Due Feb/Mar after MC 🌈 🙈

[MooBugz]

Hi all,

4+3 according to Flo app, pregnant after a miscarriage in March at 11 weeks so feeling very anxious / scared and needed a safe space to speak about pregnancy worries without thriving anyone of joy!

Feel free to join and share the journey together.

Also the progesterone may be causing the more painful cramping you’re experiencing, I’ve been having terrible cramps at times with the pessaries and from what I’ve been reading it’s really common.

So sorry @Skylark1990 the limbo is the worst. The private scan could be a good option, you can usually get very last minute appointments too. Do you have anything that usually distracts you well? Maybe watching a film or playing solitaire on your phone or something?

Sometimes a break from mumsnet really does help centre your mind again as well. Nothing is going to make you feel better, I know it wouldn't for me, but you have every chance that this is all okay and maybe some distraction to see you through another day will help. Keeping everything I can crossed for you xx

@Skylark1990 just catching up so sorry to hear your having bleeding again it must be so difficult to focus. I would try stay off the google though it's going to be a mixed bag and you won't know for sure till you get another scan. I think your very brave and doing great considering the ups and downs already. I hope you get yourself another scan booked soon and have everything crossed for you. Bleeding is always going to be a trigger esp with history of mc but praying it's not anything sinister 🙏

After hubby testing positive for covid on Tues, my two children have also tested positive for it today (one in his bday unlucky sod) so just trying to manage my anxiety around the reality that I will probably get it soon. So far testing neg.

Sending love to all and all the best for the scans this week ahead. I've still to book mine for two weeks time better get a move on so I have a date to look forward to

@Skylark1990 I do hope everything is okay, it’s so worrying for you been stuck in limbo 😞

I’ve booked another scan for tomorrow 🙈 they said at the other two I had it was concerning over small yolk sac so I’m worried about it so much and can’t wait another 3/4 weeks to find out

@madeinthe80z congrats on the successful scan!

@Skylark1990 so sorry to hear the bleeding is back. I echo what others say; if a sooner private scan is what you want, you should go for it.

Hi Everyone,

Sorry if I miss anyone/anything today - things are a bit stressful with work and uni at the moment so I am feeling a bit overwhelmed. I am sure I will be fine but you end up stressing out about being stressed haha! Never ending isn’t it.

@Rubes1234 Woohooo on getting the scan booked! We are all here for you and sending all the positivity we can :) Sorry you aren’t feeling too great though, hopefully it passes soon or the ginger really starts to work!

@JoKB I am feeling you with the worry about getting a scan too early. Mine is Monday and I will only be 6+4 so I am terrified I might not get a heartbeat but be told to come back in a week. Hope all goes well on Monday x

Hey @skylark Awww bless, you are going through a bit of a rollercoaster ride at the moment. I hope everything is ticking along as it should and you will get some extra reassurance tomorrow :) Sending lots of positivity to you x Yeah, scan on Monday…feeling very nervous! I have had a tough week with anxiety to be honest but work and uni are quite stressful at the moment so they are probably contributing to that.

Congratulations on the scan @madeinthe80z What wonderful news :) Sending lots of celebratory hugs x

Sorry @madeinthe80z totally missed your scan news that's a great outcome hope that helps reassure you things are looking good 😊

Thanks everyone, and 🤞 for everyone with scans coming up xx

I've finally bit the bullet and booked my early scan there for 11th July aahh. Now I'm scared! Just need to think positive until then, easy right 🙃

Hey all. Update from me. I'm currently in the emergency department waiting for a bed to stay overnight so they can internally scan me tomorrow. Earlier in the evening I passed a large amount of tissue alongside blood and bad cramping. It indicates miscarriage, and the abdominal scan they did at a&e suggests the yolk sac has gone (they could see this on the abdominal scan yesterday). However my cervix is closed which is weird as if I'm miscarrying, it should be open.

I'm kind of in shock, also very sad. I can't believe this has happened, especially after seeing baby yesterday. I really did think this pregnancy would go ahead, in my gut, every sign was pointing in the right direction until the bleeding started yesterday. I can definitely say all the worry has made no difference to how I feel today, that's for sure. It's still horrific and devastating.

I'm also really sorry if all this is triggering for others to read about. ❤️😥 But I guess we have this group so we can talk openly. Anyway, of course I've also just had covid so that's playing on my mind, could it have had an affect? Although please don't let that worry any of you if you have had it or have it now, majority of pregnant women are completely fine after. I don't think there is an evidentiary link as we already discussed.

Will let you know what the scan says tomorrow, but I'm pretty sure it's over for me now, this time around. 💔

Awww @Skylark1990 - you are one strong lady…even if you don’t feel like it right now. I am so sorry, and you don’t deserve any of this. I hope you get to go home soon and rest up, surrounded by lots of love.

If it is bad news - we are here for you if you need an outlet. Sending lots of love your way x

@Skylark1990 im so sorry you’re having to go through all of this - it’s so so hard. My friend had a similar thing happen and had bleeding for weeks after in smaller amounts and she has a healthy 2 year old - I hope it’s a positive scan for you today, thinking of you xxx

Oh @Skylark1990 just want to give you a big hug for the horrible few days you've had and so sorry you have to go through this. Although it's not looking great your not out till your out so I'm keeping everything crossed for you.

Like @RedElleJ regardless, we are 100% here for you and don't worry about triggering anyone because that's why we have this group so we can talk about it. I'm so sorry and covid has a lot to answer for and despite the studies people two of it's very different when you are living it for yourself and seeing the results happen in front of you. So unfair how much some people need to fight for their baby 😢 sending you hugs x

@Skylark1990 Sending you every positive thought I have your way. The pain and worry you must be feeling is horrendous. You are obviously an incredibly strong woman with grit and determination, whatever happens you have to know that you did your best. ❤️

@Skylark1990 I'm very sorry to read your news. I'm hoping they did the internal scan this morning and that they could see the baby! I'm hoping it's only because it was abdominal and too early pregnancy that they couldn't see the yolk sac last night. I'm praying for you that it's not a miscarriage. If it's a miscarriage please think that it doesn't mean you can't get pregnant again. It's a loss and you'll want to grieve but once you're ready you can try again. Nature can be hard sometimes and I'm so sorry for that but you're a strong woman and obviously fertile so you'll have your little baby very very soon in any case ☺️

Baby has gone 💔
Thank you all for your kind words. I appreciate reading them very much, especially as I am alone in Hospital at the moment.

@Skylark1990 I dont have any words. My heart is breaking for you. I truly hope they will be able to give you some definitive answers this time on how this has happened. Please take care of yourself. xxx

@Skylark1990 I'm very sorry. I know how much you hurt. I've been in your shoes 4 times previously. Time will heal the pain you feel now and you'll have the strength to try again. I'm really hoping you'll have a pregnancy as soon as you feel ready, and that that one will be a full term baby. 🙏

@Skylark1990 I am so so sorry! Wish I could give you a big hug! It’s horrible as we all know nothing we say or do can help or fix this for you.

Please do not worry about triggering any of us. We all know the possibilities and I’m sure I can speak for everyone when we say we just hope your ok and if you ever want to talk you know where we are!

Try and stay as strong as you can but allow yourself to grieve as well. Sending lots of love to you and your DP! Xx

@Skylark1990 I'm so sorry hun. 😞 Mostly because you're alone at the moment. Take some time to heal. Thinking of you.

@Skylark1990 I am so incredibly sorry! There is nothing I can say other than my thoughts are with you and I am sending lots and lots of hugs.

If you need us - we are here. Remember, every feeling and emotion is valid and give yourself as much time as you need to recover physically and emotionally.

Lots of love x

Oh it's so crap you're on your own in the hospital with this @Skylark1990
Thinking of you. I hope physically you are doing okay and the worst of it is over. Really sorry xx

@Skylark1990 😢
I'm finding it hard to know what to say right now because I know it's like the future has been snatched away from you all over again and I'm just so very sorry for your loss.
I hope you take the time to heal and trust your body again, and when the time is right it will happen.
I hope you are able to find answers and faith again to give it another go in time. Me and all the rest of your supporters are here for you so please don't feel like you are alone and feel whatever you need to feel. Don't feel like you need to leave this group either it's good to take out your feelings.
Do what you need to and feel better soon.
Again so sorry 😞 💔

@Skylark1990 I'm just so sorry. Take all the time you need and look after yourself. Sending loads of love xx