Catching up with TTC #1, thread 6!

[Fivebyfive2]

Thought I'd start us a new one as thread 5 is almost full! Have tagged as many as I can, sorry if I've missed anyone!! Xxx
@stormtrooperjulian
@thumper59
@TrashKitten10
@Bostonfern
@MrsR16
@Tropicana1
@Bettythecat
@purplefig
@MrsEG
@MrsR16
@ELW85
@daisiesandpeonies
@PippaPug
@cupcakesandglitter

Also tagging some grads, again sorry if I miss anyone,
@Delilah7
@crossfitgirl
@RanchoRelaxo
@cookie0508
@mrsof20118

If I've missed anyone feel free to add tags 😀

@MrsEG, thanks hun! I think it's just a bug, a few people at work had something similar and came in so pretty sure it's that! Cramps have eased off so will just chill and see how it goes. How are you today?

Anyone got bank Holiday plans? Xx

@Lemonysherbet really sorry about the CB, they are a bit rubbish at picking things up early though. Have you been able to test again this morning? I really, really hope you get a positive.

@MrsEG they didn't know what caused my eye floater, but apparently they're pretty common and they said there had actually been a rise in them the month I went in. Probably us Brits not used to all the sunshine. I guess by 28 weeks even doing stuff like walking and super gentle exercise will still be useful and keep everything moving etc. You're right about diet - I'm really not being strict on myself at all and giving myself free reign to eat eggs/cheese if that's what I'm craving. The potatoes were AMAZING. So a normal jacket potato, then taken out of oven when baked, cut in half, scoop out the insides and mix with cheese/sweetcorn/butter/salt/pepper. Then whack back into the skins and bake again until the cheese melts. DIVINE. P.s. glad the tips worked. It's the best feeling isn't it?! What specifically worked...out of interest?!!?

@MrsR16 that sounds fabulous! When did you start to feel movements? What does it feel like?!

@Fivebyfive2 sorry to hear about your chaotic work environment. Small companies can be lovely places to work, but they can also be pretty disorganised with stuff like maternity leave. Could you book in a meeting with your manager to discuss your concerns? I love the name Zack/Zach - I'm a sucker for a Z name! Sorry to hear you're feeling rough this morning - try and rest, drink lots of fluids etc. If you're feeling in any way concerned, ring your midwife though.

@ELW85 totally normal - mine used to balloon up and go super veiny, then in the morning shrink back to normal. Now they are just permanently huge, but they don't hurt at all. Just bloody great big things that get in the way now!!

Any nice weekend plans? We're off on a big extended family holiday on Friday - quite looking forward to a week long break to be honest, it's been ages since I've taken this much time off of work. It'll also be the first time I see loads of family since telling them our exciting news, so that'll be fab.

Hey @purplefig

I retested this morning with a frer and it came back negative and then had a heavy bleed so looks like it's over. Very sad household today but we've got each other so well be ok. Thank you for asking. Hope everyone's ok. I'll be back on here, I just know I will 🥰

@Lemonysherbet I'm so sorry to hear that lovely. I have no doubt at all that you'll be back on here. So glad you and your partner have got each other to help get through this difficult time. Big hugs xx

@Lemonysherbet - I’m so sorry to hear this, take care of yourself and each other during this difficult time

@Fivebyfive2 I actually feel awful myself today! Woke up at 2:30 with hunger pains which made no sense as I had two dinners last night!! Didn’t drift back off til 4 and so I’m exhausted today. Hope you’re starting to feel better!

@purplefig I am salivating at those spuds!! Definitely stealing that one! I couldn’t say for sure what worked as I did a cocktail of things but I had an extra ltr of water (ended up drinking 3 ltrs yesterday), a huge mug of peppermint tea, I had loads of leaves with dinner (mixed dark green salad) and some lentils and then also had a bowl of bran flakes at 8:30 before bed. Also went for a long walk in between meals! Something in there did the trick!!
Enjoy your holiday, the weather next week is supposed to be fabulous!

@Lemonysherbet I am so sorry to hear this. Take the time with your DH to process it all, it’s such a terrible thing to go through. You’re absolute right you’ll be back here soon XX

@Lemonysherbet So sad to read your update be kind to yourself and can't wait to see you back here xx

@MrsEG that's so weird - I woke up at 4am with hunger pains too! And like you, I didn't skimp on dinner either. I do heartily recommend those spuds, super easy to do and great for colder weather. Hahaa glad you're multi-faceted approach worked - freeeedom! Yes fingers crossed for some sunshine next week - but I'll pack my raincoat and wellies just in case .

@purplefig - I am now fancying jacket potato’s tonight!

@MrsEG - Have you decided what buggy your going for? I’m leaning strongly towards the mountain buggy duet (not sure if we will go for the luxury one or not) but the carrycots seem so narrow?! I can’t imagine any child being in there for to long, not past about 3 months max - as their shoulders will be squished against the sides?!

@MrsEG I've almost given up and just going through the motions at work! Only 3 months to go before I go on leave though 😊 I'm glad to see things are moving for you again 😂

@Fivebyfive2 it wouldn't hurt to call your midwife for sure! I was tempted to call mine this morning as I hadn't felt many movements, but Peanut started behaving again so I'm not worried now 😊 see how you go! It's rubbish feeling ill isn't it?

@purplefig I started feeling movement about 17 weeks 😊 the first time was really painful! It was a constant pain in my side, low down almost in my hip... since then, baby's just got stronger! Movements aren't painful, but it feels very weird. It's a similar feeling to if you poke your tongue into your cheek! Everyone is different though, and because baby is sat at the front with nowhere else to grow, that's why it was so strong so early I think.

@Lemonysherbet I'm so sorry to read your news 🙁 we're all thinking of you!

@Lemonysherbet - I’m so, so sorry to hear that. Please be kind to yourself xx

@purplefig - I read somewhere that a lot of women get their first migraines/aura migraines in pregnancy due to hormones.
I get aura migraines about twice a year and have already had one twice this trimester so hoping they settle down!
Those potatoes sound amazing!! Jacket potatoes are my favourite thing at the minute so I’ll definitely be giving those a go :)

@MrsEG - pleased you’re feeling better and your consultant put your mind at rest!

We’re off to the theatre to see Les Mis tonight (having some Indian street food first) - cannot actually wait!!
We’re then off for a weekend away in a log cabin; could really do with a chill.
I hope everyone else has lovely bank holiday plans? Xx

@purplefig I was so hungry I felt sick! Took ages for it to pass, might have to start leaving so snacks next to the bed! Ha very true - never trust a British weather forecast!

@PippaPug We’re definitely going Mountain Buggy Duet; they do look a bit small but the reviews I’ve read have said they do the trick while they’re tiny! I’ve also found a good deal on a full travel system for it, I can send you the link? Keeping an eye on it for any bank holiday sales!

@ELW85 I love Les Mis it’s our fave! We went to see it on our wedding anniversary this year. Enjoy!!

@MrsR16 Sounds like a good plan! As long as you can get your mat leave confirmed, you can just be on countdown!

No big plans for us this weekend - going to a big outdoor farm show tomorrow (with a fancy chicken parade, which I hear is the highlight!) but other than that, nothing. I am going to DH’s rugby gala tomorrow night but I’ve warned him after the dinner I’ll be ready for home and bed! So if he thinks he’s out for the night he’ll be getting a taxi on his own!!

Oh also, we got our 12 week blood results back and low risk for both twins :) So pleased, such a relief to read it!

@purplefig, those potatoes sound epic, will be trying them when I'm better!! Xx

@MrsR16, totally with you about just being on countdown with work and I'm one month behind you! Hope those 3 months so quickly for you xxx

@lemonysherbert, I'm so sorry, look after yourselves and we are all here if you need it xxx

@MrsEG, fancy chicken parade sounds amazing!! Xx

So ladies, I'm watching series 1 of gbbo on Netflix, it's weird to see how it's changed! Definitely feeling better but still running to the loo. Tmi, but my bum is a bit sore now so I've dipped into our supply of sensitive baby wipes 😂 What have I become?!

@MrsEG - I think we are going to go with that one, but not sure if we will get the more expensive one, I’m just gutted how narrow they are - I think I have been very spoilt in my jobs with wonderful wide carrycots for little ones!
What the sales assistant said to us in John Lewis - although the carry cots are suitable for overnight sleep, she suggests not more then a night or two at most because it’s so narrow and more likely to overheat (just incase you were thinking about that) a link would be fantastic thank you so much!
Glad your blood tests came back and it’s a low risk - that’s fantastic! I have had to had my bloods done twice as they mucked up the first time.

@Fivebyfive2 - hope your feeling better now? And enjoying GBBO! didn’t know it was on Netflix and I may have a look in a bit!

Not major plans this bank holiday weekend - our place is back to normal after the wedding and honeymoon and as my ex charges are coming down next weekend so I know need to child proof our home a bit this weekend and sort it all out, they don’t know this but it will probably be their last time coming down due to the twins so I want to make sure they have the best time with us

Afternoon ladies, hope your all well 🥰

I've fallen behind again! This thread moves super fast. Nothing to really update on- heart burn and acid is having my life and I'm drinking gaviscon like water 😂 baby is off like the clappers. My bump feels huge today!

@Lemonysherbet I am so very sorry to read your news. Look after yourself, I'm sure you'll be back on here very soon 💕

@PippaPug I heartily recommend! If you eat fish it's apparently lovely with a tuna/cheese/spring onion combination. Although I know you have to be careful about mercury when pregnant. As you're somewhat of a pro (imho!) what pushchair would you go for if you were just having the one? (I am shameless I know).

@MrsR16 oh wow - I'm 15+3, so 17 weeks isn't a million miles away. Currently sat here poking my tongue into my cheek looking like a right wally!! Do you have a fairly short torso if the baby is sat at the front? I'm pretty short and have a short torso so I feel like I'll end up huge as there's really nowhere for him/her to go.

@ELW85 oh that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. I've had a grand total of three aura migraines in my life and they are utterly horrendous. I'll keep an eye out as I do keep seeing stars etc. and my head is very prone to headaches atm. Definitely give them a go...and be v generous with the cheese!

@MrsEG mate...I was so hungry I got up and prepared myself a snack platter . The dog was beside himself when I trundled into the living room at 4am with food. Fab news about your 12 week blood results, always a relief to hear.

@Fivebyfive2 love how many of you are going to try the potatoes out! Man, I'm nostalgic for Mary Bezza era GBBO. And as much as Mel and Sue irritated me, they had such good chemistry. The two new replacements are just...dry. Absolute LOL at you raiding the sensitive baby wipes stash, I don't blame you at all .

@Lemonysherbet I'm so sorry 🌸 I hope you're taking time to look after yourself xxx

@Purplefig - Defo not a pro, but ask away! After pushing prams/buggies for 13 years I do have my favourites!

Will you have to get a bus/car or just walking to places with baby?

I love the Uppababy Cruz or Vista - although have had more experience with Cruz - smooth pushing, good hood with sun visor, little flap so you can see them when they are world facing, can parent face, adjustable handles, HUGE basket, bassinet is suitable for overnight sleeping (it was 2 years ago for sure and I would be surprised if it’s not now) does fit on buses

Downside - it’s more for city then all over terrain, it can be quite big to fold up and out into a boot - but it’s easy to do

I also like the city mini jogger - although can parent face it’s only when the baby is in a baby carrier, it’s lightweight, good basket, can fold down one handed (if your on a bus etc) can lay down completely flat and almost rocks baby/child to sleep and off the top of my head has a good weight limit (I believe it’s 18kg and a lot will stop at 15kg)

Downside: don’t think handle is adjustable (can be a issue if you and your partner are really different height) not parent facing once out of carrycot.

They were the buggies I was going to get if twins were a singleton, but they had other ideas!

Just a heads up - depending on how much your push your buggy (3/4 hours a day or just 20 mins a day) check the warranty of the buggy - according to John Lewis that although you have a year (or two depending on buggy type) the wheels are only 6 months 🤨 so may be worth paying for a extended warranty if it covers the wheels.
It must be a new thing as before it’s been at least a year on all buggies including the wheels.

Also it’s worth checking if there is a problem
With the buggy and it has to be sent off - will the shop (if you buy in person) give you a replacement whilst you don’t have your buggy (it will be a rubbish one though!) and where the buggy would go to be fixed - Mountain buggy for instance is based in NZ but they have a workshop in the UK, However some brands don’t and will send the buggy off to Europe where it will be fixed - which then could take about 12-16 weeks (have been there once with a buggy and the replacement was terrible!)

Sorry a lot of info there but you tend to use a buggy till the summer after they turn 3 in my experience - even if its for day trips to carry things in and then for them to have a nap! In the winter you just want to get to A to B quickly but in the summer you don’t mind if they want to walk

@Lemonysherbet so sorry to hear your news. Be kind to yourself ❤️

@ELW85 omg enjoy tonight!! I've always wanted to see les mis on stage!

@MrsEG great news about the low risk for both babies!!

@Fivebyfive2 thanks lovely, so do i!

@purplefig 😂 that made me giggle! Yes, I've got a short torso and the placenta's at the back so baby had no choice but to push out! My bump pic for this week is attached (23 weeks). I've just got home and DH has said "I'm sure you're getting bigger every day!" Great, thanks love! 😂

@ELW85 my boobs are so veiny, it's ridiculous

@purplefig I first felt movement at 15 weeks! Felt like a gentle tapping really low down, right above my pubic bone. I got loads of headaches in the second trimester, apparently it's totally normal and just due to the hormones.

@Lemonysherbet I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you and your DH are coping ok

@Fivebyfive2 I love the name Zach! Do you have any witch hazel? Very soothing if you're getting a bit sore

@MrsEG you totally need to keep snacks next to the bed! I kept a packet of digestive biscuits in my bedside table so I could snack when I woke up starving

4 day weekend! Really looking forward to catching up on sleep. We're having a load of people around on Monday for a bbq but have got a few days to prepare everything so shouldn't be too hectic getting ready for that (I hope!)

@PippaPug Here’s the link - cheapest I’ve found the whole lot anywhere! www.online4baby.com/mountain-buggy-duet-v3-double-travel-system-2-carrycots-silver?gclid=CjwKCAjw-vjqBRA6EiwAe8TCk_PR8jf7o2yJwU3_kV5-BWOZ29YF6mSQNbIxNHw_6BEvnMq5fzuFwhoCsGkQAvD_BwE

@thumper59 Oh bless you hope the Gaviscon is working!! I wonder if the rumours are true about bad heartburn and babies with lots of hair??

@purplefig Ha, Oh I so wish I’d gotten up for a midnight feast!! I’ve had two dinners again tonight, don’t know what’s wrong with me!!!

@Fivebyfive2 GBBO has changed so much since series one! I think the ‘melted baked alaska’ series was probably my favourite ever. I just love it - even applied to be on it once!!!

@MrsR16 I swear my bump is about the same as yours 🙈 No one at Pilates believed I was 13 weeks! You’re carrying so nice and neat!

@stormtrooperjulian I’m so glad it’s not just me! Definitely going to invest in some bedside snacks! BBQ sounds fab, especially if the weather forecast is to be believed! Have a ball :)

@Lemonysherbet I'm so sorry again sweet. Take care of yourself. No doubt we'll see you here again soon 💕

@MrsEG @purplefig thanks re discharge. Glamorous world of pregnancy.

@ELW85 mine feel like that some nights! Really heavy and sore at night but then they're just sore when I prod them in the morning.
Your bank holiday weekend sounds brilliant! Enjoy your evening and then your weekend away, how lovely!!

@MrsEG glad you've been feeling lighter today! Nothing worse than feeling bloated and constipated. I always feel really groggy then!
So happy your blood test results have come back all clear and low risk for the twins. Great news!

@Fivebyfive2 sorry to hear you had a bad night and weren't feeling that great this morning. Hope a day in bed has helped you. Sometimes it's just what you need!

@purplefig your twice baked cheese potatoes sound absolutely amazing, I'll definitely have to try them out at home!
I actually had a day last week where I kept seeing floaters. I had a headache all day at work, then when I finally relaxed in bed I kept seeing stars and floaters. I put it down to being tired, but now wondering if I should have maybe made an appointment. It's reassuring that they've said it's common to you.
Enjoy your family holiday! The weather seems to be getting better again, just in time 😊

@MrsR16 your bump is so cute 😍

@stormtrooperjulian definitely BBQ weather, hope it goes well on Monday!

Can't wait for the bank holiday weekend to start, just one more day!! We haven't got any major plans, but it's my mums birthday next Tuesday, so will be going to a nice family dinner on Sunday night.

Oh also, anyone looking for maternity wear - ASOS is doing 20% off everything on their site today (sorry short notice).
I've had a browse and there's such cute things, but I think it's a bit early for me.. might treat myself to some shoes!

Have a lovely evening all xx

Hello lovelies- sorry I've been so absent I've been so busy the last week or so. I'm 16 +3 now and feeling good- think I might FINALLY be starting to get a bump (yay!) and feeling energetic. Boobs so itchy and solid today though so I'm guessing they are going through a growth spurt too 🤦‍♀️

In other baby news my cousin had her baby on Sunday. She's called him Jasper which is super cute. I don't know if you like birth stories but she basically lost her plug at about 11pm and then started contracting almost immediately. She went to hospital but Baby was panicking a bit and heart rate dropped so they prepped her for an C section only to then find she was dilated to 9cm. She ended up having an episiotomy and forceps delivery and it was all over by 3:30am. Crazy. Wasn't the midwife led birth she had planned but it seems you can never plan these things!

@PippaPug I've heard lots of good things about the Uppababy Vista. I like the look of the Icandy too but worry they aren't quite as practical.

@MrsR16 lovely bump- how many weeks are you now?

Sounds like everyone has got lovely chilled bank holiday plans. We were up north visiting family all last weekend so this weekend will be in London doing DIY. DH is going to replace the 80s breeze blocks in the front fence with some wooden fencing and I've got a sudden urge to paint the hallway! I've also just been to have a fringe cut which I've not had in about 10 years! Clearly this baby is making me want to spring clean my whole life 😂