Thanks so much everyone for kind and supportive messages. It does feel so much better knowing a decisions made and it's really given dh a focus for getting the nursery finished
HIWBB - typical surgeon to say ecv isn't that bad, it's just like most men rolling their eyes when we complain about period pain. If men had babies they'd have invented some amazing way to get babies to turn without touching them!! I guess you may have to change your name though, I thought 7lbs at 37 weeks was big, but sounds like you're going to beat me! Oh and of course you turned out fantastic!!! People born on the 13th rock!!!
diddle - I'm glad your baby has turned. I know what you mean about being in a state of disorganisation, I must admit now I've decided on the cs and worked it all through in my head I'd be really thrown if he turned and I had to change my way of thinking again. Gosh that's really selfish, but I've reconciled myself to a cs now, to have to start thinking about a vb again would really throw me!
Orangecat - I hope that placenta moves up, maybe being on mat leave will help
Dal - great link, thanks for that. I've done a new list (well just extended the old one) and added the peppermint tea and other top tips (must remember more clothes for the baby, we'll be there for a few days I guess, he'll need at least three days' clothes!) Sorry to hear ecv has been ruled out for you, despite my decision, if it was what you wanted that's annoying!
Does anyone know the odds of babies turning after 37 weeks? I also get some frantic scrabbling but I'm pretty sure he's stayed put, still got that hard lump under my ribs. I don't think I'll get scanned again before the section so I won't know for sure if he turns last minute unless I feel it (pretty sure I would, he's pretty big!) I'm sure now they've booked me in they won't change unless I beg them to scan me again and reconsider, and to be honest, for the reasons I've outlined above, I'm not keen on changing plans again now I've decided what I'm doing.