Staying posifrickentive- Thread 15 for ladies pg after mc

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Hya ladies, hope you find this!
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Yay hazard. So happy for you.

Congratulations Haz! Glad it went well.

I'm sorry you're having a tough time of it Grain. If you need a wobbly day or two then take it, we're all here to listen. I can't believe you're 20 weeks tomorrow! That's a huge deal

I'm doing ok. 17+4 today and looking forward to another reassurance scan next week then only 2 weeks to my 20wk scan. Really hoping I am starting to feel some movements now and not wishful thinking just want them to get more pronounced and then that will be reassuring to be prodded from the inside!

Thanks ginger and say. Not long til your 20 week scan now Say! How exciting x

I'm glad your scan went well Haz.

Sadly things weren't so positive for me so I shall be bowing out now. There hadn't been as much growth as there should have been and she could no longer see the heartbeat. I've got to go for another scan a week today before they will confirm it and let me go ahead with medical management but she was quite clear she doesn't think it is a goer. So that makes miscarriage number 4 for me.

Thank you for the support the past week. I wish you all well for the remainder of your pregnancies and fingers crossed for lots of happy, bouncing babies. Hopefully I'll be back one day but not sure either DH and I can face trying again.

Oh no keeponrunning, I was rooting for you, I'm so so so so so sorry my love x

@Hazandduck lovely photo! Really pleased for you. Not to be rude, do you realise your photo has your full name on it?

@keeponrunning85 my heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry this has happened 💐

I'm so sorry keepon. I second what the others have said, heartbroken for you. Words just don't cut it at times like this xx

Oh god no I didn't! I was too excited to even realise. Oops. There goes my anonymity...And it has my birthday on it! Well there I am 😬 Do you think I should delete it sock? X

I'm so sorry keep. I hope you and DH can seek solace in each other and maybe we'll see you here again soon.

@Hazandduck I think you need to report your post and the MN HQ will delete it. You can crop it and send it to us again

Haha have reported it now! Thanks for the heads up!

It's weird because I've not shown anyone else in real life the pictures apart from my boss who knew about the scan and was on tenterhooks. I didn't even think. I also had to tell my dressmaker today because I had a dress fitting and my original wedding dress had the teensiest bodice ever which I will not be able to wear for my wedding if I am about 6 months pregnant. She was over the moon for me though which made it so much easier to tell her, we both got a bit emotional as she was making my dress last year when I miscarried and she knows how badly we want this, even at the cost of a dream wedding dress, a healthy bump is worth so much more x

keep so sorry, and that you have to go through this week of 'limbo' too. Take good care of yourself xx

Thank you all for your kind words.

@Hazandduck ohhh you are getting married! How exciting! I love weddings. How are the rest of your plans?

I am so excited It's in August and it's coming round so quickly it's quite scary! It's coming along well thank you. It's a pretty homemade affair, I've made all the invites (all handdrawn it took foreverrr) and the favours we made jam from my parents' plum orchard. Cheap and cheerful! Ha.

We are getting married in a field at my mum and dad's, which was absolutely overgrown and wild, so it's taking a lot of work landscaping it all. I feel a bit bad that I just sit on my butt telling the men what to do haha. But not bad enough to get off said butt...I love weddings too, I'm going to be so lost after ours is over! X

I handmade loads of stuff for my wedding too! One was down to lack of money, two was that I wanted it to be our wedding and to reflect us!

Sounds like you have it all under control. I found that people were very opinionated about how our wedding should be. My PIL divorced many years ago and MIL didn't want to sit on same table as FIL. She suggested that me and hubby sat on a table by ourselves instead of having a top table. I ignored her and unveiled my hand drawn seating plan on the day

I'm feeling great this morning, the sun is out and I'm going to Aldi to see if I can do our weekly shop cheaper to save money for the baby.

keep so sorry to read this, thinking of you xx

Hey, I'd been wondering where this thread was.
So I got my positive test on Tuesday. Two months after MC at 6 weeks. I previously had a MMC that I discovered at 9 weeks and had surgical management at 10 weeks (2013). In between I had DS (now 19 months). Feeling unsurprisingly anxious at the moment.

Sounds so frivolous but here goes...

I can't remember if it was Amy or someone else who'd PP about the horrid terrifying dreams... mine are getting worse and I know that they don't qualify as "night terrors" but they are tortuous and sinister and knock me sideways for much of the morning when I wake up.

You know it's a problem when you get one night off the horror and wake up punching the air cos you dreamt about discussing carbonara on a bus with Ed Sheeran.

Is it just me?

Hello all.

21 weeks today and feeling BIG! I'm also really struggling with food again, I don't know why. Ever so thirsty though.

keep I am so sorry to read your news. Look after yourself xx

haz your wedding sounds fab! Will you be changing the style of your dress then? I still miss wedding planning even though I've been married a good few years though!

Welcome doctordonna. Best of luck. You'll get loads of support here, it's an anxious time.

Hi all hope you're all ok...

Keep so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

Welcome doctor and congrats.

Legend it was me and someone else I can't remember who now with the horrible dreams. Mine are also getting worse. They're waking me more and more often now, I wake up sweating and with a racing heart it's awful! I've tried cutting some things out of my diet to see if it helps but it hasn't!

I've still not caught up with everyone's posts, the thread is moving so fast I don't know where I am now!

This weeks symptom is memory loss for me which is not good! I'm so confused over the littlest things that are normally simple!

How many weeks are you now Amy? (If you can remember )

Legend I'm 14+2 now. I started to get the dreams intermittently before I even found out I was pregnant! The other night I had a dream that I had a girl but my mum took her off me. She then planted her in a pot and was watering her like a flower! I dream a lot that dd1 is dead and I'm shaking her trying to wake her up and that she's been kidnapped. Also dreamt she had a cats head rather than her own. So so strange!

Oh and I think I've lost my car keys! I walked in from work an hour ago and now don't know what I've done with them! 😂😂 this memory thing is embarrassing!

After turning the whole house upside down looking for my keys... DH found them in the fridge on top of the butter! This is only going to get worse isn't it?! 😖