb86 thank you! I hope your scan goes well too in a few weeks! It’s such a worrisome time 😞
We’re the same, when I was pregnant with my son we spoke about it all the time, names, how we would be as parents, clothes etc etc but not this time, we hardly mention it. That’s actually very sad. I think I’ll just have to believe it’s going to go well until it’s proven otherwise. Easier said than done though..

Mldn · 15/04/2023 19:31

@Travellingislife thank you so much!! We’ve spoken before about exercise.. sorry. I’m just so nervous but I know I’d feel better if I could comfortably go for a run without worry holding me back! I have a scan this week so I may ask! I’ve been trying to keep my HR at like 150/160 which is about 70/80% max. But usually when I run my HR is much higher, like 175/80. But it always has been that level, even though I am experienced. I have friends that are defo in the camp of “exercise is dangerous” which blows my mind as exercise is the only thing that helps me mentally and physically. Think I’m gonna try & get out a bit more & get my running back on track… literally! Hope you’re doing well x

Travellingislife · 15/04/2023 19:32

@Psqueak87
I was recommended to wait until 11 weeks to be sure it was enough fetal dna present. I’ll get it done next week.
Sorry to hear it failed @Spareincoming, it must be very frustrating 😞

Travellingislife · 15/04/2023 19:40

@Mldn I know, it’s really difficult with so much conflicting information. Some midwives aren’t even up to scratch with the guidelines and would tell you not to start exercising if you’ve not done it before.
Definitely ask at your scan and also try and do some research to find some credible information you resonate with. Exercise is what keeps me sane and I would not stop unless it would harm my baby.
I think you’ll be absolutely fine carrying out but you need to do what feels right for you!

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