Morning ladies! How are you all doing today?
@ksc912 how are you? I hope you haven’t had any more bleeding. As the others have said, it sounds like it’s not uncommon at this stage and hopefully doesn’t mean anything bad. But totally understand how scary it must be! I would probably call doc just to get some reassurance/be on the safe side. Thinking of you ❤️
@netflixandnochill @LiMc1 @Dontsaykwen thanks for the reassurance! I think I’m just being a bit over anxious. Think I’m going to stop poas as it’s clearly not helpful!! Maybe just do one more after xmas to make sure it’s still there… 😬
Can I ask another (possibly over sharing) question? How are your DPs acting about the pregnancy at the mo? Mine is such a cautious guy, and he’s very much of the attitude that he doesn’t want to get too invested until we’re out of the risky stage. Which is fine, and makes sense, but it’s a bit harder for me when I really FEEL very pregnant!! Like, I’m uncomfortable most of the time - my boobs and hips are very sore, and I have cramping on and off. I’m basically having an anxiety attack every time I go to the toilet, worried I’m going to have started bleeding. Plus am obviously having to figure out what’s what with midwife referral, appointments etc. So I kind of feel like he’s acting as though nothing has really changed, while for me everything has!
Not sure if I’m being really unreasonable/insane? Or if it’s fair to expect him to be more engaged with it at this stage. I want to have a chat with him about it, but guess I just kind of wanted a gauge on how people in the same boat are feeling! I am conscious I’m kind of an emotional wreck at the moment, so not sure how well I trust my own feelings… 🤣