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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

September 2021 Babies - Thread 8 The final stretch....

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Bubbles1st · 29/07/2021 12:15

So here we have it, the last thread before babies start arriving.....

Can't wait to start up dating this list with arrivals and names.

Good luck Mommas, we've got this!

@Noodles4Me - 26th Aug 💙
@Scotti84 - 30th Aug 💖

@Sceptre86 - 1st 💖
@primhutch - 1st 💖
@RaeRae84 - 1st 💙
@KHR1 - 1st 💙
@CherylLW - 3rd 💙
@GWhiteley - 3rd 💖
@deedeebythesea - 3rd 💙
@Allicit - 3rd 💙
@Poppins2016 - 4th 💛
@2021mumma - 5th 💙
@Squibble84 - 6th 💛
@leftitlate37 - 7th 💙
@SillyBry - 7th 💛
@LouiseJayne23 -7th 💖
@bewitchingnight - 8th 💖
@SK28 - 8th 💛
@Taralweaver - 8th 💖
@AdventuresAwait - 9th 💖
@mumof23188 - 9th 💙
@Bubbles1st - 10th 💙
@Catkin7 - 10th 💖
@FTEngineerM - 12th 💙
@CobleCloud - 13th 💙
@Maybebaby29 - 14th 💙
@Taybz - 14th 💙
@Bigdreamer9 - 14th 💙
@Eppy123 - 14th 💛
@Newmum110 -14th 💛
@Kirky658 - 15th 💖
@Hopefulmummie - 16th 💖
@Mamabearwhere - 17th 💙
@HollyMoore - 17th 💖
@aurora2021 - 18th 💖
@Bluespace - 18th 💙
@ErrolFinn - 19th 💖
@xsjrx - 19th 💛tbc
@unicornpower - 20th 💖
@Moominmiss - 20th 💙
@Sophieandtiger - 20th 💛
@bluemagicalsky - 21st 💙
@Clouless - 21st 💛
@Suma2021 - 21st 💙
@Jay3004 - 22nd 💙
@SP2Bx - 22nd 💛
@Geegee20 - 22nd 💙
@Holly91 - 22nd 💛
@Rach921 - 23rd 💙
@LittleCatDog - 23rd 💖
@SproutingSprout2021 - 24th 💛
@LittleAurora -24th 💙
@RadDarwazeh - 25th 💛
@crobo87 - 25th 💙
@d0nut - 25th 💖
@GummyBear91 - 25th 💖
@AdriannaP - 25th 💛
@MrsTD88 -27th 💖
@MrsBrett20 - 27th 💛
@marshmallowmode -27th 💙
@Kat1112025 - 27th 💙
@Mrssernalewis - 28th 💛
@ams92 - 30th 💖

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CherLW · 13/08/2021 06:13

@Squibble84 last night was not fun! Couldn’t sleep, feverish and so achey! I’m going to try and sleep this morning and hope that helps. I was so lucky with my first jab.. definitely making up for it with the second 😔

Thinking of you @Kirky658 it’s horrible to think they aren’t providing you the help you need. Will they let you be near Alice? I thought they would have to allow that which would in turn get the oxytocin working to help with the expressing! Much love xx

bluemagicalsky · 13/08/2021 07:42

@CherLW I was exactly the same with my second jab. Had mine on Tuesday. Paracetamol helped me. Just got to ride it out for a couple of days. I woke up feeling much better Thursday morning. How you feel better soon. It's a relief they are both done now and we're protected x

FTEngineerM · 13/08/2021 08:09

@Kirky658 how was last night? Are you able to see her whenever you want or is it limited by someone taking you? I’m sorry you’re going through this, it sounds so hard.

unicornpower · 13/08/2021 08:10

@Kirky658 i second and third what others have said, make a fuss and be ruthless with getting help, it's awful that women are just left after having a baby, particularly when baby isn't with you and you need help-Can your husband come in and be firm? he may find it easier!

Is anyone really struggling with congestion? my nose is so blocked up that i'm having to apply vaporub 2-3 times a night just to allow me to sleep, I've done so many covid tests and all are fine but the constant stuffy/blocked nose is making me miserable!

Kirky658 · 13/08/2021 09:41

Good morning ladies sorry too many names to remember and tag 😂💖 I've put my big girl pants on this morning and getting myself sorted. I expressed a syringe of colostrum last night and took it to NICU, and the nurse fed to Alice for me while she was in my arms. Honestly it was incredible. She's off the cpap machine now and going to get an update later on how she's doing vis a vis her jaundice and her antibiotics. Nurses and docs seen me this am, said I will be discharged tomorrow if my blood pressure stays down. Not done dreaded number 2 yet but the gas pains are horrific, it is vile!! I'm waiting for DH to arrive for visiting at 1, will have a shower then go and see Alice with him. I'd rather spend the time sitting down there rather than in this same room tbh. But starting to feel better today.. X

Kirky658 · 13/08/2021 09:42

Here's our little poser after her colostrum feed last night 😍

deedeebythesea · 13/08/2021 09:49

@Kirky658 Sending lots of love to you and Alice 💕 Both of you are incredibly strong! X

KHR1 · 13/08/2021 10:04

@Squibble84 I do, need to dig it out and get it pumped up! Thank you!

Noodles4Me · 13/08/2021 10:05

@Kirky658 glad you get to be with Alice more and she's had some colostrum. She looks really well. 😍 Look after yourself too x

Last day at work for me, and baby here next week. I'm actually so tired and achy I'm completely useless to anyone or anything 😪

D0nut · 13/08/2021 11:04

@Kirky658 I’m so glad to hear that today is going better already!
I’m planning to have a c-section and have read that mint tea is helpful with the gas and lots of prunes to get things moving!

Suma2021 · 13/08/2021 11:15

@KHR1 @Taybz I've had quite an adventure with PGP since 24 weeks. Started off as searing pain on one hip so bad I couldn't walk and had to be signed off work. Then after lots of rest, moved to my sacroiliac joints in lower back. Had to do daily exercises to strengthen and stretch things plus visits to an osteopath, physio and chiropractor trying to find someone to help me. Had a 2 week break around 30 weeks where I felt miraculously better, then since a couple of weeks ago the pain has started in my groin area / inner thighs / nether regions!

Getting out of bed / rolling over is definitely the worst. Massive crack each time! I find if I take things slow, tense my bum muscles and use my upper body as much as possible is the answer, plus trying to keep an arch in your back (I.e I need to sit like a man on the sofa leaning forward between my legs with good arch in back to avoid the pain getting up from the sofa. If I slouch / lean like I used to do its just horrible getting up).

I wasn't overly impressed with physio, he gave me a list of exercises which I'd basically found online (same as these on this page):
postpartumtrainer.com/exercises-for-spd/

I've also learnt the importance of a RELAXED pelvic floor muscle - not just a strong, tight one. I never even knew a pelvic floor physiotherapist existed (I chuckled when heard about it the first time). But when things are tight there it can certainly aggravate achy hips and groin. Whilst it might not feel like much is happening by doing deep breathing exercises or pelvic floor exercises, I have noticed they actually help!

Personally found the following exercises give me some relief:
Squeezing a ball or cushion between thighs (focus on using muscle on inner thighs not the joint bits at top of thigh);
Deep breathing on all floors (to relax pelvic floor) and on exhalation drawing belly button to spine, working abdominal muscles;
General pelvic floor exercises (but focus on relaxing it properly with deep breathing, look into exercises to help relax a tight pelvic floor);
Hip flexor stretches (kneel on one knee, tuck tail bone under);
Leg lifts lying down using resistance band;
Bridge poses (focus on using your butt);
Generally staying active and not slouching in one place for too long.

Now, when it comes to bed, I have bad days and good days. Sometimes my outer hips ache all night. Sometimes my groin just hurts. But things are much more manageable when I try to stretch things out during the day! Hope you find some relief!
Sorry for long and rambly post about that!! Xx

@unicornpower I have bad congestion too! It's really annoying. Poured Olbas oil on my bedding before out of desperation and sleep next to a roll of loo paper to blow my nose with! I've got a diffuser lamp that I put Eucalyptus oil in as I feel like it makes me breathe better. Think I'm glad it's not Winter though as I imagine it would be worse!

AdventuresAwait · 13/08/2021 11:24

@Kirky658 Glad you're starting to feel better today and that Alice had the colostrum and is off the cpap. What a lovely photo! Xx

SP2Bx · 13/08/2021 11:33

@Kirky658 So pleased to see this more positive post this morning, hated thinking of you not being supported in there! Alice looks so lovely, your moments with her must be so precious ❤️ Sending love to you all!

Kat1112025 · 13/08/2021 11:38

@Kirky658, so glad you had a cuddle and she's off CPAP 🥰 sending you all the good healing vibes. Remember to take care of yourself as well as Alice

KHR1 · 13/08/2021 13:28

Thanks @Suma2021 going to give some of those exercises a go! Got my yoga ball ready too, forgot how soothing rocking/bouncing on it was.

@Kirky658 gald you managed to have more cuddles with Alice and that she's had colostrum and off the cpap.

MrsMcNtobe · 13/08/2021 13:29

@unicornpower congestion literally took over my life for a good week or two to the point I was lying awake in tears all night. I tried a few nasal sprays but nothing really helped me and eventually it eased off on its own. Thinking of you though because it’s so bloody annoying!!

Taybz · 13/08/2021 17:12

@Kirky658 so glad to hear you've both made some progress. Alice is adorable!

@KHR1 I have been to the physio in person but to be honest it didn't help much - she just gave me some tips on how to sit, stand up from the bed, advice not to sit cross-legged.

@Suma2021 that's some great pointers. Thank you! I'm going to get myself a pregnancy ball as well.

Mamabearwhere · 13/08/2021 17:22

What a cute photo @Kirky658 glad you’re having a better day today. Sending you all the best wishes.

Has anyone been told that their baby is breach/transverse? Mine has been heads down for ages but has suddenly decided to turn and I’m now being sent for extra scan to check and if baby doesn’t then by 37/38 weeks they said could be planned c section. I’m 35 weeks today.

I know there’s still time for baby to move and turn back down but I’m just so nervous and annoyed with myself for not being active enough, I hardly do any walking because of pelvic pains

D0nut · 13/08/2021 17:33

Hi everyone. I had a midwife appointment this morning and she sent me to the MAU because blood pressure was high (readings between 128/86 128/92). At the MAU it was apparently normal (bottom number in the 70s each time) but they said I have ketones and trace of blood in my urine sample taken at the MAU. But the midwife said my urine was fine when she tested this morning. I’m so confused. Any ideas?

crobo87 · 13/08/2021 18:22

@Mamabearwhere my baby is currently flipping between transverse & breech. He's never been head down yet though 🙈. I've been told similar about him turning. They've said I'll be offered the opportunity for them to try turn him at 36 weeks if I wish. I'm currently 34 weeks. Doing everything I can to try and get him to turn.

Hope he turns for you xx

crobo87 · 13/08/2021 18:24

@D0nut my BP is often high when I see the midwife but fine one I go up to the assessment centre & rest. (There's been twice where is hasn't gone down and I've been admitted) but generally it goes down after a whole.

Not sure about the urine though. Have they said what is means?

D0nut · 13/08/2021 18:39

Thank you @crobo87 that’s good to know. Mine is often on the high side.

The urine is more of a mystery. I felt really rushed in there and obviously googling more since I left which has made me panic. She sounded like it could be a urine infection but I’ve not seen that when googling, more about possibility of GD. In my head i wonder if I could just be a bit dehydrated. I’d been there ages and it was very hot and I hadn’t been drinking. She said she was sending my sample to the lab and to call Monday/Tuesday for results.

Kirky658 · 13/08/2021 20:33

Hey lovelies, today's been a great day. Alice has been moved from the NICU top level to the next level down as she's doing so well (think it's called special care). I've managed to go to the loo, had my dressing off and been walking round well. Hard but alright in the end!

@d0nut @crobo87 as far as I've seen they're never too careful with high blood pressure where pregnancy is concerned! Mines still high after the pre eclampsia but apparently it can take months to return to normal with medication. My wee sample was fine at the midwife and then had ketones and protein in it at the MAU. Might just be a basic infection needing some antibiotics.

Hope everyone is doing well and trying to enjoy their last few weeks - it is the most bizarre feeling when they're not in you anymore as I'm sure @kat1112025 will attest to!

crobo87 · 13/08/2021 20:40

@Kirky658 that's great news. Sounds like she is doing really well.

My Bp is up & down all the time, I'm on medication now and have been for a while. Seems to have settled the last couple of week 🤞🏻.
When my 2nd was born I had high blood pressure during labour and it stayed high for around 2 months, I had to be treated with medication then too,
This is my first pregnancy where it's been high during the actual pregnancy though x

Sillysocks998 · 13/08/2021 20:54

Hi Ladies,
I've had our baby! We had a little boy on Wednesday 11th August 2021. 34 weeker weighing 4 pounds and 3 ounces. I'm 2 days in, shattered. No time to do much at all. It's a very steep and quick learning curve! So much to report on. GD, CSection, emotions! I swear it will feel so hard. I'm still in hospital. Waiting to feel human again. I'm not sure when I'll do a review but it's quite overwhelming at the minute. I've got canulas in so I can't type much. But I'll come back to you as soon as I can xxx