Due date May 2021!

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Hey all! So I officially got my BFP last night, which puts me at 3weeks 3 days (I have another app telling me I'm at 4weeks 4 days) and I am due between 2nd and 8th May ❤️ I already feel super nauseous, and this will be baby number 3 (our last for sure). I was just wondering if anyone on here wanted to share this journey together - husband is brilliant but doesn't believe you can get nausea this quickly and I'm not close enough to my family to tell them just yet ☹️ so it might be a lonely journey for a little while x

COngratulations @Sansa87 and @NRDoss - really really happy for u both! you must feel amazing now! x

Hello everyone. Im 4 weeks today! so still very early. Not really sunk in, i already have a 15month old 🙈 Hope everyone is keeping well. Would love to join the FB group too :) xx

Hello everyone👋🏻
I'm hoping it's okay I join.
I'm 4+2 after a miscarriage at 6-7 weeks in August with my first.
Thrilled that I caught straight away before i even had a period!

EDD is 25/05/2020.

It's very early and I'm a little anxious due to the MC but things are progressing much better test line wise than they did last time so that's filling me with lots of confidence.

I've messaged you @ShalomToYouJackie about the Facebook group. I'm in a few from my previous pregnancy/MC but it would be really nice to have more people due similar time as me so we can go through things together so to speak 😇

@Sansa87 @NRDoss congrats on the scans 🖤

I don't really know what I'm doing with myself at the minute 😂 one day I'm like I'm definitely pregnant I have the BFPs and missed period to prove it.....then for some reason my mind tells me I'm not there must be something wrong with the tests and my period is messed up from the coil 🤦🏼‍♀️ I tried getting an appointment for reassurance, even just for a basic test for them to say yes that is a positive test, it's no faulty, it's not a evap 😂

Anyone else seem to have gone a little crazy about it?

Anyone else having bad cramps? I'm only 4weeks+2 and getting them on and off but definitely feeling them just now. So paranoid AF will end up making an appearance though I did have a darker test line this morning ...

@Laurenemma13 I have been having cramps since I found out at 4weeks not really stopped and I think I'm 5+7 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Colacrisp thankyou! Not ideal eh? I had them 2weeks ago and just had a strong feeling they were implantation cramps (seems i was right lol). Right now there isn't a sign of AF but you cant help but worry sometimes!

@Laurenemma13 oh I'm a full on crazy woman right now, driving my OH can't understand why I keep doubting it...."you have missed your period and we have had 3 positive tests" but it's all new and I'm questioning every cramp and twinge! Can't wait for my first midwife appointment just so I know for sure haha

@Laurenemma13 I had such bad cramps around that stage, kept thinking was AF...defo carried on til I was a good few days late. Subsided now!
Haha @Colacrisp i hear u! I'm convincing myself out of this now...i darent take another test cos paranoid itll be blank. Keep poking my boobs to check they still hurt...ouch yep they do!

Honestly this thread makes me feel less crazy every day, thank you all so much.

I literally check my knickers and expect blood every time I go to toilet, period was due a week ago and I’ve had 3(ok probably +20) positive tests.

I’m somewhere between 5-6 weeks.. 16 sleeps until our private scan and hoping everyday we see a heartbeat ❤️

Still struggling to get excited after our loss in June. It’s so scary.

@Sansa87 amazing news!!!

@CarpeDiem83 thanks, yeah it was a bit manic for the first year or so but definitely reaping the benefits of the small age gap now, they've kept eachother amused during lockdown, are the best of friends and could pass as twins.

@Sansa lovely scan picture, glad all is well.

Has anyone told work yet?

@imisscoffee No, I’m WFH until January at the earliest so quite easy for me although I was out with work last night for the first time since Feb, I got there early and asked the waiter to bring me water in a gin glass whenever I ordered a gin & tonic, he didn’t let me down!

I’ve been a bit crampy since my period was due, on and off.

I’ve had pale pink discharge since early this morning, just a little when I wipe. Should I be worried? I’m 6+4 and have a private scan on Monday.

Now every twinge I get makes me worry I’m having a MC or ectopic ☹️ Hope it’s all ok xx

Also - I’ve done 6 tests!! 2 digitals and 4 pink dye. So you’re definitely not crazy!

I was checking line progression with the pink dye ones Which seems to be going well. I did the last test on Sunday and got a really good line. I might do another one at the weekend before the private scan on Monday just to check again!

@Cafeaulait27 from what ive read (which seems to be the full of Google 😂) some spotting and cramping is normal, but completely agree. Ita so hard not too worry! X
Good luck with the scan! Xx

It is hard not to worry I share everybody’s concerns. I had a miscarriage in June at 8 weeks and I that first scan will be an important milestone.

I’ve had a silly accident today. Our big heavy wooden chopping board landed on its corner on my bare big toe... oh my the pain! I now have a black toenail,and I think I may have broken it. I don’t know what I can take for the pain as I’m pregnant. I think I can take paracetamol but that’s my lot. So cross with myself.

Hi ladies,

Wonderful scan news! Congratulations. So reassuring to see and hear a tiny hearbeat.

Still struggling with feeling sick ALL day I didn't have it this bad with my first so its a shock. And not helped by a v active 3yo. My skin is also awful!

Told my parents today, felt I could after a healthy scan on Tuesday. My mum had guessed! So I really must look awful haha! I don't "glow" until about 5 months, and then its downhill with swollen ankles and the like from around 7 months for me!

Congratulations on the newcomers too!

Also, perhaps more for those who have sadly had losses, I was told that a loss after a heartbeat is detected is far less common; so a heartbeat at 7 or 8 weeks is a good indicator that the miscarriage risk has significantly reduced. Does anyone know if that's true??

My scan calmed me down for a few hours, now this negative nellie is thinking how much more heartbreaking it will be to lose the baby after seeing the heart beat today 😅

We are going to book a private scan for next weekend though so oh can hopefully see a heartbeat.

@Sansa87 I was a little like that after our early scan last week! Like little baby is alive as such... but also I'm like it's still out with our control! So just look after yourself, keep calm and try not get worked up is my method.

Every trip to the loo comes with a stare at the paper!! Haha!!

@Laurenemma13 I've had them on and off. They've woke me up at 3am this morning though and I can't get back to sleep. Trying not to worry but they are quite intense!

I was woken by cramps last night too which is a first. They were strong which concerned me

@LittleTiger007 same. I couldn't get comfy or get back to sleep so today is going to be a long day!

They've eased off now but can still feel discomfort.

I had a bad night altogether as I think I broke my toe yesterday and it was throbbing all night. Then at about 4 am I woke with strong, sharp cramps. They have gone now and I don’t have any bleeding. I was convinced in the night that it wasn’t good.
I hope your day gets better @Rumples