@Fivebyfive2 mine definitely comes and goes too! It's so weird and so annoying! It's probably wishful thinking but I wondered if I felt some very faint movement yesterday. It was sort of like a bubble popping/nudge in the middle and on my left side. Could have easily have been in my imagination though 😂. Lovely scan photo so pleased all is going well.
@stormtrooperjulian too much cake is exactly where I am at most of the time! Reassuring to hear yours didn't arrive until 21 weeks though too 😘. Great idea about getting your car cleaned! I've got a Fiat 500 and I don't think I'm going to be able to afford to replace it before baby arrives plus we live in London so it's not really an essential- god knows what baby seat I'll be able to fit in there 😂🤦♀️
@MrsR16 thank you- I do have a bit of a bump but somehow I was just expecting by now to have more of a proper one. I feel like I've been waiting patiently for a bump to arrive for soooo long! 😔
@Tropicana1 I wouldn't worry about sex- as long as it's working for you and DH that's all that matters. We are a bit sporadic with sex anyway to be honest- when we were trying to get pregnant we did it every day but more normal for us is once a week. Since I've been pregnant we've probably done it less than that on average but enjoying it when we do! I have to say I feel slightly weird about it when we do it sometimes- in particular action on my boobs feels slightly odd now when I know my boobs have changed so much for the baby not for him!! I've also noticed some positions are a tiny bit painful so I've got to be a bit mindful of that.
@cupcakesandglitter if you were to go back to the boards in my first trimester I bored everyone silly obsessing about my lack of symptoms and symptoms coming and going (for literally a week or so at a time) and I used to write down all my symptoms including notes of frustration like "no bloody symptoms again today!!!!" And completely worried myself sick basically. Long story short every scan and test I've had has been completely perfect and symptoms are never taken by doctors etc as a sign of anything so even though I know this isn't helpful- try not to worry. Perhaps book in for an early scan privately if you can afford it and would like the reassurance. I hear you though, it's a tough time! I had pretty minimal symptoms all the way through (no sickness at all) so it's not always a sign of things going ok.
@PippaPug so lovely about your babies- I have to admit I'm a teeny bit jealous of you and @MrsEG I think I would love twins 👶🏼👶🏼
@LokiCat how exciting about your pal! All my besties are nowhere near babies yet although I have a few family members and less close friends with babies. Must be lovely to share it with her.
I ordered a few maternity bits from ASOS and it's arrived. Most of it was rubbish (typical ASOS fit and quality 🙄) but the jeans I ordered are great in case anyone is looking for any- I've been missing my jeans- seem to have expanded everywhere!
I'm wfh today- yay! Although I think I'm going to be super busy as I've got loads on at the moment 😔. Happy Friday everyone! Anyone doing anything good?