Please will someone reassure me!

[Mummy120494]

Ok so I unfortunately had a chemical pregnancy (early miscarriage) last month and it really upset me even though I believe I was only 5 weeks it still really got to me:/

I've now found out a month later that I got a BFP again ! But now I'm just absolutely terrified it's going to happen again I obviously no the chances of miscarriage is at like 20% anyways but have you had the same thing happen and go on to having a healthy pregnancy after a chemical one? Please tell me your experiences and put my mind at ease x

@Mummy120494 oh that’s great! I have a private one booked in 2 weeks, I’ll be 8+3 (I think!) so I’m hoping for abdominal 🤞🏼 Congratulations! Xx

@Grace2296 aw congrats lovey hope everything goes well for you ! Any particular reason why you have an early one booked you suffered a bit of bleeding too ? X

@Mummy120494 on Tuesday evening, I had a small amount of blood on the tissue when I wiped, I’ve had nothing since but just want reassurance. I was told I have a cervical ectropion a few weeks before finding out I was pregnant so hoping it’s that due to hormones! Xx

@Grace2296 I think if you've just had a bit of spotting generally everything is fine if it obviously is bright red and enough to fill a pad then it's probably something to be concerned about but with what you've described sounds similar to what I had was it bright red or was it now rusty ? If that makes sense x

@Mummy120494 really hoping it’s nothing. It was just one small bit of red, it only came onto the paper once and then afterwards was a bit like discoloured discharge for a a few hours, but again, only when I wiped on the toilet 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 Glad yours all turned out ok! 😊 xx

@Grace2296 I'm still getting slightly brown discharge even now but I'm not going to panic about it what will be will be but seeing the heart beat has definitely reassured me !

Try not to worry chances are everything is fine some women just bleed when there pregnant up to 30% of pregnancies have bleeding ! You'll see your little bean soon enough keep me posted on how your scan goes ! X

@Mummy120494 how are you?

@Bl0ndi3 hi I'm
Really well thankyou just two weeks away from being into the second trimester I might finally be able to relax a bit more ! How are things going for you ?? Xx

@Mummy120494 hi lovely
Sorry for delayed response was my 30th at the weekend so been busy and forgot to respond!

Aww that's great news! When's your next scan?

I'm doing ok I'm 9dpo today and got this... not getting my hopes up as it's early only due AF on Tuesday so will see how it progresses xx

@Bl0ndi3 thats ok don't worry hope you had a lovely birthday !

My scan is on the 18th which will be my dating scan !
Looks like I'll be going in alone though unfortunately me and my partner have separated just wasn't working out so pretty scary times will be very hard doing this by myself but plenty of women do it I guess :/

Ohhh fantastic definitely see a line though ! Keeping everything crossed for you hunni keep m updated definitely! :) xxx

@Mummy120494 oh honey I'm so very sorry, it sounds like you've done what's best though!

You will surprise yourself how strong you are and you will be able to do this alone. If you ever need somebody to talk to send me a PM XXX

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