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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 09/04/2017 20:59

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.
There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk

If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy#!scenario

I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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pauseplayrepeat · 12/04/2017 17:51

Love your HG cat lemon!
Holly that's madness you have to wait.
Magnum so happy for you that all is well.
Oklahoma what a success! I've been prescribed 8mg of ondansetron a day but the gp said I can take up to the max dose of 16mg if I need it. But I'm not taking any others, not sure if it affects dosages?? What dosage did you get prescribed?

Lemondrop09 · 12/04/2017 17:58

I'm on 4mg pills up to 4 times a day (to the max of 16mg). I generally only take 2 a day though, as I'm trying to cut down and the constipation is miserable. Please pay attention to staying as hydrated as possible or it's not much fun.

LucindaE · 12/04/2017 19:14

Oh dear, indeed, everyone seems to be having an emotionally exhausting day. Cyber pats on offer.
MagnumAddict Lovely news. Congratlulations! Sorry about Roadside Puking, but I'm sure you feel so relieved anyway. Glad my absurdities gave you a laugh.
Lemondrop That's a great obnoxious cat! Much sympathy. Do they say there is noting else they can give you with the Ondansetron? It should not be the case, but they do seem to listen to OH's while dismissing the assertions of the women suffering. Annoying - is this 1932 or something? Lactuluse (sp?) is meant to be good for constipation; could the GP give you that? And those suppositories, which are supposed to be safe in pregnancy, but they won't sell them to pregnant women in chemists - but then they won't sell cyclizine either, proven safe for about forty years...
pauseplayrepeat Waves
Oklahoma I am glad you got no Ginger Recommendations. I think MotherofPearl found ranitindine stopped acid after work sink vomits. I've added you to the roll of honour.
Hollyhop I am glad it was cathartic. Usually there are a number of July babies at the same time, that's odd.

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Melleebacca · 12/04/2017 19:38

Magnum - try not to worry about bump size. I carry ridiculously small and still grow normal sized babies. I get extra growth scans because of it. Congrats on the little girl and good scan, hopefully that helps you a bit emotionally wise.

Oklahoma - I'm on 8mg tabs of ondansetron and have been prescribed one every 8hrs up to 3 times a day, but only take one at 7am and then one at 3pm. Also on laxol for the constipation (the struggle in real).

Holly - I hope you can get some ondansetron soon, I find it helps with the nausea now that I'm further along and not vomiting anymore.

Waves to all. DD isn't teething (yay!), was just a moment of slight cold symptoms, she slept marvelously last night, so feeling a bit more human.

DevilWearsPrimark · 12/04/2017 22:02

Thank you for your advice and kind words, Lucinda and Oklahoma
I have been to the doctors and was prescribed Promethazine. I'm not being sick as often (once or twice a day, rather than every meal), but I am so very groggy with it and still have almost constant nausea. Luckily work is being flexible so I can work from home and go in later than usual- that has been a massive help.
Still eating the ginger biscuits- the crunch makes me feel like I'm eating real food. However, people keep recommending I drink ginger tea, ginger ale, mint tea, where actual medical studies seem to show that it doesn't have an effect. It's a little irritating, and for some people it may prevent them seeking actually medical help where it's required.

HaichM · 12/04/2017 22:41

Hello ladies

Sorry to hear of the new sufferers joining us and the continued struggles.

Does anyone else get fed up of being asked how they are or how they feel? Imy starting to feel like I should have a t-shirt made saying 'dizzy, nauseous, don't ask' or something.

Holly: I have the same thoughts about premature births and I'm sure we're not the only ones hoping for a healthy but early baby. I think it's natural when you suffer through something like this.

Oaklahoma: I've been on 4mg 2x a day until the last few weeks when I've weaned it down to just the morning dose.

Magnum: I was small bump size wise at 20 weeks. I've struggled because I still bloat quite a lot so technically look bigger than I am. No issues with baby's size though so try not to worry. I sought reassurance here and it has helped. Congrats on your baby girl!

Mellee: glad DD is not teething and I wish you well for the next few days. I am sure you will cope. I'm glad the nausea is easing and hope your food aversions start to as well.

Castle: woo! Looking forward to hearing about your trip over the drawbridge and hope all goes well.

My vertigo is still causing the most issues for me at the moment, or whatever it is that makes me dizzy and lightheaded most of the time. Not sure if my nausea has been worse because of baby's movements, hitting 24 weeks or the dizzy spells but I've definitely noticed an increase the last 2 weeks and have started wanting to gag on my food the last few days,now and again. Been pretty bad today. Whoever it was discussing 'good days', I technically have good weeks atm but still have to watch what I do or I pay for it. DS has pretty much had to entertain himself today as I felt so crap and had to lie down away from him as the noise was making things so much worse. Days like today make me really glad he's just turned 6 as I'm not sure how I would cope with a toddler.

Lucinda: I've only been back at work for 3 weeks on phased return and am now off for these 2 for the Easter break. My timetable when I go back in only about 20+ hrs and made up of a couple of classes, some support work and admin time,so hopefully I will cope. If I really struggle I've been told I can go back to part time hours and I've reached the point where it won't affect my maternity pay. However, we still don't know exactly what is happening moving wise and won't know for definite whether we can buy a house until the beginning of May so I have to hold out a while so we can continue saving. I also had to move back my physio appointment because of work and won't be seen until 10th May. Fingers crossed the SPD worsening continues to be very slow.

Someone mentioned sore boobs. Mine were very sore and itchy at the beginning and then I've had a few weeks without suffering too much. The soreness and itchiness is now back so maybe there is a link between them and the nausea. I'm going to finally purchase a non-wired bra as I don't think seams and things are helping the situation.

Someone also said about bursting into sobs suddenly. There was a period of a few weeks where that kept happening to me. I put it down to stress and hormones and generally feeling crap. Not really happened since,though if I'm feeling particularly rubbish I do feel a very strong urge to cry. Just go with it. Your body knows what it needs and sometimes a quick release of tears helps.

Some good news though - my hair doesn't seem to be falling out anymore and baby and I both got the all clear from the midwife, which was nice to hear.

Anyway, sorry for the long post, I will try to reply more often again as it definitely helps keep me going. Not sure where I would be without this thread.

Take care everyone

Melleebacca · 12/04/2017 23:53

Haich - lovely to hear things are improving for you. Keep resting when you can. The dizziness and lightheadedness is caused by low blood pressure for me. Nothing really helps it, and the midwife isn't concerned but it's a real annoyance.

DVP - oh how I wish we had Primark here in NZ. I think the promethizine (sp?) does have the side effect of drowsiness, so if it gets too much, maybe ask for other meds? But if it's working and you're happy with it, it's easier to continue.

Castle - so excited for the next baby arrival.

Holly & Haich - I so get the hoping for the early arrival. I know I will be induced 10 days after my due date, so I'm counting down to that and any earlier arrival will be a pleasant surprise. But 140 days to go still feels like an eternity.

LucindaE · 13/04/2017 10:34

HaichM I am so glad to hear that your hair has stopped falling. I was ill last autumn, and it came out in handfuls a few weeks later. Now it's stopped and I'm waiting for it to come back. It's very upsetting. In pregnancy, of course, it's complicated by hormones. Lucy on this thread a few months ago had it badly, but its growing back for her too. I'm glad, too, that you've got the Easter break coming up. All luck with the house. I think people ask 'how do you feel'? all the time because they want to show they care - but if you feel awful that can annoying, particularly if they ask it in a brisk 'surely you're better by now' sort of way, and also its annoying if people don't ask! I am guilty about asking that on this thread - not, I hasten to ask, in a brisk 'you must be better by now' sort of way...
Melleebacca I am glad things are well, sort of jogging along - but the dizziness must be dismal. I hope baby arrives early! Glad that wasn't teething. You must look elegant with a small bump, anyway.
Devil Much sympathy on the continuing nausea and vomiting which is still at a level to horrify most. It's a shame that so often, the drugs control the level of vomiting, but not the nausea.
I hope everyone is coping, more or less...

Devil Much sympathy about your dizziness, too.

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Lemondrop09 · 13/04/2017 12:27

Hope everyone is having a better day today.

Devil - I fully sympathise with the promethazine making you groggy. I can barely function on it, to the point that I'm in a quandary about even taking it Confused

I'm having a good day so far today. I'm now off work till Tuesday. We've made no plans, we're both exhausted and just want to try and spend some chill out time together. I'm probably going to regret this, but I've hoovered the house and I'm going to have a rest before tackling the kitchen. I know I shouldn't push it, but poor old DH is exhausted from doing everything and he's never complained. I know he's looking forward to Easter break, so I thought it would be a nice surprise if I could get some chores done before he gets home from work. I'll chuck the washing on too. We'll see if I manage the bathrooms or not.... He'll still having to walk the dog as that's too much for me. Hoping this won't send me crashing backwards tomorrow though, don't want to spend the first day of our break vomiting!

LucindaE · 13/04/2017 13:31

Lemondrop Mother Hen flap sand clucks and says 'Don't overdo it.'
That's too much. Remember, in fifty years, what is going to be important - that you enjoyed a special break together, or that you had dust on the floors?

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Lemondrop09 · 13/04/2017 14:16

Yes Miss sits down quietly Grin

Would be easier to leave stuff if our dog wasn't so damn hairy. He makes such a mess, is very hard to ignore!

I have stopped to rest now. Didn't get as far as the bathrooms.

HaichM · 13/04/2017 16:09

Lemon: I second that. I'm sure he'll appreciate that you did the hoovering and whatever else you've done but I bet he's also looking forward to time with you. The hoovering is something I have avoided. I try and get the washing and ironing and washing up done whenever I can now I'm feeling a bit better.

Hope everyone is doing OK today. I have had a good day and spent some quality time with DS which has cheered me up a bit after yesterday.

MagnumAddict · 13/04/2017 17:53

Lemon I so understand the will is there to help out. I found myself mopping the floors today which will be completely unexpected and was exhausted after! It's also nice to pretend to yourself you can carry on as normal but glad you stopped before you overdid it. Mother hen is right!!

Thanks melleebacca and those of you who have reassured me about the small bump. Comparison is the thief of joy as they say so will try to stop comparing to my first pregnancy and just be grateful all Is healthy with the baby.

Haich so nice to hear you have had a better day

Hollyhop17 · 13/04/2017 19:13

Hi all, I hope you've had good days. We all seem to have done some housework today! I hoovered and did some washing up and a quick clean of the bathroom. Felt a bit knackered after but not too bad. Only been sicl 3 times today (1 incident) and the nausea has been there but bearable.

DHs mother and aunt came up today to take us baby shopping so have been able to do some positive things for a change! Got travel system, car seat, play mat, bouncy chair and lots of cute clothes! So feeling very organised. Now im sat here, the nausea has ramped up a bit but definitely a better day than the rest of this week.

Dont have my appt until Wednesday for ondanestron, so not happy about that. Although promethazine doesnt make me as groggy as some others so there's something.

I hope everyone has a good long weekend.

LucindaE · 13/04/2017 22:06

Lemondrop Grin Mother Hen is glad to hear that! All those feeling better, I'm glad you are pacing yourselves...
Pleased to hear you feel a bit better today, Hollyhop.
Waves to all...

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LucindaE · 14/04/2017 17:44

Mother Hen has some more bossy advice- guess what? Don't rush back to work or be in too much of a hurry to come off those meds, etc etc. 'Play another record' Grin. ..Yes, and let those who are powered on a sugar high of Hot Cross Buns and Easter Eggs take over the domestic tasks for the holiday break.
I hope everybody is surviving.

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katemeister · 14/04/2017 17:50

Mother hen that has made me cry, I was just coming to post about having a low couple of days. Thank you.

Hollyhop17 · 14/04/2017 17:54

Im at some family and need to leave early as I forgot my medicine Sad. Gutted as its so nice to be out of the house, but been sick here already and starting to feel very nauseous. God I wish this illness would do one...

Sorry to hear you're feeling down Kate. I hope you're taking it easy. Hugs to all.

Melleebacca · 14/04/2017 19:23

This is quite seriously the longest pregnancy ever. Spent a bit of last night gagging over the bathroom sink thinking how I am over this and 4 and a half months is still an eternity.

Holly - sorry you had to go home. I often forget to take my meds with me and feel so much worse because of it.

Lucinda - probably should've read that before going for a family walk with the dog and then spending the rest of the morning in bed. Will rest more today.

Kate - everything you're doing is enough. Growing a human and keeping yourself alive is all that's on your to do list. Keep it up.

LucindaE · 14/04/2017 20:24

Cyber pats, katemeister didn't want to make you cry! Much sympathy to Melleebacca for awful washbasin retching and to Hollyhop too.
It is extra hard during festive occasions.

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Oklahoma · 15/04/2017 07:40

Nothing positive to say today.
Ondansetron hasn't helped as much as I had hoped. Still being sick, still feel sick but have now added a terrible headache to the mix too.

So fed up.

Hollyhop17 · 15/04/2017 09:23

Sorry to hear that Oaklahoma. How long have you been on it? Others that are on it, did it work straight away or take a bit of time?

I was sick quite a few times yesterday and I thought the being sick was easing off again. I think Lucinda is right, it is extra annoying being so ill when everyone else is off. I feel like I will have wasted my long weekend (and the previous week off) because I've felt so rubbish. I hope your day improves, hugs.

katemeister · 15/04/2017 09:51

Oh that is rubbish Oklahoma false hope can be crushing, to be feeling worse when you imagined to get some respite.....no wonder you are fed up. Hopefully someone with more experience of the meds can give some advice.

You are right about the bank holidays making it worse Holly that's why I think I've felt so low. I'm still in bed and can hear DH and DD pottering around happily downstairs after we all watched Tangled in bed together this morning. Trying to take pleasure in these small things.

Lucinda - it was a good cry, the kind words everyone is sharing on this thread really do help.

MagnumAddict · 15/04/2017 12:05

Another one feeling a bit low today, think because there is a holiday feeling and the sun is shining but I just have no energy.

I've not been sick, don't even feel particularly nauseous for once but it's like I'm in a tiredness fog. Slept later this morning but it felt necessary as opposed to leisurely if that makes sense?

It's put me in a really bad mood and I've been snappy with dh which is so unfair as he is so patient with everything. Just serves to make me feel rubbish.

On an unrelated note does everyone still manage to keep on top of grooming? By that I mean hair washed legs shaved etc if that is normally your thing? I have seriously and I mean seriously let myself go!!!! Shock I'm wondering if that's getting me down too. I can't face it but I'm wondering if I try and tackle my forest legs and give myself a blow dry, maybe put some make up on it might perk me up a bit. Don't know if I can be bothered though!!!

Hollyhop17 · 15/04/2017 12:34

Magum, in a word, no. I have forced myself to wash my hair this morning and I wont lie, it is getting on for 3 weeks since the last wash. I havent had a wax since I found out I was pregnant and I am living in the same 4 or so outfits. I too am feeling really down about my appearance today. I am certain I will never get that elusive 'pregnant glow'. My boobs have massively grown as well, I'm up 4 cup sizes and cant handle bras with an underwire, so my boobs look like horrible blobs on too of my massive bump. I have never felt more unattractive or useless in my life. With another 14 weeks to go, I dont know how to cope with feeling like this.

Also feeling absolutely horrendous this morning, not been sick but so nauseous. Not sure I feel any better for washing my hair and it was a massive effort so if you arent as gross as me and left it as long, I reckon dont bother...

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