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September 2021 - Thread 4

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Poppins2016 · 25/03/2021 14:08

Ta da, thread number 4 so that we can keep up the chatting! GrinFlowers

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Bubbles1st · 03/04/2021 10:42

I have a new feeling of discomfort actually in last 24 hours don't know if anyone can relate, but basically feels like baby is digging in my stomach. I'm not feeling movement but like I can actually feel the baby's presence. Making me feel a bit sick :(

FTEngineerM · 03/04/2021 10:45

We have... another boy ❤️
I’m so excited, scan was fantastic she was training someone and went through absolutely everything it felt so special.

KHR1 · 03/04/2021 10:49

Congrats @AdventuresAwait!

Thanks for the reply @Skymum82! I'll definitely try without but might buy some as a back up to try if we can't get a latch

Bubbles1st · 03/04/2021 10:54

Congrats @FTEngineerM !!

Still a bit jealous of everyone finding out.... only 24 days until we do 🤣

bluemagicalsky · 03/04/2021 11:06

Congrats to everyone that has found out the sex ❤️ Very exciting
I feel you @Bubbles1st 37 days to go for me 😂
@deedeebythesea Yes!! I am constantly waking up to turn over in the night. Very annoying. I'm only 15 weeks, so looks like I have a while of it to go! Really hope the pain and discomfort eases for you soon and you get a good night sleep!

Jay3004 · 03/04/2021 11:08

Congratulations @FTEngineerM 💙

Squibble84 · 03/04/2021 11:20

@Taybz I did lots of reading up on this, and spoke to my midwife last pregnancy as I struggled to find a comfortable sleep position. It’s recommended to not to sleep flat on your back after 20 or 28 weeks depending on what you read/who you speak to! The studies I’ve read on it have only looked at the 3rd trimester. I think it’s when the baby is big enough that it would put lots of pressure on your circulation. I literally have a throne of about 6 pillows behind and around me so I can lie back and be comfy but I’m not flat, still only 17 1/2 weeks though so I’m not too worried about it yet!

@FTEngineerM congratulations on finding out it’s a boy! 💙

KHR1 · 03/04/2021 11:27

Congrats @FTEngineerM

FTEngineerM · 03/04/2021 12:29

Thanks ladies, there is definitely a boy bias here 😲. Can’t wait for more to find out.

@Bubbles1st we nearly didn’t find out now, I had to do some serious convincing.

mumof23188 · 03/04/2021 12:40

@FTEngineerM eeek another boy 💙💙 congratulations. Lots of us having boys here ☺️

unicornpower · 03/04/2021 12:46

@FTEngineerM congratulations! How lovely we have another boy 💙 2021 is definitely the year of the boys isnt it! How exciting 😀

RaeRae84 · 03/04/2021 13:01

Congratulations on the scans!
Still counting the days down here until the 20 week one. 12 to go.
To the ladies who feel uncomfortable, I still don't really have a bump but I'm still finding myself uncomfortable. I feel like I've put a lot of weight on already which makes me feel like I can't breathe normally as so breathless. I'm still exercising and eating well now but just don't feel right in my own skin. Just hoping my bump pops soon rather than just feeling fat and crap!

Taybz · 03/04/2021 13:04

@FTEngineerM congrats! Another boy 💙
@Squibble84 thanks for that! I feel like there's so much to learn as a first time mum. Honestly, I've learnt so much just from this thread 😊

bewitchingnight · 03/04/2021 13:12

@AdventuresAwait 💖 @FTEngineerM 💙
Congratulations both! How exciting!
20 days til my 20 week scan when hopefully I'll be able to find out!

deedeebythesea · 03/04/2021 14:00

@Taybz The whole sleeping on one's back thing... Basically the theory is that as the uterus gets larger (20+w), it can compress an important blood vessel. This decreases Mother's blood pressure and can reduce blood flow to the placenta and the baby. The reduced blood flow definitely occurs, but there've been some questions raised whether this actually has risks for the baby. There was in fact one study which concluded that advising women to sleep/lie exclusively on the left side is not practical and is irrelevant to the vast majority of women. Small number of pregnant women feel faint when lying on their backs. If you are not one of them, you and your baby should be fine.
HOWEVER, having said all of that, do I want to take the risk? There is a scary link between maternal sleep position and stillbirth. Therefore, I'm continuing to persevere. @Squibble84 So wish I could bring more pillows in the bed. Ours is a small double and it already feels rather squashed with me having doubled in size (exaggeration of course, but that's how it feels!) Pregnancy pillow, however, does really help!

@bluemagicalsky Feel for you girl! None of my friends who had been pregnant before ever mentioned this. All people talk about is morning sickness and "the glow"! Fingers crossed the pain eases for both of us soon rather than later xx

@FTEngineerM congratulations! How exciting! 💙 11 days until I find out

@RaeRae84 Oh I can so relate. I am constantly out of breath. I live on Brighton seafront and do not have that many hills to climb but if I have to face even a slight incline I cannot walk and talk at the same time Shock

Sceptre86 · 03/04/2021 15:00

@FTEngineerM congratulations!
So exciting for those of you who have found out the sex. I keep trying to convince my dh we need to know but he is adamant he wants to keep it a surprise.
@Squibble84 I am doing the same. Propping myself up with lots of pillows and sleeping on my side most of the time but semi upright. I get a blocked nose when I am pregnant which seems to be worse at night and this helps somewhat. I also find it easier getting out of bed this way.

SP2Bx · 03/04/2021 15:15

Congratulations @FTEngineerM !

I'm usually a back sleeper but have been making a conscious effort to change now so it's second nature by the time it matters (20 weeks +), but I struggle to sleep on my left, much more comfortable on my right. Every night without fail I wake up at some point on my back - god knows how long I've been there but the advice is not to worry, just roll on your side as soon as you realise. I've even resorted to wedging a pillow behind me as well to try stop me rolling but it doesn't work!

As for the second trimester glow, I'm still well and truly waiting for it! Although I did meet up with my girl friends yesterday for the first time in god knows how long, and they were very complimentary! But then you kind of have to be to a pregnant person right? 😂

Sillysocks998 · 03/04/2021 15:57

@Poppins2016 I will start juicing again. Add fresh beetroot to yours just a bit, it gives it a rich dark purple colour and tastes earthy and natural.
@FTEngineerM @AdventuresAwait congratulations both. I was not going to find out the sex until the big day but its so hard to resist. I have a scan next Friday so may give in. I think it may help to bond with the baby.
I always end up on my back when I sleep and love the right side. I have a u shaped pillow coming tomorrow. So hopefully that will help. I generally feel shattered In the evenings and proper big. During the day not so much. Has anyone started weeing less? Mine feels like like urine retention sometimes. But I'm trying to drink loads to see if the baby is actually moving to the front. I'm 15 +2. The days do seem to be going fast as well.

CherylLW · 03/04/2021 15:59

Congratulations @AdventuresAwait and @FTEngineerM so exciting and feels much more real knowing doesn’t it!

I’m not sure who recommended it so I apologise but this morning I did a free 2 hour online workshop with The Baby Academy UK and it was amazing! So much so I’ve purchased the full day one which Includes first aid choking and CPR.

FTEngineerM · 03/04/2021 19:31

Thanks everyone, always nice seeing them, did you rent a machine after @Scotti84 ?

Yeah @CherylLW we’ve picked a name already that we love, we had no boy names this morning 😂🤭.

Lush to hear of the 20 week scans coming up🤰🏽 30th April for ours so a while off yet.

We keep watching the short 4D video they took for us, he’s so tiny😍

AdventuresAwait · 03/04/2021 21:15

Thank you @Jay3004!

Thanks @Taybz! We went to Ultrasound Direct. Appointment was 15 mins. Wellbeing check, gender and 3D preview!

AdventuresAwait · 03/04/2021 21:27

Congratulations @FTEngineerM! Our 20 week scan is 30th April too! (I'll be 21+1). Lovely you got a 4D video! We got photos but they weren't too clear, though still lovely to see.

Thank you @KHR1 & @bewitchingnight & @Sillysocks998!

Thanks @CherylLW, yes it does seem more real now! And so glad you enjoyed The Baby Academy session. I'm really looking forward to the full day. I've also bought The Modern Midwife course that you work through yourself as I love her book and Instagram posts xx

RaeRae84 · 03/04/2021 21:36

@CherylLW I did that baby academy one this morning too! It was good. I did a mamas & papas one a few weeks ago too, that was really interesting. Nice to have a lot of free help! I've enquired about our local NCT antenatal classes today as well. Feel like I'm going to need all the help I can get!

Kirky658 · 03/04/2021 21:45

@ftengineerm @adventuresawait congrats ladies!

Sorry things a bit quiet from me, we've had a mad couple of days decorating the nursery & our bedroom. I've also got bloody thrush, I've been to the chemist today and they refused to give me anything and said I need to see my gp so got to wait till Tuesday. Well annoyed and it's making me very full of temper!!

Taybz · 03/04/2021 21:49

@AdventuresAwait was the actual scan 15 minutes or was that the whole appointment including getting dressed, choosing pics etc. Also, how was the quality of the images and video? Were there heartbeat bears available? Sorry for all the questions but I just found a very convenient appointment and am considering them over Window to the Womb so want to make the right decision! 😊