Hi everyone, I've been off the thread for ages, lots I've missed I see!
Good luck fraggle and crab with your scans.
My news is I had a good Harmony result nearly 2 weeks ago now, that was a bit of a moment, opening the email in the toilets in the middle of a busy working day! Had to get lots of stuff done first knowing the result was waiting for me as I didn't know what state I'd be in afterwards. Massive relief.
Still the worries go on though, it's hard after a second trimester loss. 16+3 today.
Have bought some maternity clothes too mistletoe. My bump's pretty big, previously I might have muddled through but I've learnt all you do then is stretch clothes that you then won't be able to wear afterwards!
Crossed the bridge of telling parents in law at the weekend. All a bit weird as I've had a few issues with the way they responded to my last loss. They're all a bit 'so everything's fine this time then?' And don't understand how difficult it is. I think it's hard unless you've been through something similar, that's why this thread's so good.
Oh and I'm having very slight movements, it's the faintness of them that makes them quite distinctive. Wind's much more obvious! So now I'm watching out for them every day. AAaargh!
I've got massive waits between scans, starting to feel I must be setting some sort of record for scan to anxiety ratio. Just 13 weeks and 22 for me! Seems strange to be treated as officially 'normal' scan wise when I'm pushing 43 with a previous problem pregnancy but hey ho.
Sorry, babbling on a bit. Will keep up with the thread better in future!
Good luck guys. Hope the nausea gets better Lolly.