Catching up - TTC After Miscarriage part 3

[BecsterG]

Hi Ladies, just setting up a new thread as we're almost at the end of the current one. Let's move over when it's full.

Xx

congratulations @Leok83 not many boys in this thread! 💙💙

Fingers crossed you are close @FireflyGirl. That is exactly what my DH would do!! Hes asked me to get all my bags ready soon as he's worried about that side i think - everything else you havent done or got, you can amazon prime! Ive got most stuff I need, just need to pack it.

Can you remind me of the FB link please? Thanks

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Yeah, we used Prime a fair bit in the early days last time! And my online shopping delivery pass, as I could get next day slots! That won't be an option if we go into lockdown again

@FireflyGirl... I have packed outfits in zip lock bags too... Babygrows, vest & hat to match in each. Also put a nappy in with the outfit I want him putting in first, and labelled the bag with a sharpie 😂😂

I don't feel anywhere near close... Just tired. I deffo dont think he's going to make an appearance of his own accord... 😩😩
Lots of walks and birthing ball action this week for me!!

@BS9790 ah well who knows. The baby will be perfect either way. Both my boys are long but we're both tall so it was inevitable!

I've posted a few pics to the Facebook page. X

@ChampooPapi Just caught up on your post. You have such a positive mind set! And like you said your so close now! Hope your scan goes well! It's the last few weeks that drag! You will get there!!

I have pretty much everything for my hospital bag, literally just need to pack it. Baby clothes are all washed!

I am so scared of birth and so scared that something will still go wrong when I'm within reaching distance of my rainbow!

Apparently she has a full head of hair! And she's measuring perfect. Just still so worried. I know a few of you are going through worries and feel awful saying this as nothing has cropped up to make me worry but it's just my stupid mind :(

@BS9790 wow very organised!!!

@FireflyGirl @BS9790 ....we're all due pretty much the same time do you think you will be early any feelings yet?! I have 27th October in my mind haha xx

Hi ladies, sorry I’ve been so rubbish! Motherhood is so rewarding but bloody hard work!! I feel like I never get 5 minutes to myself and the only place she really settles is on my chest which means I do a lot of sitting around at the moment.

Congratulations on baby Jude @BecsterG!! I hope everything is going well and your boys are enjoying each other.

Hope everything is ok @MilsCookie, your girls are fighters!

I’m sorry I haven’t been able to catch up on the thread properly and everyone’s news so can comment more. I just hope everyone is ok as the weeks tick on.

Can someone let me know the Facebook page name so I can join as I check Facebook a bit more often than Mumsnet.

I had a baby photo shoot to get some professional photographs of Emilia as a baby. When I had my miscarriage, my husband bought me an eternity ring and said that was I always carried our baby with me wherever I went for life’s adventures. I managed to get some really nice photos of Emilia holding the ring and they brought me to tears when I first saw them. I’ve posted one of them as it’s so beautifully done.

Keep safe everyone and keen cooking those beautiful babies! You are all doing so well!

Sorry, just seen the Facebook link! I’ve sent a request to join now.

@MrsB16 gorgeous photo. We are going to do a professional photo shoot too. I really need to get it booked.

So far the boys are doing good. Max is a bit more demanding at bedtime as he wants me to get him dressed and read him a book not his dad. I think it's because I'm always feeding Jude then and he wants the attention so if he asks for me to read his books then I'm doing it and feeding at the same time so he sees he's still as important to me. We had a wee heart to heart the other night were he said he didn't like his brother as wanted me to put him to bed etc. So I just reassured him and told him that Jude will grow and need less milk and play with him etc. He seems to like the chat and since then we've had no issues. Fingers crossed it continue.

*where not were. Really with you could edit your comments in MN!

Yay ! @Leok83 congratulations on your boy news 🎊👣 I will do our list now

@MrsB16 absolutely gorgeous 🥰

Babies born

@MrsB16 🌈👣♀️ Baby Emilia born 14/09/2020

@BecsterG 🌈👣♂️ Baby Jude born 25/09/2020 at 01:45 weighting 8lbs

@Zoey36 39 Baby boy was expected on 03/10/2020

Babies due

@BS9790 36 weeks 5 due baby boy 31/10/2020
@FireflyGirl 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020
@AlviesMam 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020
@ChampooPapi 33 weeks due twin girls 24/11/2020
@kkr168 32 weeks 5 due baby boy 28/11/2020
@Whiffle77 32 weeks due 02/12/2020
@MilsCookie 27 weeks 1 due identical twin girls 07/01/2021
@TerribleImagination 26 weeks 2 due baby girl 10/01/2021
@Mammacooks 24 weeks 4 due 22/01/2021
@Mlax 18 weeks 6 due baby boy 03/03/2021
@Ejb86 18 weeks 4 due baby girl 05/03/2021
@Leok83 15 weeks 6 due baby boy 24/03/2021
@SunnySideUp2020 14 weeks 3 due 03/04/2021
@Scrumdiddly123 13 weeks 3 due 11/04/2021

Babies born

@MrsB16 🌈👣♀️ Baby Emilia born 14/09/2020

@BecsterG 🌈👣♂️ Baby Jude born 25/09/2020 at 01:45 weighting 8lbs

@Zoey36 Baby boy was expected on 03/10/2020

Babies due

@BS9790 36 weeks 5 due baby boy 31/10/2020
@FireflyGirl 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020
@AlviesMam 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020
@ChampooPapi 33 weeks due twin girls 24/11/2020
@kkr168 32 weeks 5 due baby boy 28/11/2020
@Whiffle77 32 weeks due 02/12/2020
@MilsCookie 27 weeks 1 due identical twin girls 07/01/2021
@TerribleImagination 26 weeks 2 due baby girl 10/01/2021
@Mammacooks 24 weeks 4 due 22/01/2021
@Mlax 18 weeks 6 due baby boy 03/03/2021
@Ejb86 18 weeks 4 due baby girl 05/03/2021
@Leok83 15 weeks 6 due baby boy 24/03/2021
@SunnySideUp2020 14 weeks 3 due 03/04/2021
@Scrumdiddly123 13 weeks 3 due 11/04/2021

We must be due a new addition to our list, everyone is past 12 weeks now 🙌 Everything crossed for all the women post ovulation waiting to see on the other conception after loss threads 🤞

@FireflyGirl 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020

@AlviesMam 36 weeks 3 due baby girl 02/11/2020

Who is going to have their babies first 🤔 if I was a betting woman and it wasn't so in-appropriate I would potentially have a flutter on it 😏

Although your probably going to tell me I've got one or both of you guys a day or two out 🤦

Just for the record I think @AlviesMam will have her girl first and it will be the smoothest most wonderful labour

Obviously followed by @FireflyGirl a few days later who will also have the most fantastic and brilliant labour

And all will be well ladies , it just will 🥰

I agree @ChampooPapi really hope we get some of the other girls over from the TTC thread. Fingers crossed and baby dust to them all

@Leok83 congratulations on your baby boy. I love having boys 💙😍

Yes, jealous of your boys ladies, one out of four would have been very nice! 😆

Hey @SweetpeaOrMarigold I just saw you were pregnant on another thread, I remember you from our trying after miscarriage thread earlier in the year, not sure which one but wanted to tag you here if you wanted to join us or catch up 🌈

@ChampooPapi thanks for the list
You can add baby girl for me 💝

And congratulations @Leok83 👏 💙 another baby boy! 😉

So much to catch up on here and so busy planning this mini wedding. Nothing is easy 😅

@MilsCookie hope your scan goes well today!

And yes fingers crossed for a BFP from ttc soon 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

@ChampooPapi my friend is in the same position as you, 4 girls with the youngest being twins. They were hoping one might be a boy, but actually having all girls makes life easier in a lot of ways.

Her husband just converted the shed into a man cave and built a new bathroom...

And @AlviesMam and I are indeed due date buddies.

Most of my aches and pains have settled today - possibly due to me taking it easy yesterday and going to bed early last night. Does mean I have a long list of jobs for today, though. Better crack on!

@SunnySideUp2020 I had it in my outlook calender to add your girl, I'm sorry I'm a total arse hat at the moment. I dread to think what the list will look like in a few weeks.... Probably just be one line saying everyone is pregnant 😆

@FireflyGirl the room sharing and dynamic generally does look to be easier, ambut I will continue wheel around my friends baby boy and pretend he's mine!