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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Anyone else due July after a MC? 🌈

117 replies

Mamaoftwooo · 03/01/2023 17:59

I had a miscarriage earlier in the year and I’m currently 11 weeks pregnant, the past 2 months has been umm… an emotional rollercoaster, I’m over the moon to be pregnant, but I’m in a state of constant worry that something will go wrong, every little pain terrifies me…
just wondering if there’s any other mummy’s out there in the same position? ♥️

handholding post I guess 🫣

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ChloeN · 03/01/2023 18:01

Not quite july but I’m due 3rd august, had a mmc in the summer so I know exactly how you feel! It’s such a scary time I’m hoping I’ll feel better once out of the first trimester!

usedtolovenaps · 03/01/2023 18:15

Hey. I am due at the very end of June and also had two miscarriages You're not alone, I'm happy to chat. Feeling very anxious like yourself ❤️

MamaSJ15 · 03/01/2023 18:31

Hello 😊 due July and had a miscarriage back in June. Currently just hit 12 weeks based on my last period and have my dating scan on Thursday. How is everyone doing?

ChloeN · 03/01/2023 18:33

@MamaSJ15 my first scan is on Sunday, I’m soo anxious but hoping everything’s okay! Had my first midwife appt today which was nice☺️ have you had any scans yet? X

Overandabove1 · 03/01/2023 18:36

I had mmc in April and now 11 weeks pregnantnervous but excited! Had an early scan done by the hospital when I was 9 weeks all looked good so that has helped me relax a bit.

MamaSJ15 · 03/01/2023 18:37

@ChloeN it's so exciting though isn't it! I had a private scan at nearly 8 weeks. They measured a few days behind but it's so hard to tell when it's so early.
Is this your first?

ChloeN · 03/01/2023 18:40

@MamaSJ15 ah that’s fab news☺️ yeah this is my first! I think that’s why I’m so nervous for the scan I’ve never had one that’s been good news before so I’m just hoping this time will be different!

MamaSJ15 · 03/01/2023 19:15

@ChloeN ah I'm sure it will be different! It's so exciting. This is my second so sort of know what to expect but it's still a bit knervewracking!

ChloeN · 03/01/2023 19:21

@MamaSJ15 are you going to find out the gender or have a surprise?☺️

positivethoughts1 · 03/01/2023 19:27

I'm due June after a miscarriage at 9+3 in July. Had a bit of an emotional rollercoaster in the first 12 weeks, I had a scan at 7 weeks and was told the heartbeat was a bit on the slow side. Panicked obviously, thought the same thing was going to happen again. Had my bloods taken at EPU and told my progesterone was too low only to be told 2 days later that was wrong and it was fine. Queue 4 weeks of absolute hell waiting for the 12 week scan and baby was measuring perfectly, bouncing around the screen! Waiting for my 20 week scan to come through now!

Wishing everyone luck for their scans and pregnancies ❤️❤️❤️

ImHopeful2023 · 03/01/2023 20:43

Hi I know exactly how you feel I had two miscarriages last year and am currently 19 weeks pregnant had a scan last week and heard the heart beat but I can't shake the worry of something going wrong I have no living children and this is the furthest we have got in a pregnancy so we are hoping it will continue to all go ok

MamaSJ15 · 04/01/2023 07:16

@ChloeN definitely finding out, we currently have a load of stuff for a girl so if it's a boy we'd have to get different clothes and things. How about you?

Mamaoftwooo · 05/01/2023 09:23

Sorry I’ve not been back on since I posted! sending lots of love to every single mama that is on this post ♥️

@ChloeN hi!! Sorry to hear about your mmc, congratulations on your pregnancy! Yes im hoping I feel better once I’ve had my 12wk scan but at the minute everything is worrying me 🫣

@usedtolovenaps hi there! I’m so sorry to hear about your previous miscarriages, congratulations on your new pregnancy! ♥️

@MamaSJ15 hi! So sorry to hear about your miscarriage, congratulations on your pregnancy and good luck for your scan! ♥️

@Overandabove1 hii!! Sorry to hear about your mmc! Congratulations on your pregnancy! I’ve had two scans so far, one at 6+3 and one at 9+4 but they just don’t seem to settle my nerves 😓

@positivethoughts1 so sorry to hear about your previous miscarriage, I’m so glad your current pregnancy is going well, congratulations! ♥️

@ImHopeful2023 im very sorry to hear about your previous miscarriages, congratulations on your current pregnancy and I’m glad it’s all going well ♥️ I know the feeling of not being able to shake the worry, even after the scans I’ve had the worry has set straight back in that something will happen ☹️ I’m trying my best to stay positive now ♥️

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ChloeN · 05/01/2023 10:06

@MamaSJ15 were going to have a surprise (if I can possibly hold out I imagine it’s very tempting🤣)

@Mamaoftwooo is your scan soon?☺️

Mamaoftwooo · 05/01/2023 11:26

ChloeN · 05/01/2023 10:06

@MamaSJ15 were going to have a surprise (if I can possibly hold out I imagine it’s very tempting🤣)

@Mamaoftwooo is your scan soon?☺️

I’m not sure, I’m around 11+4 and still haven’t heard anything ☹️

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ChloeN · 05/01/2023 11:49

@Mamaoftwooo oh really, that’s rubbish! I had my midwife appt this week and they said they’d send me a letter but I feel like I’m not holding out much hope 🤣

rach971 · 05/01/2023 19:15

Hiya ☺️

I'm currently 10+6 after a mmc back in August and totally understand how you're feeling. I had an EPU scan at 6+6 due to brown discharge and then a private scan for some reassurance at 8+6. My dating scan is on Wednesday and it honestly feels like an eternity away. I can't stop thinking about going to the scan and getting bad news. I'm terrified baby isn't okay in there. Sometimes I feel okay and positive and other times I just feel like crying from worry.

Pink Pamplemousse · 05/01/2023 22:41

Hello, I'm also 10+6! I had a MMC in June last year (discovered at 11 weeks but heartbeat had stopped at 8 weeks).

I've had two private scans so far at 8 and 10 weeks, all has been OK so far but I'm still terribly paranoid that it'll all go wrong.

I've had my booking in appt but dating scan isn't until I'm almost 14 weeks Hmm feels like such a long time to wait so I'm considering another private scan argh!

Hopefully being out of the first trimester will help us all settle a little xx

Butterflies12 · 06/01/2023 07:35

Hi, I'm 10+4 and had a missed miscarriage in April where baby had stopped growing at 6ish weeks. I've had 3 scans so far due to spotting and the latest one was 9+1 where everything looked fine but I am the same as you and cannot stop worrying. My dating scan is next Saturday. I'm the meantime the GP has told me I've got BV and prescribed me metronidazole antibiotic gel. I haven't used it because I'm terrified of taking anything but I'm also terrified of not treating the BV so every day I'm panicking, not knowing what to do! I hope I can relax after the dating scan which will hopefully be ok 🤞

hopingthirdtimelucky · 06/01/2023 07:55

Congratulations to you all and sorry for the losses.

I’m currently 9+5 weeks pregnant had my first scan last week at 8+5 and was so anxious and was expecting the worse after having two mmc last year. But thankfully there was a heartbeat and all measured to what I was thinking I was as had two periods after the last mmc. It was so overwhelming and lots of happy tears.

I’ve been taking low dose aspirin this time round hoping it helps from recommendations and success stories. I
still have got symptoms but was up a lot in the night, just worrying and overthinking. Got my booking app next week then my dating scan is the week after which feels too far away. Don’t feel like I can get a private scan as that’s what I did last time and feel scared. But I keep telling myself 8+5 is the furthest we have got as believe it was around 7/8 weeks the last two. So hopefully all positive. Keeping hope and praying all will be ok so my son is able to have a sibling. Good luck and best wishes to you all xx

allgoodthings84 · 06/01/2023 08:54

I’m not due until August but I’ve had 2 early miscarriages. They weren’t mmc I knew I was miscarrying as bleeding heavily. I’m now 7 + 1 and terrified of it happening again or getting to a scan and finding out I’ve had a mmc. I think I’m going to have a private one at 9 weeks as my booking in appointment isn’t even until 10 weeks and I don’t get a scan appointment until after midwife registers me so unlikely to be 12 weeks

ChloeN · 06/01/2023 09:18

@allgoodthings84 I had my booking appt at 10 weeks so I thought the same but I’ve had my scan letter through and I’ll be 12+1 so right on time!

allgoodthings84 · 06/01/2023 10:06

@ChloeN ooo let’s hope so. I’m so nervous to go to a scan but same time I feel I need to know. I’m not short on symptoms though that’s for sure so I’m hoping that’s a good sign

hopingthirdtimelucky · 06/01/2023 16:42

Hi my booking app is next week and I’ll be 10 weeks and the. Just over 12 weeks for dating scan. It’s so hard waiting isn’t it. Hoping for the best for us all.

ChloeN · 06/01/2023 16:52

@allgoodthings84 me too it’s such a hard thing, I’m so excited to see the baby but also anxious at the same time! I’m quite impressed I’ve managed to hold out this long 🤣