Pregnant!!! FWB but BD don't want to be involved

[Brierley86]

Hello,
I am so confused and really don't know what to do! Got pregnant from FWB and he don't want to be involved! After I find out and told him we still had sex! He tried forcing me to terminate but I decided to keep it! Asked him about his medical history and he answered there is neurofibromatosis and his sister has it. I asked him to talk to me about and how to find out while pregnant if baby will have it? He replied to do my own search and he don't want it and will not be involved then said f**k off and blocked me! I google it but still not clear to me of how to find and decided to find his family and ask! Found for of them on Facebook and messaged them of what he told me and me just looking for some answers and nothing else! Next day he text me that he going to police to report me of me harassing him via friends and family!!! I think I have the right to ask about this unpleasant condition! He called me crazy bitch wow that's fine but still very confused! Any advice, please!?

Legal right

You're one of those people who are incapable of taking responsibility for their own lives, instead getting angrier and angrier with everyone else around you.

This thread is doing you no favours, my friend. I'd leave it now if I was you.

Why would you even expect a FWB to step up and be a father to your child?

OP you have no legal rights to medical information about another adult, even if they are related to you, unless they have given you full consent. In this case his family do not want to engage with you and hassling them can be regarded as harrassment, which they can take legal steps to ensure you leave them alone.

Btw You even have limited legal rights to your own medical information let alone any of your children's.

Yes I have the legal right to inform them and ask questions about NF condition. If they want to answer will if not and that's what case it's ok. I have never send them any other messages so it's not HARASSMENT !!!! Bye bye bye

no - i dont think you have a legal right to inform them and ask questions - he doesn't want to be in contact with you

He tried forcing me to terminate but I decided to keep it!

he don't want it and will not be involved then said fk off and blocked me!

Check the law and then speak. Yes no one can force you do that! So please no leave me alone!!! Got the info I needed so thanks and bye

yes - he cant force you to have a termination, and you havent and thats fine (except for your made up medical condition - yes! i said it!) but he doesn't want you to contact him

Your poor kids. What a mess.

NF doesn't skip generation, so if the father doesn't have NF, your child shouldn't have it, unless he/she has a spontaneous mutation.
He could have 20 siblings with NF, but as long as the father himself doesn't have, stop stressing about NF, and deal with the other issues

God there's some nonsense going on.