Any ivf pregnancies ?

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I'm only 6+2 and super paranoid about absolutely everything. Had my fet on the 28/09, it was our second fet after the first one failed, I had bleeding before I even got to the otd. My scan is this Thursday and it's fair to say I'm bricking it.

Would be nice to chat with some ladies who've done ivf, I have been keeping an eye on the June 2022 thread but sometimes I find I can't relate.

@VenusStarr oh no....I'm so so sorry. Xx

Hi ladies I’ve had a crazy week at work and only just catching up now.

OMFG @VenusStarr I am so very sorry, after everything you’ve been through this is just unbelievably unfair. I know there is nothing we can say to make any of this better but am sending you so much love. 💜

@VenusStarr I’m so so sorry. The hope was unbelievably cruel. This is horribly sad and just so unfair. I have no words- just hope that you will be ok in time. Slowly…slowly xxx

Oh @VenusStarr this is the worst news. Just devastating. I'm so sad for you. Sending so much love xxx

@VenusStarr oh no. That's not what I was hoping to see at all. I'm so so sorry. 💔 How awful for you. Look after yourself. 💐💐

@VenusStarr I'm so sorry, life is so cruel. Be kind to yourself, sending you lots of love xx

@VenusStarr that's awful news & im so so sorry to hear that. Sending lots of love ❤️

@VenusStarr just popping back to say I'm very sorry for your loss. It's absolutely unfair and cruel. Take time to process and grieve. Its been two weeks since my mmc diagnosis and treatment and I know everyone's different but I'm starting to see the light through the trees. Make time for yourself. It helped me by thinking that this is just natures way, as horrible as that sounds. Sending lots of love 💕

Thanks for the invite @Holskey and nice to see some old faces @paintfairy and @strawberrysummer19 - actually strawberry, with that photo you put up earlier of the test that was fainter than the clearblue, was that the one the clinic gave you? because I had exactly the same thing, really clear lines on my easy@home cheapies, but the clinic test was really faint, really freaked me out... hoping they just give out shitty cheap non-sensitive tests...

@VenusStarr I'm so so sorry, words cannot describe how awful this is lots of love to you ❤️ please look after yourself x

@TheSnufflet my clinic test seemed much lighter than the frer I did. And the CB was saying the right thing. I think they are crap tests.

@VenusStarr I'm so sorry 😞 that's devastating news 😔

@TheSnufflet hiya, it was actually a cheapie pound stop one ! But I think you are right, I've heard a few people say now that that's happened with them.

I've just had my beta - get results tomorrow am
My clinic have booked my scan for 14th Dec
I asked how far gone I was and she said 4 weeks, 3 days but I had worked out 4 weeks 6 days - I know it's only a few days but the nurse said you are 4 weeks from testing ? I'm a bit confused about that but obviously they know what the are talking about! So I'll have to change it in my app x

That's really odd @strawberrysummer19. I'd ask again when you go in, or if someone else calls with your result. I'd be so annoyed if someone took 3 days pregnancy off me 😂

@Holskey I'm so glad you said that as I didn't want to argue with her!! Haha I thought how can test day be me officially 4 weeks when that's for me 12 days past 5days transfer so 17 days when I'm normally a 28 day cycle ! X

Good idea I will do that x

So my transfer date was November 7th and the calculator I used said I was 4wks 6 days? X

@strawberrysummer19 was it a 5 day transfer? I thought you were only a day behind me. And I'm 5 weeks today exactly?

@paintfairy yes it was a 5 day transfer and yes one day behind you xx

@strawberrysummer19 that's so weird, my transfer was on the 10th November and I'm pretty sure that I'm 4+3 today? I'd definitely query it!

@strawberrysummer19 yes so you'll be 5 weeks tomorrow. I've tried to get my scan moved (its the same day as yours) but I'll be 8+1 by then which doesn't seem early. I left a message asking if it could be the week before. But they haven't bothered calling me back.

@paintfairy thank you and thank you everyone - I love this place !! I thought I was going mad.
Yay to 5 weeks tomorrow - sounds so much better !!
I thought my scan was later than normal but as they only scan on Tuesdays then that's what I have to do but I'm quite ok with it. Like being in my pregnant bubble. But I don't blame you wanting it at 7 wks

Xx

@strawberrysummer19 3 weeks just seems a very long time to sit here driving myself crackers. 🤣 If they won't move it, then they won't move it. But the paperwork info says 7 so I can't work out why they booked it for 8. It's going to be a long few weeks!

@paintfairy I know isn't it!!! I hope you get it moved xx

@strawberrysummer19 they might not if yours is that late too? I need to take up s new hobby to keep my mind off it!

@paintfairy I'd definitely ask - no harm
I know mine can only definitely do that date and also they only had 2 times available for the whole day. So maybe because she said that I didn't think to ask for it earlier. I just feel happy in this bubble and by 8wks I know I'd feel better but you're right it's so long to wait isn't it!
Then there's the wait for the 12, 20 and so on!!
Xx

@strawberrysummer19 they've called me back. They do it 6 weeks from EC, so yes you'll be 8 weeks. They prefer to do it at 8 because they can see more. 3 weeks to go! 🤣