@BalletN
unfortunately we have no family nearby, and friends all have their own young kids/no kids but work so no extra support unless things get very desperate, in which case I'm sure one of our mum's would come to help out.
@LucindaE re: antacids, I was prescribed 150mg Ranitidine (sp?) With DD and it helped me. It can also be bought at a lower dosage over the counter, could be worth talking to a pharmacist or obstetrician if you're seeing one.
@buntywindermere I believe the research about ondansetron increasing the risk of cleft lip and pallette is quite recently, it isn't something I was told in 2019 but it's possible it just hasn't filtered through at that point. The actual risk is a 0.03% increase, absolute numbers I believe are an increase from 11 per 10,000 to 14 per 10,000 (think I read that on the BNF, haven't seen the original research it came from). Everyone has a different level of risk they are happy to accept, hopefully if it's something you want to try your mum and DH will support that.
I got some ondansetron Friday and it has helped the with the vomiting, nausea was still bad until today, the fact it has eased today enough for me to leave the house automatically has me worried I'm miscarrying though 🙁
Hugs to everyone, we're all one more day through this.