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Buttercup53 · 26/08/2018 16:41

Starting a new thread for the January 2019 crew! Newcomers welcome :)

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HolDaws · 01/11/2018 21:18

People are just annoying 😂😂😂 someone told me I looked like an Easter egg the other day 😫😫

Thamantha · 02/11/2018 16:43

Has anyone started packing a hospital bag yet?

There are lots of lists out there but i still feel overwhelmed just figuring out the basics.

Such as what maternity pads are needed, and whether disposable pants are a good plan (or just a pack from Primark - in which case what size?). Most of the lists say to pack nighties, but i don't own any, is the a reason for nighties rather than pj's? They also say to pack nursing bra's - how do people figure out what size bra they will need?

My brain is just not in gear - and i keep thinking i have ages to organise things, but hearing stories of people giving birth at 36/37 weeks has made me think i need to make a start on getting some bits sorted.

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly · 02/11/2018 17:58

Hi ladies, popping back on with another update. Had lots and lots of growth scans, and unfortunately it's not looking good for our little lady :( she's only measuring at 20 weeks, and weighs a measly 13oz. My consultant has said he expects she'll pass away at some point before my next appointment at the end of this month, as the IUGR is just too severe. Hope everyone else is doing well.

le42 · 02/11/2018 21:03

@Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly I’m so sorry to hear that, can’t imagine how you are feeling. Thinking of you and your family xxxxxxxx

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly · 02/11/2018 23:09

Thank you, it hasn't really sunk in tbh, keep waiting for it to hit me, but maybe it's best I don't fall apart til it's actually happened, it'll do me or anyone else no favours.

Busyfool · 03/11/2018 06:45

@Ironytheopp oh no! Horrendous, devastating news- can honestly say what you are going through is all of our worst nightmares! I don't have any idea how you are possibly feeling but know that you have us to message if you need us. Take care of yourself x

gemsparkle84 · 03/11/2018 09:54

@Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly so sorry to hear that. Xxxx

Pelly8 · 03/11/2018 10:19

@ironytheoppositeofwrinkly I’m so so sorry to hear this. thinking of you xxx

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly · 03/11/2018 18:20

Went for a private scan at Babybond today. She's still happily wriggling about, although my fluid is almost non existent, however, apparently she has 'just enough' due to there being plenty in her stomach, kidneys and bladder. Get a free rescan in 2 weeks also, which is nice :)

Kate123cl · 03/11/2018 18:22

Aww @Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly that's amazing. Fingers crossed for you! X

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly · 03/11/2018 18:23

Tried to post a picture, but it's not posting for some reason :(

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly · 03/11/2018 18:24

:)

Due January 2019 (3rd thread)
emilyp1985 · 03/11/2018 21:36

Hi Ladies Only just joined and I'm due 16th Jan with a little pink princess. I am a first time mum. 💞

Pelly8 · 04/11/2018 16:45

@emilyp1985 welcome!
@ironytheoppositeofwrinkly that’s good news - fingers crossed!

RiskIt4Biscuit · 05/11/2018 18:34

Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly Fingers crossed!

I went to hospital on Friday because I didn't feel like baby was moving as much as he usually has been. I felt faint flutters, not the usual proper kicks. It was all day, and no matter what I did, he just wouldn't kick like he usually does, and I was feeling quite nervous.
I had a scan and so on, and everything was looking good.

My blood pressure worried the consultant who did the scan, so I have to come back to have it monitored once a week or so. It hasn't changed, but he suspects I'm going to end up with pre-eclampsia. I obviously hope he is wrong.

Yesterday, DH and I went on a tour on the maternity ward. I felt overwhelmed by it, but I think it's because I haven't given much thought to labour and all that yet. Some of the other ladies who were there too were asking questions which made it clear that they definitely have thought about what they would like.
I still feel like there are months and months to go.

It was however great to get an idea of everything - we know where it is, where to park, where to go and what the different rooms are looking like.

If your hospital offers a tour, I really would recommend it! I think it took around 40 minutes.

Tomorrow we're going to a 2 hour antenatal class with the local health visiting team. Time really is moving fast! I can't believe there's only around 2 months left!

We've bought a large freezer, so we (I mainly) will start baking and cooking loads to freeze so we don't have to worry too much about food in the beginning. I must admit that I'm really looking forward to all of the cooking.
The plan is to make stews of different kinds, bolognese and soups, bread and buns, and sweet things like cinnamon swirls. I'm thinking that maybe some cookie dough or similar would be nice too, so we can cut and bake them when we feel like it.
Then we only have to heat the food and make pasta/rice/potatoes/vegetables, rather than cook most of the meal from scratch.

Hattie1983 · 10/11/2018 17:09

We went for our 28 week scan yesterday which I thought was because of previous breach but apparently it's to monitor growth although this hasn't really been explained, I can only think it's because of my high bmi. Baby is currently weighing 3lb 3oz at 28+5, think I'm in for a biggun!

harrypotterfan1604 · 10/11/2018 17:15

@hattie I have to have growth scans because of my high bmi too. I’m
Not sure on sizes but 3lb 3oz at 28+5 does sound like you might end up with a big baby 🙈 do you get another at 32weeks? I have mine on Tuesday wondering what baby will be measuring at now. 2lb at my 28 week scan think it was done at 28+4 this one will be 32+4 xx

Starsong82 · 10/11/2018 17:33

Another one with extra growth scans due to BMI here :) 2lb 8oz at 28+1 and I'm booked in for another one at 34 weeks. No idea what size he'll end up but here's hoping head circumference stays lovely and average for us all!

Kate123cl · 10/11/2018 17:43

My BMI at time of booking appointment was 33 but I wasn't asked for any growth scansConfused

Hattie1983 · 10/11/2018 18:03

@harrypotterfan1604 yes got another in 3 weeks. Hopefully it slows down!

harrypotterfan1604 · 10/11/2018 18:18

@Starsong82 it’s funny you should say that about the head....at the scan she had zoomed in on the head but didn’t tell me and I was freaking out thinking Jesus that’s one massive head 😂😂

le42 · 10/11/2018 18:23

I also had a 28 week scan this week, due to low placenta. Baby was 3lbs 8oz which is huge! His measurements are past the 95th percentile, I’m measuring 29cm too which I believe is large. I had a BMI of 25 at 12 weeks when I was measured so goodness knows where this huge baby is coming from!! 🙈

Starsong82 · 10/11/2018 19:24

@kate123cl this might be one of those things that varies slightly by NHS trust, I had a BMI of 36 at booking in which apparently tipped me over into the very obese category (35+) rather then moderately :(

@harrypotterfan1604 lol, that'd give anyone a shock! The head circumference growth chart in my notes is one I've been checking very closely!!

@le42 yikes! Hopefully baby's just had a bit of a growth spurt, I've seen it mentioned several times on this forum though that the fundal measurements/predicted weight can be really inaccurate so who knows how big or small they'll end up!

le42 · 10/11/2018 19:28

Thanks @starsong82 but this is our third scan where his head and abdomen circumstance are actually off the little chart they give! My placenta is low at the moment so it might be a blessing if it doesn’t move... perhaps a c-section would be preferable??

When are you due? Xx

Starsong82 · 10/11/2018 19:50

@le42 that does put a different spin on things doesn't it. Depending how you're measuring closer to your due date and what they recommend you might want a section!
I'm due 13th Jan with my first, how about you?

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