Navigating pregnancy after loss

[Cruz86]

Just setting this up so we can move all pregnancy-related stuff from the TTC after miscarriage thread.

@aesgriff @speake @Bridgey8 @Prayingformyrainbow93 @mrshodgy21 @Skl2021 @Ganesh2022 @HoneyLemon29 @bunnykins123 @theblueflowers

Please tag anyone else I have missed, this is as much as my brain can handle 😂

@Skl2021 😂😂😂 i bet!! Definitely not a 'relaxing hol' is it?! X

@calimc83 definitely not 🙈🤣 but kids are happy they love it. How are you doing xx

@Skl2021 That's the main thing! Yeah am ok ( 5 weeks today 😬) trying to decide whether to book an early scan or not xx

@speake @Cruz86 @aesgriff I'm the opposite here - my husband just needs to look at me funny and I'm a horny mess

@aesgriff that's good to hear and hopefully it goes away soon for you 💕 definitely we all deserve our little rainbows so so badly 🌈

@flowergarden16 good luck tomorrow 💕

Just catching up! So glad all was ok @aesgriff

I have another scan tomorrow to check on my bleeding... never ending! I also have a call with a counsellor tomo to try and figure out some techniques for dealing with the anxiety.

Had my screening results today - I in 4600 for DS and 1 in 50000 for the other two. Is this ok? Have no benchmark!

Oh poor them @speake @aesgriff 🤣 Mine has been understanding but there have been a few comments thrown in to tell me he's starting to struggle now! Your other half is lucky @barneymcgroo 😆

I'm okay thank you @aesgriff, just really struggling with nausea and constipation. Can't wait til I stop feeling sick every minute of the day! I'm not surprised you're feeling like that. It's been an absolute rollercoaster for you. I'm so glad everything is okay though. Have you had your 12 week scan booked in yet?

Good luck tomorrow @flowergarden16! It is such an anxious time before a scan, thinking of you 🌈

Ooh I'm glad you've got something to keep your mind off things @Skl2021! Have a great week.

What's everyone's due date as it stands at the mo?

Xx

@Bridgey8 screening - totally fine, low risk. They only start to worry when it's 1 in 150. Good to have your results back - one thing less to worry about.

@flowergarden16 Good luck tomorrow - hope all is as you hope.

@Cruz86 9th October, as it stands.

Good luck with your scan too @Bridgey8! Yes very low risk so that's one less thing to worry about ☺️

Ooh exciting @barneymcgroo!

@calimc83 it is such a long wait until 12 weeks 🤦 so if u can I would say do it 💕 xx
@Bridgey8 good luck with scan tomorrow! I just checked my app as I had it before you and mine doesn't have numbers just says low so guessing everything is ok 🤞 xx
@Cruz86 haha thankyou I'm trying but I can't stop thinking about it and if everything is ok! 🙈 My due date is 4th October xx

@Bridgey8 good luck today xxx

Good luck today @Bridgey8 my due date at the moment is 24th November 💕

It's my little angel baby's due date today but instead I've got my first session with the miscarriage Clinic 😔 praying so hard for this little rainbow 🌈🙏🏻

@arianasky a difficult day, sending you big virtual cuddles, hopefully your little rainbow bean is giving you some comfort today 💕 Good luck for your appt too xxx

@arianasky hope your ok 💕 it's a hard day but praying for your little bean 🌈💓🤞 xx

@speake @Skl2021 thank you ladies I'm not as bad as I thought I'd be, I popped to my mothers this morning and vomited all over her floor when I walked through the door 😂😬 taking it as little bean saying hello 😂🌈💕

@arianasky haha I shouldn't laugh but thats hilarious 🤣🙊 lovely welcome from little bean 🙌💞 xx

@Skl2021 it was funny, I couldn't run to the bathroom or anything it literally just came out of nowhere my mothers face was a picture 😂😂

Scan went well. Baby heartbeat seen and sized as 6+3 which matches my dates. I'm so happy. Doctor said everything looks great. 

@Bridgey8 good luck with yours x

Amazing news @flowergarden16, congratulations 💕

You're a month before me @Skl2021!

What a tough day for you @arianasky. Do whatever you need to get through, although it sounds like little bean is very much keeping you distracted so far 😂🌈

Yay! What fantastic news @flowergarden16! So happy for you 🥰

Good luck @Bridgey8!

Xx

So glad for you @flowergarden16!

@arianasky How funny! That is definitely little bean giving you a lovely hello 😅 hope the rest of the day goes well. I think I cried all of my due date so I get how you must be feeling.

Good luck @Bridgey8! I'll be thinking of you.

I can't explain how good it feels to wake up and not be anxious about having an ectopic pregnancy! Luckily the relief is still here and the anxiety over miscarrying hasn't quite arrived yet! I'm sure it will soon though!

Great news @flowergarden16 💕🌈

@Cruz86 @scoutcat thank you 💕 i feel awful today symptoms wise so sick and exhausted 😭 I've got a trip to London tomorrow with lots of family and friends to surprise SIL and we're going by bus from South Wales I'm dreading it 😔 the thought of sickness and vomiting on a 4 hour bus trip isn't appealing 🤢

Thanks everyone

@scoutcat I know the feeling! One less thing to worry about

@arianasky does sipping water or anything help?

@flowergarden16 not really, I'm managing water and some crackers, I'm on meds and got anti sickness bands so just have to hope they kick in tomorrow 🤞🏻

Just spoke to the consultant at recurrent miscarriage clinic and she's discharged me, said everything is going good so far and doesn't want me stressing about the past said she'll asses me after I give birth and keep an eye on all my scans for now.

That's brilliant news @arianasky !

I find the m&s diet ginger beer is really good c