anyone found out the sex of baby and kept it a secret

[rdk]

im going to hopefully find out on monday the sex of our baby but we was going to keep it a secret. sis in law says "you cant do that to us is teasing". anyone done this

yes i did. only dh and i knew

yes i did both times

Why not keep it a secret? There are no rules in life that you have to tell everyone the sex of your baby just because you KNOW!!

I didn't want to know the sex of our baby but my husband was desperate to find out. Call me old-fashioned but I like the big fuss made when a baby is born of everyone asking, 'is it a girl or a boy?' and knowing it in advance kind of takes that specialness away. It's a personal choice one makes and to many people it's absolutely ridiculous and they (like some people here) don't understand the point of keeping something like this a secret.

Well people have no right to judge others on whether they decide to keep it secret or not so don't be pressured.

As for me, we decided to compromise by finding out the sex but keeping it a secret from everyone else. We're not sure how long we can keep it up but it's definitely better to say you don't know otherwise people will pressure you to telling them. It's actually turning out to be really good fun for us as we're enjoying 'our little secret' and the fact that everyone around us has their little theory on whether it's a boy or a girl!

we found out the sex and up to now have kept it secret i just told everyone that they couldnt see anything as it has its legs were crossed, and no one has figuered out we know

oooh rdk, haven't you started something here?!

good luck with your secret